45. Playing to Win | Chris Marhefka

Why do men avoid relationships in favor of video games? Our guest, Chris Marhefka, shares some insights into the masculine brain and how women can motivate and inspire their male partners to engage in their relationships instead of disappearing to play video games or other "zoned out" activities. Taking a deep look at ourselves when we're already in pain in our relationships is hard, courageous, and it can be just what we need to flip the switch in our relationships. "Playing to Win" means giving our partner a chance to be victorious, to feel valued, appreciated, and acknowledged. When you "play to win" you clearly communicate what you want from him and where he is doing a good job. Get the full shownotes and links to resources mentioned at https://keeptalkingrevolutionpodcast.com/ep-45