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EPISODE · Jul 2, 2026 · 11 MIN

5 Reasons I Knew He (My Fiancé) Was Secure

from Healing Anxious Attachment

I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own relationship and sharing the 5 things I noticed about my now-fiancé that told me - this one is different.After years of dating avoidant men and convincing myself the anxiety was just chemistry, experiencing security for the first time was genuinely disorienting. I almost didn't trust it.In this episode I cover the five signs that changed everything for me - from the way he showed up on day one, to the moment he was willing to walk away rather than pressure me, to what it finally felt like to be truly held in my emotions.If you're not sure what you're looking for, or you keep finding yourself in the same cycles - this one is for you.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join UsMentioned in this episode:Live Workshop Sept 17th - 8pm ET - Replay Available https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Join Becoming Her to access the link workshop link and 50 mini guided healing somatic practices. See you inside!

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