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EPISODE · Nov 26, 2025 · 40 MIN

450: Why Women Secretly Crave to Be Claimed, Dominated, and Desired (And Why Men Aren’t Stepping Up)

from Feminine as F*ck · host Monica Yates

The conversation most people are too scared to have, especially in today’s world… You’re not crazy for wanting to be claimed. You’re not broken for craving to be pushed up against a wall, devoured, and told “𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦” (by a safe man). And today’s episode will explain the fact that you’re definitely not alone in these desires—there’s biology, research, polarity, and lived experience that help explain exactly why women, especially powerful women, crave this level of masculine presence and leadership. INSIDE THE EPISODE:🔥 The primal craving that most women are ashamed to admit🔥 How equality killed polarity (and what to do about it)🔥 The hidden cost of “doing it all” and why your body is begging to let go🔥 How your masculine energy might be training him to stay passive🔥 Why your desire to be dominated is actually a sign of inner safety🔥 The hormonal ripple effect of being in your masculine all day🔥 Embodied submission vs performative femininity🔥 Why men are pulling away (and how you can call them forward)🔥 What you actually need to shift if you want to feel feminine, desired, and turned on again +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Tune into the free masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Get your early access ticket now (or join the waitlist) — 2026 The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — HER Year (2026): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 323: How To Be "Empoweredly Submissive" In Your Relationship, Business, & Manifestations: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/323-how-to-be-empoweredly-submissive-in-your-relationship-business-manifestations-aka-everything-you-need-to-know-about-softening-into-your-feminine-boundaries-and-trauma ⇢ Check the IG Reel on women getting so desperate they’re stealing men’s salads: https://www.instagram.com/p/DRN2_NiD05O/ ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fHt7JfIqi0I?si=Ll39i7NTA9ofM8kU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer

The conversation most people are too scared to have, especially in today’s world… You’re not crazy for wanting to be claimed. You’re not broken for craving to be pushed up against a wall, devoured, and told “𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦” (by a safe man). And today’s episode will explain the fact that you’re definitely not alone in these desires—there’s biology, research, polarity, and lived experience that help explain exactly why women, especially powerful women, crave this level of masculine presence and leadership. INSIDE THE EPISODE:🔥 The primal craving that most women are ashamed to admit🔥 How equality killed polarity (and what to do about it)🔥 The hidden cost of “doing it all” and why your body is begging to let go🔥 How your masculine energy might be training him to stay passive🔥 Why your desire to be dominated is actually a sign of inner safety🔥 The hormonal ripple effect of being in your masculine all day🔥 Embodied submission vs performative femininity🔥 Why men are pulling away (and how you can call them forward)🔥 What you actually need to shift if you want to feel feminine, desired, and turned on again +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Tune into the free masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Get your early access ticket now (or join the waitlist) — 2026 The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — HER Year (2026): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 323: How To Be "Empoweredly Submissive" In Your Relationship, Business, & Manifestations: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/323-how-to-be-empoweredly-submissive-in-your-relationship-business-manifestations-aka-everything-you-need-to-know-about-softening-into-your-feminine-boundaries-and-trauma ⇢ Check the IG Reel on women getting so desperate they’re stealing men’s salads: https://www.instagram.com/p/DRN2_NiD05O/ ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fHt7JfIqi0I?si=Ll39i7NTA9ofM8kU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer

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