50 | From 'We Need to Talk' to Honest Conversations That Build Connection (Part 1)

Every mom knows that moment—you say "we need to talk" and watch your teen immediately shut down, get defensive, or walk away. You enter these conversations with the best intentions, wanting to address their behavior and restore peace. But the way most of us were taught to handle conflict is just a bandaid to a deeper issue, and it ends up creating more distance. Have you been listening more? Reflecting back what you’re hearing your teen say? Inviting them to share more? Then you’ve been laying a foundation of connection. Now how do you talk so they’ll listen?  Stay tuned. In this first episode of a three-part series on parenting teens we’re talking about how we can build connection through the words we speak even in conflict. Terri will be sharing a game-changing framework that’s transformed how she communicates with her kids.  What You'll Learn: The #1 reason your teen shuts down when you try to have hard conversations (and how to fix it) How to choose connection as your goal instead of confrontation The power of truth-telling with yourself before speaking to your teen Why anchoring in Christ's peace is the secret to transforming your communication skills Before you go, if this episode helped you, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It takes just a minute and it means the world to me—plus it helps other moms find their way to this community. Thank you for being here.  Leave a on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist