#42 Why I Put Myself in Situations That Make People Dislike Me

What if the reason you’re not growing as fast as you want isn’t a lack of confidence - but a nervous system that associates disapproval with danger?In this episode, I share a recent real-time experience of deliberately putting myself in a situation where I knew I might be disliked, and what it revealed about visibility, approval, and expansion. We talk about why criticism can feel so threatening, how your nervous system quietly keeps you small, and why real growth often requires intentional exposure to discomfort.If you’re someone who wants more visibility, impact, or leadership in your life or business, this episode will help you understand what’s actually required to hold it.✨ Free Training: Make It InevitableLearn how to shift from “wanting” to “having” and make your goals inevitable:👉 https://stan.store/drshirilider/p/make-it-inevitable💋 God’s Favorite - my 40-day frequency + identity + embodiment experienceDesigned for people with huge potential who want to stabilize trust, self-conviction, and momentum.👉 https://www.shirilider.com/gods-favorite🧠 The Recode Method - learn how to decode and dissolve subconscious blocks behind repeated patterns and delays, and call in your desired reality in 10 minutes a day (50% off for podcast listeners only!)👉 https://stan.store/drshirilider/p/the-recode-method-podcast-link🤍 1:1 Mentorship & Intuitive WorkDM me SOVEREIGN on Instagram (@drshirilider) or email [email protected]✨ Let's connect:⚡️Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drshirilider/⚡️ Join the Manifestation Accelerator Waitlist: https://www.shirilider.com/⚡️Email: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⚡️Join my newsletter to be notified when new offers, podcast episodes, and courses become available - and have first dibs, always! (click the link and scroll all the way down to join): https://stan.store/drshirilider