#42 Why Action Should Come Last in Your Move Abroad & What to do First Instead

There's a mistake I see people making all the time in their move abroad plans—and most don't even realize it's a mistake. They start with action as the first step, when action should actually be the last step. In this episode, I'm breaking down the two crucial phases that need to happen before you take action, so you don't end up overwhelmed, anxious, and confused in your move abroad journey.Tune in to learn: The Action Phase Trap – What jumping straight into action looks like (researching countries, applying for jobs abroad, hiring immigration lawyers, starting visa paperwork) and why starting here actually makes you less likely to follow through.Phase 1: Clarity – Getting clear on your move abroad vision, your unique why (beyond just "I want to leave"), and your core values. This is your foundation—without it, you're decorating a house that doesn't exist yet. Clarity helps you make decisions aligned with YOU and shut out outside noise and opinions.Phase 2: Preparation – Addressing the practical parts (budgeting, understanding how to choose a country, identifying skill gaps, creating realistic timelines) AND the emotional/mindset parts (nervous system regulation, managing "what if" spirals, building confidence). Think of this as building a bridge to your life abroad instead of jumping and hoping you land on your feet.Why Action Works When It Comes Last – When you've done the clarity and preparation work first, action feels natural and fluid. You're not forcing yourself—you're ready. You make better decisions about which country to choose, which jobs to apply for, who to network with, and how to use your immigration consultant's advice effectively.Ready to get clarity on your move abroad?Book a free 30-minute consult call with me: https://calendly.com/coachwithmm/30minConnect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marymarthakipcak/Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithmm/