39. Alan Evans on Imposter Syndrome, Fear, and the Art of Great Coaching

DISC Profile: Green & Blue (IC&S) | In episode 39 of the "It Starts with YOU" podcast, host Vic O'Farrell sits down with Alan Evans, a principal learning consultant, to explore the impact of self-awareness and personality on personal and professional life. The conversation dives into how understanding one's own behavioural style can influence relationships, team dynamics, and leadership effectiveness. Alan discusses his identity as an "introverted extrovert," and shares insights on how personal strengths can sometimes clash with others, especially in high-stakes business environments. A central theme is the importance of psychological safety, creating environments where people feel respected and included, allowing them to open up and perform at their best. Practical strategies emerge on managing anxiety before presentations, building trust within teams, and approaching difficult interactions with empathy and curiosity. Throughout, the episode emphasises ownership over one's impact, the value of perspective-taking, and the lifelong journey of learning from both highs and lows. Listeners are left with advice on embracing self-awareness and connecting authentically with others, reaffirming the podcast's core message: meaningful change always starts with you.  "It Starts with You" podcast is available everywhere on Wednesdays every fortnight.  If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a rating and review! Thank you, Vic.      Let's Connect! Follow Vic O'Farrell via the Queen of Behaviours  Instagram - @vicofarrell LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoriaofarrell/ Email – [email protected] Website - www.queenofbehaviours.com   For updates on new episodes and everything podcast related Watch the podcast on YouTube:  www.youtube.com/@queenofbehaviours Instagram - @itstartswithyoupodcastqob Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/queenofbehaviours TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itstartswithyoupodcast LinkedIn Page - https://www.linkedin.com/company/queenofbehaviours/ Website - www.queenofbehaviours.com/podcast   About the Guest Meet Alan, the go-to expert for Learning & Development that actually lands, lasts, and leads to real change. With 29 years of experience and 3,000+ learning events delivered across multiple industries, cultures, and neurodiverse audiences, Alan doesn't just train—he transforms. Whether you're a C-Suite exec, HR leader, or team manager, Alan makes complex ideas stick by translating them into engaging, relatable, and actionable learning. Here's why organisations work with Alan: He breaks down complexity into lightbulb moments. He connects, not lectures – you're part of the experience. Every session is tailored, practical, and rooted in real goals. He maximises ROI by ensuring every learning minute counts. He understands the nuances of behaviour, culture, and neurodiversity—and brings everyone along for the ride. If you want to turn training into transformation, Alan's your guy.   Socials: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanievans Email: [email protected]