46. Spouse Talk: I couldn’t quit for my wife or the church—so I quit for ME

n this episode, we talk about how true freedom comes from being able to say both yes and no to whatever habit you want to quit. That’s right—fully allowing yourself can actually help you stop. I also share how I couldn’t quit porn for my wife or the church—it had to be for me. And once I made that shift, everything got so much easier. We also dive into the real benefits I’ve seen since quitting—like a confidence boost, more energy and motivation, and greater satisfaction in my marriage and sex life.