41 | Stuck in Survival Mode After Divorce, Loss, or Life Crisis? Here's Why You Can't Force Yourself to Move On

If you've been through divorce, loss, or a major life crisis and you just can't make yourself move forward — no matter how hard you push — this episode explains exactly why. You're not broken. You're not failing. You're in a phase. And until you know which one, you'll keep trying to force productivity that isn't ready to come yet. In this episode, Lisa covers: Why people get stuck after divorce, job loss, empty nesting, or any life-altering event — sometimes for years The hidden reason skill-building and "working on yourself" can actually keep you stuck in the same place How to stop blaming yourself for not being productive and start asking the one question that actually moves you forward What you'll learn: The 3 phases every person moves through during crisis or major life change: Survival Mode, Stress Management/Coping, and Growth — and exactly what you're seeking in each one Why forcing yourself into productivity when you're still in survival mode always backfires, and what to do instead The "out and back" method Lisa used at a live conference to push her nervous system forward without crashing — and how to apply it to your own life How unhealthy coping skills (food, alcohol, over-exercising, constant learning) show up in Phase 2 — and how to recognize when you're stuck there Lisa's personal breakdown of her own divorce journey through all three phases — and what she identified she was missing that finally gave her relief If you feel stuck after a divorce, a loss, or any major life crisis and you keep asking yourself why you just can't seem to get it together — this episode is for you. You're not behind. You're not weak. You're in a phase that has a name, a reason, and a way through it — and now you have the map. READY FOR YOUR NEXT STEP? 📞 Want to work through this one-on-one? Book a private coaching session with Lisa https://www.lisagrace.me/speaking/coaching Connect with Lisa: Instagram: @thejourneytojoynetwork Website: lisagrace.me