388: Building your life how YOU really want it

I'm glad you are here! Here's a summary of the steps to creating the life you actually want to live: 1. Pay attention to your self-talk. You get to choose whether you believe it or not. 2. Remember that when people feel good, they do good things. If someone isn't doing a good thing it's because they feel bad. 3. Cultivate feeling good by choosing to… Not the other way around. I.e. it's not "good things happen so I feel good"… It's "when I feel good, good things happen" 4. Ask, how might you cultivate feeling good? Here's how I do it… Much love, Kay PS As of this month I am retiring my newsletter… After writing it for 7 years I'm understanding that it's not the best place for me to place my creative energy. I have a huge THANK YOU for those of you who have been a part of the newsletter! Corresponding with you is a joy in my life. I want to celebrate that in this moment. I'm celebrating you right now This link will take you to lots of options for connecting with me even after the last issue of my newsletter is published… http://kaylockkolp.com/weekly Links for today's episode: 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card The Adventure Zone My favorite tarot deck, The Gill Tarot I'm so excited to share my new website! It's hosted by dear friends of ours, people who babysat our firstborn when he was four months old. It feels so good and streamlined with why I'm building my life right now: http://kaylockkolp.com http://kaylockkolp.com/writings for essays, my book Positive Discipline Ninja Tactics, and every single 2021 issue of the We Turned Out Okay Playbook My website's art page is LIVE!! So you can see some of what I am creating : ) Thank you for being here! It means a lot! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kaylockkolp.substack.com/subscribe