499. Why Does the Pursuit Stop After Marriage? with Therapist Austin

Why do we put so much effort into winning our spouse’s heart while dating, only to slowly stop doing those same things once we’re married?In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with marriage therapist Austin, LMFT, to talk about one of the most common traps couples fall into: getting comfortable and unintentionally stopping the pursuit.When you were dating, you probably made time for each other, planned dates, flirted, showed affection, listened closely, expressed appreciation, and looked for ways to make the other person feel wanted. But after marriage, careers, kids, responsibilities, stress, and everyday life can slowly take over. Before long, spouses can start feeling more like roommates than lovers.So what happens when we stop pursuing each other? And more importantly, how do we start again?Nick, Amy, and Austin discuss why continuing to pursue your spouse is essential for emotional and sexual intimacy, how small efforts can make a huge difference, and why feeling wanted, chosen, and prioritized matters so much in a healthy marriage.You worked hard to win your spouse’s heart. Don’t stop pursuing it just because you already have it.🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.comand discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HEREto explore our amazing products!Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyappfor app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at [email protected] love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!