48. "Not Tonight Honey: Why Women Actually Don’t Want Sex and What We Can Do About It" with Courtney Boyer

Ever find yourself tiptoeing around the topic of sexual desire? Courtney Boyer, the mental health and sex therapist, is here to walk us through the intimate labyrinth of womanhood and motherhood, where the conversation is overdue. On this momversation, we're peeling back the curtain on the realities of waning sexual interest, the journey of reclaiming that fire, and the tools necessary for fostering a sex-positive environment in our families. From the conservative to the empowered, Courtney's personal evolution serves as an inspiring backdrop for our candid discussions on marriage, parenting abroad, and the importance of love-based guidance over shame.As our heart-to-heart unfolds, we're tearing down myths about sexual intimacy and expectations within relationships, emphasizing that it's not about the quantity but the quality of connections. We introduce you to the idea of a "relationship audit"—an invaluable strategy for couples to regularly assess their satisfaction in both their sexual and emotional bonds. Our chat navigates the tricky waters of body image, life changes, and menopause, reminding us that our sexual desire is an evolving journey, one that can indeed flourish with age and self-love. This episode is a testament to the powers of communication, understanding, and the dedicated effort to foster a fulfilling sexual partnership.Lastly, we acknowledge the importance of embarking on these potentially challenging conversations, as they are key to growth and empowerment. We're determined to offer a fresh perspective on educating our young ones about sexuality, inclusivity, and the various relationship models, all within the family fold and beyond. So, gather 'round and join in as we bring these vital topics to the table. Your thoughts and connections fuel the Burnt Pancakes community, and I am eager to hear how this episode resonates with you. Share, engage, and let's continue to light up these essential discussions with the warmth and grace they deserve.You can connect with Courtney here:Instagram: @courtneyboyercoachingWebsite: www.courtneyboyercoaching.comBooks: Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don't want sex and what we can do about it https://amzn.to/3wfGoR9Check out here Huffington Post article: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/relationship-expert-reveals-the-10-questions-you-should-ask-your-partner-every-december_uk_656dc9d1e4b07b937ff56189📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-KYou can find Katie at:website: burntpancakes.comYouTube: @burnt.pancakesInstagram: @burntpancakeswithkatieEmail: [email protected]🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE📖  Potty Training E-Book HERE🆓  FREE potty training resources HEREInstagram: @itspottytimeTiktok: @itspottytime_Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.