46. Being Shamelessly Sexy: Writing Your Way to Pleasure with Tash Doherty

What does it truly mean to be shamelessly sexy? It's not about how your body looks; it's about figuring out what you want, believing you deserve it, and having the courage to ask for it. If you're tired of shame, self-consciousness, and lackluster pleasure, this episode is your invitation to a juicier life.Dr. Jenny is joined by Tash Doherty, a writer, author, and creator of Misseducated, on a mission to help the world be shamelessly sexy. Tash breaks down her three-part framework for shedding shame and stepping into your desires. They get real about body image, the pressure to be "perfect," and how to stop letting your inner critic ruin the mood. Tash also shares how she uses "sex writing" as a radical tool for self-discovery and introduces her beautiful new project, The Intimacy Journal.This conversation is a permission slip to get curious, fuck around and find out what you like, and reclaim your pleasure as the sacred, fun, and delicious experience it's meant to be.KEY MOMENTS:01:34 - What It Means to Be "Shamelessly Sexy" (The 3 Pillars)03:21 - The Roots of Sexual Shame & Its Impact in the Bedroom06:17 - The Female Gaze vs. The Male Gaze: How Your Partners See You10:00 - Using Writing as a Tool to Discover What You're Actually Attracted To14:12 - What the Hell is Sex Writing? (And an Orgasm on Psilocybin Experiment)19:04 - The P-in-V Orgasm Myth & Why Your Vibrator is Your Best Friend25:29 - The Connection Between Sensuality & Sexuality28:47 - Good Girl Conditioning: Are You Bending to Make Others Comfortable?38:18 - Introducing The Intimacy Journal: An Erotic Poetry Journal53:50 - The Surprising Reason Men Are Buying The Intimacy JournalRESOURCES:Let's do this transformational work together!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Book a free call to explore 1:1 options. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tash Doherty is a British-Irish-American writer and author. She is the creator of Misseducated, a blog, and podcast on a mission to help the world be shamelessly sexy, and the author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy, coming-of-age debut novel. Her latest project, The Intimacy Journal, launched on Kickstarter in late October 2025. She graduated from The Wharton School, University of Pennsylvania, and lives in Mexico City.You can find Tash on IG or TikTok @misseducated STAY CONNECTED:Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@docjenb_nd ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUPPORT ‘THE JUICY TRUTH WITH DR. JENNY”:Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share with a friend or to your IG stories & follow along on instagram⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@docjenb_nd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for updates & empowering content.