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EPISODE · Jun 19, 2025 · 12 MIN

41 - The One Question Not to Ask Someone Struggling With Addiction

from Addiction Makes Three

We’ve all done it: “Have you been drinking?” or “Did you use?” But asking this question rarely gets you the truth, and it keeps you stuck in the same painful cycle.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why that question shuts down honesty and connectionThe better way to approach communication when addiction is presentWhat to focus on instead (hint: your wellbeing and boundaries)For spouses and loved ones who are looking for resources and support:If you haven’t the Crisis Conversation Guide (What to say and what not to say when addiction takes over) ? Grab it now—it’s free and full of practical scripts to help you say what you mean (even when it’s messy):👉 Download the guideYou can also book a friendly, no-pressure chat with Amanda and explore what support might look like - without doing this alone, because you know you’ve been trying ‘that way’ for long enough by now.👉 Book in a friendly chat - Click here to find a time and let's talk about what's possible📝 Or join the waitlist for Pathway to Wellness, my signature program designed to help you rebuild your life alongside (or beyond) a loved one’s addiction.Your peace matters. And you’re closer than you think. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all done it: “Have you been drinking?” or “Did you use?” But asking this question rarely gets you the truth, and it keeps you stuck in the same painful cycle.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why that question shuts down honesty and connectionThe better way to approach communication when addiction is presentWhat to focus on instead (hint: your wellbeing and boundaries)For spouses and loved ones who are looking for resources and support:If you haven’t the Crisis Conversation Guide (What to say and what not to say when addiction takes over) ? Grab it now—it’s free and full of practical scripts to help you say what you mean (even when it’s messy):👉 Download the guideYou can also book a friendly, no-pressure chat with Amanda and explore what support might look like - without doing this alone, because you know you’ve been trying ‘that way’ for long enough by now.👉 Book in a friendly chat - Click here to find a time and let's talk about what's possible📝 Or join the waitlist for Pathway to Wellness, my signature program designed to help you rebuild your life alongside (or beyond) a loved one’s addiction.Your peace matters. And you’re closer than you think. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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