#42 Ask A Sub: Lina Dune on Feminist Submission, CNC & the Art of Surrender

Can surrender be feminist? In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Lina Dune — writer, educator, and host of the hit podcast Ask A Sub — about the psychology of submission, feminist desire, and the edges of consensual non-consent.We discuss: • How Lina reframes submission as self-discovery, not self-abandonment. • What makes feminist surrender so psychologically rich. • The emotional truth behind CNC and exploring dark fantasy safely. • How CNM can deepen honesty and communication in relationships. • Why kink can be a mirror for both chaos and self-creation. • The lessons Lina has learned from Ask A Sub about community and growth. • A message for anyone learning to trust their desire.Research discussed: On the Margins: Considering Diversity Among Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to be part of edgy research exploring the qualitative nature of the female orgasm? Anyone can participate! Take the Her Climax Code Female Orgasm Survey and contribute to the #02 Psychology of Desire Case File on female orgasm released later this month. ⁠⁠Link here.⁠⁠Psychology of Desires first course is NOW available: Activate Your Desire explores your unique erotic psychology. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Link here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you.Thanks for listening!Stay perverted,EmmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.