Connect With Your Teens | Conversation Starters, Parenting Tips, Screen Time, Build Connection, Communication Skills

You love your teen and want the very best for them. So why do your conversations sometimes leave them feeling criticized, controlled, or misunderstood when your heart was trying to encourage, protect, and help? Terri shares a powerful coaching story that reveals one of the biggest communication blind spots in parenting teens: the gap between our intentions and our teen’s experience. You’ll discover why your teen may react differently than you expect, how one simple perspective shift can strengthen communication with your teen, and a practical way to build trust with your teen while creating a deeper, lasting connection. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That isn’t what I meant,” this episode is for you. I pray it's a blessing to you and your family! ✨Ready for personalized support? If you find yourself replaying conversations, wondering what went wrong, or wishing you knew how to respond differently, I’d love to help. In a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call, we’ll identify what’s creating distance, strengthen your communication, and create a personalized plan to help you build lasting connection and trust with your child. 👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/communication-coaching 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Insider Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 📖Need a place to start?  Download my Building Connection Beyond Screen Time: A Quick Guide for Moms to help you build trust with your teen, strengthen communication, and create more meaningful everyday conversations. 👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/build-connection-screentime 💛 Interested in ongoing support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement.  Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 🎧Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey? This is a collection of songs that have brought me peace and helped me anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link to get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 5 - From 'It's Too Late To Fix This' To Having Real Conversations With Your Teen 13 - The Secret to Effortless Connection With Your Teen (And How to Break the Hidden Barrier) 32 - Beyond the Eye Roll: 3 Steps to Reach Your Teen's Heart

What if one of the most frustrating things your teen says is actually an invitation… not a rejection? If you’ve ever heard, “You don’t understand,” this episode may completely change how you hear those words. If your teen has ever said, “You don’t understand,” or shut down when you were trying your best to connect, this episode is for you. Sometimes the biggest breakthrough in teen communication isn’t finding the perfect words—it’s learning what your teen may really be asking for underneath the words they’re saying. In this episode, I’ll help you see those frustrating conversations through a different lens so you can respond in a way that helps build connection, build trust, and create greater emotional safety in your relationship. You'll Learn: Why “You don’t understand” usually means something deeper One simple communication shift that can completely change the direction of a conversation How to use practical communication skills that help your teen feel heard Why understanding comes before influence in healthy family communication How small moments of connection today can strengthen your relationship for years to come As followers of Christ, we’re called to listen with humility and value others above ourselves. When we choose to understand our teen before asking them to understand us, we begin reflecting the heart of Jesus—and that’s often where healing, trust, and connection begin. 📩 Want more encouragement and practical tools each week? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for Christ-centered encouragement, communication tips, podcast updates, and practical ways to strengthen your relationship with your teen.  👉Join here: Weekly Insider Newsletter More Resources: ✨ Want to work 1:1 with me? Book a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover practical next steps, and create a clear plan so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection. 👉Learn More: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💬 If this podcast has encouraged or helped you share it with a friend and take 30  seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your review helps more moms see the podcast and get support.  Click here to review on Apple.  Click here to review on Spotify. Related Episodes: 32 | Beyond the Eye Roll: 3 Steps to Reach Your Teen's Heart 64 | Stop Arguing With Your Teen: Let Them Have Their Perspective 77 | Why Your Teen Doesn’t Need to Change First to Build Connection

Have you found yourself replaying the conversation with your teen over and over, wondering what you could have said differently? The truth is, helping your teen feel heard isn’t about having the perfect words. It’s about creating the kind of conversation where they feel safe enough to share what’s really on their heart. When teens feel heard, trust begins to grow—and where trust grows, connection and influence often follow. In this episode, I’ll share a simple four-step conversation you can begin using today to strengthen your relationship with your teen, improve your communication skills, and build trust one conversation at a time. You’ll Learn: Why listening builds trust more effectively than rushing to solve the problem What Jesus modeled on the road to Emmaus that can transform your communication with your teen A practical way to build connection during everyday conversations The four-step conversation that helps your teen feel heard How helping your teen feel understood often leads to deeper, more meaningful conversations As we look at the way Jesus walked alongside the disciples on the road to Emmaus, you’ll be encouraged to slow down, listen well, and trust that God can use your faithful presence to prepare your teen’s heart in ways you may not see right away. Still replaying conversations in your mind? Wondering what to say or how to respond differently in your unique situation? 🎉 To celebrate the one-year anniversary of the Connect With Your Teens podcast, I’m offering a special anniversary rate on my 1:1 Communication Coaching Call through Sunday at midnight! If you’d love personalized guidance, practical Christ-centered communication tools, and a clear plan to help you reconnect with your teen, I’d be honored to walk alongside you. 👉 Reserve your coaching call here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/communication-coaching More Resources: 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Insider Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Would you like to experience His peace through worship?  These songs have brought me peace and encouragement when I needed most to anchor my heart in Christ. Get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist here (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b Related Episodes:  49 The Power of God’s Acceptance to Turn the Heart of Your Teen 56 - Are You Accidentally Shutting Down Your Teen? 3 Communication Patterns That Block Connection 64 - Stop Arguing With Your Teen and Let Them Have Their Perspective

Why do you keep reacting the very way you promised yourself you wouldn’t? Maybe your teen rolled their eyes, ignored you, or answered with “Whatever,” and before you knew it, your frustration took over. You weren’t trying to yell. You weren’t trying to make things worse. But somehow the conversation ended with both of you feeling hurt, misunderstood, and even more disconnected. In this episode, you’ll discover that the real issue often isn’t your teen’s behavior or even the conversation itself. It’s what your reactions may be revealing about what’s happening in your own heart—and how God can meet you there so you can respond with greater peace, wisdom, and confidence. You’ll learn: Why reacting usually starts long before the conversation begins. How your emotions can reveal what’s really driving your communication. Three practical steps to respond instead of react. Simple communication skills that help build connection and build trust with your teen. How an anchored heart leads to calmer, more effective teen communication. As followers of Christ, we don’t have to parent from fear or carry the weight of changing our teens. God invites us to anchor ourselves in His presence, receive His peace, and respond with the wisdom and grace He promises to give. As our hearts change, our communication skills begin to change—and that opens the door for stronger relationships and lasting connection. Are you ready to stop reacting and start building the relationship you’ve been praying for, I’d love to walk alongside you?  🎉To celebrate the one-year anniversary of the podcast, I’m offering a special anniversary price on my one-hour Communication Coaching Call through Sunday at midnight.  👉Go to ConnectWithYourTeens.com/communication-coaching  to learn more. More Resources: 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Insider Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Would you like to experience His peace through worship?  These songs have brought me peace and encouragement when I needed most to anchor my heart in Christ. Get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist here (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b Related Episodes:  45 - Stuck in the Noise? How to Break Free From Parenting Paralysis 58 - 5 Scriptures to Anchor Communication Skills and Build Connection 77 - Build Connection With Your Teen: Why They Don’t Need to Change First

  Ever feel like you’re doing everything you know to build connection with your teen… but somehow you feel farther apart than ever? Sometimes the biggest barrier to building connection isn’t a lack of love—it’s the assumptions we make before we’ve taken the time to truly understand what’s happening in our teen’s heart and life. Fear can quietly fill in the blanks, causing us to react instead of respond in ways that strengthen trust. In this episode, I share a personal story about my oldest daughter that reminded me how easily fear and assumptions can keep us from truly understanding our teens—and how choosing curiosity instead can strengthen trust, connection, and communication. You’ll discover why choosing curiosity over assumptions can transform your relationship and how small shifts in the way you communicate can lead to greater trust, deeper connection, and lasting influence. In this episode you’ll discover: Why fear often shapes our conversations more than we realize. The simple communication shifts that helps build trust with your teen. How to choose understanding over agreement without giving up your values or boundaries. Practical communication skills that create emotional safety and stronger relationships. Why curiosity is one of the most powerful ways to build connection with your teen. As followers of Christ, we don’t have to let fear determine how we respond. God invites us to bring our concerns to Him first, seek His wisdom, and love our teens the way He continually loves and pursues us—with grace, truth, and understanding. Listen now, and discover how small shifts toward curiosity can begin changing the direction of your relationship with your child. 💛 I’d love to invite you to join our free monthly online Support Group on July 14th!  If you’re looking for encouragement, practical help, and a community of moms who understand what you’re walking through, we’d love to have you with us. 👉 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup More Resources: ✨ Want to work 1:1 with me? Schedule a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call, and let’s talk through your situation, identify what’s keeping you stuck, and create a clear path toward greater connection and trust with your child. 👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 💌 Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Insider Newsletter 🤍 Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 64 - Stop Arguing With Your Teen: Let Them Have Their Perspective 75 - Teaching Teens to Drive Without Fear or Conflict with Ed Lee (Part 2) 79 - Parenting Teens: 5 Words That Build Trust and Connection Fast  

Have your conversations with your teen turned into one-word answers, awkward silence, or talks that feel more like interviews than connection? If so, you’re not alone—and it doesn’t mean your relationship is beyond repair. Many moms think they need one big heart-to-heart conversation to reconnect with their teen. But what if the answer isn’t one perfect conversation? What if it’s creating more opportunities for simple, enjoyable conversations that help your teen actually want to keep talking? In this episode, I’ll show you why low-pressure conversation starters can be one of the most powerful communication skills for building connection and rebuilding trust with your teen. You’ll also learn what to do after they answer, because that’s often where the real connection begins. In this episode you’ll discover: Why teens often respond better to lighthearted conversations than heavy ones. Five simple conversation starters that help teens keep talking. How to build connection without forcing deeper conversations. The communication shift that helps your teen feel heard and understood. Why small conversations today often lead to stronger relationships tomorrow. God created us for relationship, and His heart is always toward connection. As we learn to slow down, listen well, and show genuine interest in our teens, we create space for trust to grow one conversation at a time. If this episode encourages you, would you leave a review and share it with another mom who could use a little hope today? Your review helps more moms discover practical encouragement for building stronger relationships with their teens. Plus, I have a special offer. ✨ Complimentary Teen Relationship Reset + Connection Clarity Call I’m opening 10 spots for moms who would like help identifying what’s creating distance, where connection is getting stuck, and how to begin building stronger communication, trust, and connection with their teen. To apply: Leave a review for the Connect With Your Teens podcast here. Scroll down to the Review Section. Take a screenshot before submitting it Complete your Teen Relationship Reset short form I’ll be in touch with a link to book your Connection Clarity Call! 👉Submit your review and complete the short form here  http://connectwithyourteens.com/review More Resources: ✨ Want to work 1:1 with me? Schedule a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover what’s most important to address right now, and create a clear plan with God so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection. 👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 💛 Need ongoing support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here:  https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 💌 Want weekly encouragement and communication tips straight to your inbox?  Sign up for the newsletter and get practical tips, stories of how this works in real life & hope sent to you every week. Weekly Insider Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 12 - Back to School Parent Guide: Turn Stressful Teen Conversations Into Trust-Building Moments 22 - Tired of Misunderstandings With Your Teen? 3 Keys to Keep Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away) 50 - From 'We Need to Talk' to Honest Conversations That Build Connection (Part 1)

Ever feel like you’re doing everything you know to connect with your teen… and somehow you’re growing further apart instead of closer? You drive them everywhere. Make meals. Solve problems. Pray for them. Yet conversations still end with eye rolls, one-word answers, or silence. Sometimes the biggest communication problem isn’t what we’re saying—it’s where our focus is. In this episode, I share a personal story about how I found myself slipping into a cycle of correction instead of connection. One small change completely shifted the atmosphere, and it reminded me of a powerful truth Jesus modeled with Zacchaeus: relationship creates space for truth to be received. You’ll discover how one simple communication skill can help you build trust, build connection, and create more meaningful family communication with your teen. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why focused listening is one of the most powerful communication skills you can develop. Why teens often shut down—even when your intentions are good. How to shift your focus from the problem back to your teen. A simple question that can change the direction of your next conversation (and future ones!). Practical ways to build trust and strengthen your relationship with your teen. As we learn to ground our communication in Christ, we become more able to respond with peace instead of reacting out of frustration or fear. Just as Jesus pursued relationship first, we can create the kind of connection where our teens are more willing to listen, trust, and invite us into their lives. Ready to make lasting changes in your relationship?  I’d love for you to attend my free Connect With Your Teens Support Group on July 14th. It’s a welcoming and safe place to receive encouragement, ask questions, and learn practical ways to strengthen communication and connection with your teen. 👉Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup More Resources: ✨ Want to work 1:1 with me? Schedule a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover what’s most important to address right now, and create a clear plan with God so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection. 👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 💌 Want weekly encouragement and communication tips straight to your inbox?  Sign up for the newsletter and get practical tips, stories of how this works in real life & hope sent to you every week. Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 31 - The Secret to Calm, Connected Communication With Your Teen—God's Way 57 Why Mom Guilt Is Sabotaging Communication With Your Teen — And How to Build Connection Instead 80 - Why Parenting Teens Takes More Than Prayer: Christ-Centered Communication Skills That Build Connection

Do you ever feel like you’re constantly dealing with attitude, screen time, lack of communication, conflict, or poor choices? Most moms assume those things are the reason they feel disconnected from their teen. But what if they’re not the root problem? In this episode, Terri shares a powerful mindset shift that can change the way you approach parenting teens and help you build connection, build trust, and communicate more effectively with your teen. When we’re worried, frustrated, or afraid, it’s easy to focus all our attention on the problems we’re trying to solve. But in the process, we can lose sight of the relationship we’re actually trying to build. You’ll discover: Why focusing on today’s problems can unintentionally create more disconnection The relationship question every mom needs to answer What can drive us toward control instead of connection Why connection leads to trust and trust creates influence A simple 3-question Relationship Check you can use in almost any parenting situation How to begin building the relationship you want with your teen—even if they don’t change first If you’ve been feeling discouraged, frustrated, or unsure what to do next, this episode will help you refocus on what matters most and move toward building deeper connection, greater trust, and lasting influence with your teen. ✨ Complimentary Teen Relationship Reset + Connection Clarity Call I’m opening 10 spots for moms who would like help identifying what’s creating distance, where connection is getting stuck, and how to begin building stronger communication, trust, and connection with their teen. To apply: Leave a review for the Connect With Your Teens podcast Take a screenshot before submitting it Complete your Teen Relationship Reset 👉 http://connectwithyourteens.com/review More Resources: ✨ Want to work 1:1 with me? Schedule a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call. Together, we’ll identify what’s getting in the way of connection with your teen, uncover what’s most important to address right now, and create a clear plan with God so you can stop feeling stuck and start rebuilding trust and connection. 👉https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 💛 Need ongoing support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here:  https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 💌 Want weekly encouragement and communication tips straight to your inbox?  Sign up for the newsletter and get practical tips, stories of how this works in real life & hope sent to you every week. Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 49 -  The Power of God’s Acceptance to Turn the Heart of Your Teen 61 - 5 Signs Your Teen Still Wants Connection (Even When They're Pushing You Away) 77 - Why Your Teen Doesn’t Need to Change First to Build Connection

Do you ever find yourself reacting more strongly than you want to when your teen says or does something that pushes your buttons? Maybe you’ve tried all the parenting tips, practiced better communication skills, and worked hard to build Connection, but certain conversations still leave you feeling frustrated, anxious, or emotionally drained. In Part 2 of my conversation with Lori Owens, Resilience Coach and podcast host, we explore what’s happening beneath those reactions. We talk about emotional triggers, old wounds, healthy boundaries, and why taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential if you want to build trust and strengthen your family communication. You’ll Learn: Why certain situations with your teen trigger strong emotional reactions How fear, past hurts, and anxiety can impact how to communicate effectively Why healthy boundaries are important for both you and your teen The difference between capability and capacity—and why it matters How self-maintenance can help you build connection and create a healthier relationship with your teen If you’ve ever struggled with guilt when setting boundaries, felt overwhelmed by everyone else’s needs, or wondered how to stay emotionally healthy while parenting teens, this conversation will encourage you and give you practical next steps. Connect with Lori: Practical Solutions for PTSD Podcast with Lori Owens: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-solutions-for-ptsd-anxiety-symptoms-seasonal/id1835492018 Lori has generously provided a free Boundary Setting Worksheet for listeners. Visit practicalsolutionsforptsd.com/podcast to download it. She’s also offering one listener 50% off their first coaching session! Use the code CONNECT. https://practicalsolutionsforptsd.com/breakthrough Other Resources: More support is available to you. Our next Connect With Your Teens Monthly Support Group is July 14th. You can save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 81- Stress, Anxiety, and Your Relationship With Your Teen with Lori Owens (Part 1)

Do you ever feel like you’re carrying the weight of your teen’s choices, emotions, future, and faith on your shoulders? As moms, it’s easy to believe that if we just say the right thing, do the right thing, or try a little harder, we can prevent mistakes and protect our teens from pain. But what if some of the stress, anxiety, and overwhelm you’re carrying was never yours to carry in the first place? In this encouraging conversation, Lori Owens joins me to talk about how stress affects our relationship with our teens, why trying to control what we can’t control leaves us exhausted, and how simple Communication Skills can help us Build Connection instead of reacting from fear. You’ll Learn: • How to identify what is yours to carry and what isn’t • Why focusing on what you can control brings greater peace and clarity • Practical ways to pause, regulate your emotions, and respond instead of react • How these parenting tips can strengthen your relationship with teens and improve family communication If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or exhausted, this conversation will remind you that freedom often begins when we release the burdens we were never meant to carry. Listen in and discover how a few simple shifts can help you build trust and connection, and show up more calmly in your most important relationships. Resources: Practical Solutions for PTSD Podcast with Lori Owens: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-solutions-for-ptsd-anxiety-symptoms-seasonal/id1835492018  Get Lori’s Boundary Setting Worksheet for listeners. Download it at practicalsolutionsforptsd.com/podcast. First Connect With Your Teens listener to sign up for her Anxiety and Depression Breakthrough Coaching Session will get 50% off. Use the code CONNECT. https://practicalsolutionsforptsd.com/breakthrough 💛 Would you like personal support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

Are you praying for your teen but still feeling stuck in the same communication struggles? You love your teen. You pray for them. You ask God to help. Yet conversations still end in silence, misunderstandings, eye rolls, or frustration. If you’ve ever wondered why the relationship isn’t changing despite your prayers, this episode is for you. In this episode, we’re exploring why parenting teens takes more than prayer and how Christ-centered communication skills can help you build connection, trust, and understanding with your teen. Prayer is essential, but many of us were never taught the practical communication skills that help relationships thrive. You’ll discover why prayer and communication skills aren’t competing with one another—they work together to help you build the relationship you’re hoping and praying for. You'll Learn: Why prayer is the foundation, but not the only tool God uses to build connection with your teen The hidden reason many Christian moms struggle with communication even when they deeply love their teens The difference between communication techniques and Christ-centered communication skills A simple prayer shift that can help you show up differently in conversations with your teen Prayer prepares the heart. Christ-centered communication skills help carry that heart into the conversation. Join me for this encouraging conversation and discover how God can work through both spiritual growth and practical wisdom to help you build connection with your teen. Are ready for actionable steps to start building connection with your child now? I have a free gift for you. It’s called Building Connection Beyond Screen Time and includes 15 conversation starters and practical connection tips to help you communicate in ways that your teen will want to connect with you. Your teen wants connection—they’re just not always sure how to get it without feeling judged, corrected, or lectured. This quick guide will help you start conversations in a way that helps your teen feel seen, heard, and understood. 🎁 Grab your free copy here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/build-connection-screentime ✔️ Want more support? Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey? 🎧This Spotify list is a collection of songs that have brought me peace, encouragement when I needed it most and helped my anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter Would you help another find the support she needs? 💬 If this podcast has encouraged or helped you share it with a friend and take 30  seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen. Your review helps more moms see the podcast and get support.  Review on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 ✨Follow or DM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 59 - Why Your Teen Stops Talking (And How to Fix It) 73 - Why Your Teen Shuts Down When You Ask Questions 79 - Parenting Teens: 5 Words That Build Trust and Connection Fast

Do conversations with your teen seem to end before they really begin? You ask questions. You try to help. You care deeply. Yet somehow the conversation gets shorter instead of deeper, and you’re left wondering why it’s so hard to connect. The truth is that many moms aren’t struggling because they don’t care enough. They’re struggling because they’re trying so hard to help that they accidentally miss one of the things teens need most: feeling heard. In this episode, I’ll share five simple phrases that can immediately change the tone of your conversations and help build trust, strengthen family communication, and create more meaningful connection with your teen. These aren’t scripts or communication tricks. They’re simple conversation starters that help your teen feel understood, valued, and safe enough to stay engaged in the conversation. You’ll Learn: Why good intentions can sometimes create distance instead of connection The communication habit that often increases defensiveness without us realizing it Five simple phrases that help build trust and strengthen your relationship with your teen How to create more connection during everyday moments this summer   If you’ve been longing for more open conversations, less tension, and a stronger relationship with your teen, this episode will give you a practical place to start. Want to help more moms build stronger connection? If this episode encouraged you, would you take a quick minute to leave a review? Reviews help more moms discover the podcast and find hope, practical tools, and encouragement for their relationship with their teens. Leave a review wherever you listen. You can leave it on Apple here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 And if you know a mom who could use a little more connection and a little less frustration in her conversations with her teen, would you share this episode with her? You never know how one small insight might change a family’s story. ✔️ Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 46 - She Thought It Was Too Late—Then the Phone Rang: A Conversation with a Mom 59 - Why Your Teen Stops Talking (And How to Fix It) 73  - Communication Skills: Why Your Teen Shuts Down When You Ask Questions

Have you ever felt like your teen’s phone gets more attention than you do? Maybe summer break arrived and you were hoping for more conversations, more connection, and more time together. Instead, it feels like every interaction starts with trying to pull your teen’s attention away from a screen. If you’ve ever felt ignored, dismissed, or less important than whatever is happening on your teen’s phone, you’re not alone. In this episode, Terri shares a surprising realization about screen time, communication, and what may really be happening when your teen doesn’t respond the way you hoped. You’ll discover why these moments become so emotional, a simple brain-science insight that can change the way you see them, and practical communication skills that help build connection instead of conflict. You’ll Learn: Why your teen’s reaction may not mean what you think it means The hidden reason screen time interactions become emotionally charged 5 practical ways to build connection without creating more conflict How to anchor yourself in Christ before responding out of frustration or fear If you’re looking for parenting tips, better communication skills, and simple ways to build connection with your teen this summer, this episode will encourage you and give you a practical next step. Because sometimes the phone isn’t the real problem. And that’s actually good news. 💛 Feeling like you’re losing connection with your teen? If you’re listening to this episode and realizing, “I’ve been waiting for my teen to change, and I don’t know what my next step should be,” I’d love to invite you to my free Connect With Your Teens Support Group. This monthly Zoom gathering is a place where moms can bring their real-life situations, receive encouragement, gain clarity around what’s blocking connection, and leave with practical next steps. 📅 The next group meets June 9 at 10:00 AM Arizona time. 💛 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💛 Need ongoing support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for?  Take 60 seconds to leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 Related Episodes: 28 - Has Family Time Turned Into Screen Time? 3 Ways to Reclaim Meaningful Connection With Your Teen 36 - The #1 Sign You’re a Great Mom (It’s Not What You Think) 47 -  Why Your Teen Chooses the Phone Over You (And How to Change It)  

Have you ever found yourself thinking… “If my teen would just change, things would finally get better”? Maybe if they would talk more. Maybe if they would stop pushing back. Maybe if they would be more respectful. Maybe if they would open up. If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting for your teen to change before your relationship can improve, you’re not alone. In this episode, we talk about a personal story about a season when I thought she was losing my daughter. After conflict, slammed doors, consequences that weren’t working, and a terrifying attempt to run away, I found myself overwhelmed with fear and unsure what to do next. What God showed me during that season completely changed the way I approached parenting, communication, and connection. If you’re longing to build connection with your teen but feel like nothing you’ve tried is working, this episode will give you hope and a practical next step. In this episode you'll learn: • Why waiting for your teen to change first can leave you feeling stuck and powerless • The difference between control and influence in your relationship with your teen • How curiosity and understanding can create deeper connection than correction alone • Three simple questions to ask God when you feel stuck and don’t know what to do next No matter how impossible things may feel right now, God is not finished writing your story. If you’re feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure what your next step should be, I’d love to invite you to my free Connect With Your Teens Support Group. This monthly Zoom gathering is a place where you can bring their real-life situations, receive encouragement, gain clarity around what’s blocking connection, and leave with practical next steps.  📅 The next group meets June 9 at 10:00 AM Arizona time. 💛 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup More Resources: 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for?  Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 34 | Beyond the Lie: Unpacking the Fear That Shut Me Down — Honest Talk with Sharaya Maples (Part 1) 35 | Beyond Punishment: Creating the Safety That Invites Truth — Candid Conversation with Sharaya Maples (Part 2) 76 | When Your Soul Is Too Loud to Listen to Your Teen

Do you ever feel physically present with your teen… but mentally somewhere else? Thinking about the dishes. The work. The schedule. The text you forgot to answer. The pressure of trying to hold everything together. Sometimes moms carry so much for so long that their souls stop feeling rested… and it quietly begins affecting communication, emotional connection, and even the ability to truly listen. In this episode, we talk honestly about our struggles with internal noise, striving, exhaustion, and what God has been teaching me through the words: “Be still, and know that I am God.” This isn’t about becoming a perfect mom. It’s about returning to Christ in the middle of real life and learning how to anchor in His presence instead of fear, pressure, and overwhelm. You’ll Learn: • How internal noise affects communication with your teen • Why stillness is about returning to Christ, not escaping responsibility • The connection between emotional overwhelm and listening • A gentle invitation to slow down and reconnect with God’s presence If you’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted lately… overwhelmed, internally stretched thin, or struggling to stay connected with your teen through the stress of everyday life, I hope this episode reminds you that you were never meant to carry everything alone. And mom, if you’re realizing how much the emotional pressure, exhaustion, or communication struggles have been affecting your relationship with your teen… I’d love to support you personally.  Right now, when you book a coaching call with me, I’m offering a second call free. 💛 🔗 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching ✔️ Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM on Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💛 Leave a Review  If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? Your reviews help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Related Episodes: 42 - New Year, New Peace: How to Enter God's Rest and Still Build Connection 45 - Stuck in the Noise? How to Break Free From Parenting Paralysis 58 - 5 Scriptures to Anchor Communication Skills and Build Connection

Why do conversations with teens get tense so fast… especially while driving? One minute you’re calmly giving instructions. The next, you’re gripping the door handle, correcting everything, emotionally flooded, and wondering why your teen suddenly shuts down. In Part 2 of this conversation, Terri’s husband, Ed Lee, shares his honest perspective on teaching their teens to drive — including how fear quietly shapes communication, why teens often experience correction differently than parents intend, and what actually helps teens build confidence behind the wheel. Because sometimes what’s happening in the passenger seat has very little to do with driving… and everything to do with trust, communication skills, and learning how to build connection without controlling every moment. You’ll Learn: Why teens often experience correction as criticism or control How fear and anxiety affect family communication during stressful moments What helps teens grow in confidence instead of shutting down A simple communication shift that can reduce tension and build trust If conversations with your teen have been feeling tense, reactive, disconnected, or emotionally exhausting lately, this episode will encourage you with practical parenting tips and Christ-centered communication tools that can begin changing the tone of your relationship one conversation at a time. And if you’re realizing there may be deeper communication patterns beneath the tension in your home right now… you don’t have to figure this out alone. 💛 For the next few days through Thursday at midnight, when you book a 1-Hour Communication Breakthrough Call, I’m also including a second coaching call completely free. Together, we’ll uncover what may really be happening beneath the surface of the conflict, identify communication patterns creating distance, and help you begin building calmer, safer, more connected conversations with your teen through Christ-centered communication tools. You’ll leave with practical next steps, greater clarity, and support for the specific situation you’re walking through right now. ✨ Reserve your session here before Thursday at midnight: connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching ✔️ Want more support? 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for?  Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 🎧This is a collection of songs that have brought me peace, encouragement and helped my anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b  

Does teaching your teen to drive leave both of you tense, frustrated, or emotionally exhausted? Maybe you’re trying to help…but your teen experiences your guidance as pressure, control, or criticism instead. This episode is part 1 of a 2-part series on teaching your teen to drive while building trust and without damaging connection. Terri shares a powerful conversation with a mom whose daughter felt “disrespected” while learning to drive — plus a personal story about a moment that could have ended in a serious accident, but instead became a confidence-building turning point. If you’ve been wanting better communication skills with your teen without walking on eggshells or constantly reacting from fear, this episode will encourage you deeply. You’ll learn: • Why teens often interpret correction as control • How to communicate safety without creating emotional distance • Simple language shifts that build trust while teaching your teen to drive • How anchoring in Christ changes the way we respond in tense moments And if driving with your teen has brought up fear, tension, or conflict…you are not failing. God has already given you everything you need to walk this season out with wisdom, peace, and connection. Listen now and learn how to protect both safety and relationship while teaching your teen to drive. Ready to make lasting changes in your relationship with your teen? Enrollment is open now for the Connect With Your Teen Roadmap — Terri’s self-paced Christ-centered communication program designed to help moms rebuild trust, restore peace, and strengthen connection with their teens. 🔗Enroll now: https://connectwithyourteens.com/roadmap ✔️ Want more support? 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💛 Leave a Review If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? Your reviews help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for:  → Leave your review here. Related Episodes: 62 - How to Build Trust With Your Teen: A Real Mom Story with Dina Windle (Part 1) 63 - What Happens After Your Teen Opens Up With Dina Windle (Part 2)

Have you ever noticed the more questions you ask… the more your teen shuts down? The conversation starts with good intentions. You’re trying to understand. Trying to connect. Trying to help. But somehow it keeps ending with: “I don’t know.” “Nothing.” “Fine.” In this episode, we talk about why some questions create emotional safety… while others accidentally create pressure and defensiveness. Because sometimes what we as parents call communication… teens experience as interrogation. And one small shift in how you ask questions can completely change the emotional tone of conversations in your home. You’ll Learn: Why teens often shut down during conversations How fear, urgency, and pressure leak into questions The difference between curious questions and interrogation-style questions Simple communication skills that help teens feel emotionally safe enough to open up If conversations with your teen have felt tense, emotionally exhausting, or stuck lately… this episode will help you rethink the power of a question and begin building connection again. Want help rebuilding trust and emotional safety with your teen? Enrollment is open right now for the Connect With Your Teen Roadmap — Terri’s 12-week group coaching program designed to help moms rebuild trust, restore peace, and strengthen communication with their teens through Christ-centered communication skills.Workshop bonuses and extended summer access are available through Sunday, May 24th, 2026 at midnight. Learn more: https://connectwithyourteens.com/roadmap More Resources: ✨ 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 💛 Would you like support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Follow or DM on Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected] 💛 Leave a Review If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? Your words help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → Leave a Review Here

You’re doing everything you can to hold it all together… but underneath the schedules, conversations, responsibilities, and emotional weight of parenting teens… you still feel overwhelmed. And maybe what’s exhausting you isn’t just how much you’re carrying. Maybe it’s the disconnection stress and fear quietly create inside us. In this episode, Terri talks about the hidden emotional and spiritual roots of overwhelm, why moms often fall into survival mode, and how fear can slowly create separation in families without anyone realizing it. If you’ve been feeling emotionally tired, reactive, anxious, distant from peace, or like you’re constantly carrying the emotional weight of your family… this episode will help you pause, reconnect with God, and begin rebuilding connection from a place of peace instead of pressure. 💛 CONNECT WITH YOUR TEEN ROADMAP If you’re ready for deeper support learning how to build trust, emotional safety, and calm communication with your teen, Terri’s Connect With Your Teen Roadmap small group coaching program is open for enrollment now. Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/roadmap You’ll learn: Why overwhelm is often deeper than “having too much to do” How fear and stress quietly affect family communication and emotional connection Questions to ask God when you feel emotionally exhausted or reactive Simple parenting tips to help build connection and restore peace with your teen Want more support? 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💛 Leave a Review 💬 If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? It really lights me up to hear what God’s doing in your life! → Leave A Review On Apple Podcasts ✨Follow or DM me on Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact me here. I answer all the emails: [email protected]

Do you ever feel like your teen is slipping further away behind screens, short answers, or silence? Maybe conversations feel tense lately… or maybe you’re trying so hard to keep the peace that you’ve started walking on eggshells, unsure how to communicate without triggering conflict or pushing them further away. In Part 2 of this conversation, Kasey Leander from Summit Ministries shares why teens are still deeply hungry for real connection—even in a world dominated by technology and social media—and how moms can create relational safety while still holding onto truth. This episode is full of hope, practical wisdom, and encouragement for moms who want to build connection and strengthen communication with their teens in a way that feels honest, faith-filled, and grounded in love. You’ll learn: • Why teens still crave face-to-face connection more than we realize • How to create relational safety without compromising truth • Why listening well can completely change your relationship with teens • How to approach hard faith questions without fear or shutting down If you’ve been longing for deeper connection with your teen, this conversation will remind you that your presence, your listening, and your relationship still matter more than you think. Are you feeling exhausted and on edge in your relationship with your child and long for God’s presence to flow through your conversations?  Join me for my FREE live Connect With Your Teen Workshop on Tuesday, May 12th, where I’ll help you identify what’s really causing disconnection, walk you through a live anchoring practice to bring peace to your heart and mind, and teach you simple communication shifts that help you stay calm, be confident and your teen to feel safe enough to open up. And the next day, we’ll gather for a live coffee chat together for support and Q&A with other moms walking through this too. Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/workshop ✨ Interested in Summit Ministries for your teen or young adult? My husband and I highly recommend it. It’s an incredible investment in helping students wrestle through tough questions about faith, truth, and culture while building a strong Christ-centered community. Learn more at https://www.summit.org/ Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 44 What If Your Teen Isn't Drifting—They're Just Waiting 46 - She Thought It Was Too Late—Then the Phone Rang: A Conversation with a Mom 61 - 5 Signs Your Teen Still Wants Connection (Even When They're Pushing You Away)

What if your teen’s questions about God aren’t a sign that you’ve failed? When your teen shuts down, pushes back, or doesn’t want to talk about faith, it can stir up fear fast. You may wonder if you said too much, didn’t say enough, or somehow missed something as a mom. In this honest conversation with Kasey Leander from Summit Ministries, we talk about why faith questions are often part of a teen’s healthy search for identity—and how listening can become one of the most powerful communication skills you use to build connection instead of pushing your teen away. You’ll learn: Why teens need to make faith their own What may really be underneath their faith questions How to show empathy without agreement Why listening does not mean you’re giving up truth If your teen is questioning, doubting, or pulling away from conversations about God, this episode will help you stay calm, connected, and anchored in hope. If you’re ready for real change in your conversations with your teen… I want to invite you to my free live Connect With Your Teen workshop. Inside this workshop, I’ll show you simple, real shifts you can use right away—so you know what to say, create space for your teen to open up, and stop second-guessing yourself after every conversation. 🗓 May 12 • 9 AM PST (+ Coffee Chat Q&A May 13) 👉 Save your spot: https://connectwithyourteens.com/workshop Discover how Kasey Leander and Summit Ministries helps students navigate tough questions about faith and culture: https://www.summit.org/  ✔️ More Resources: 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group  ✨ Follow and DM on Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach  ✨ Contact: [email protected] 💛 Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? Your words help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296 Related Episodes: 39 - When Your Teen Stops Believing: How to Keep the Door Open Instead of Pushing Them Away 40 - 3 Questions That Build Connection When Faith Divides Your Family (Part 1) 41 - When Your Teen Talks About the Hard Stuff: Questions That Build Trust (Part 2)

Are conversations with your teen leaving you feeling anxious… second-guessing everything you say? Do you find yourself walking on eggshells—trying so hard to keep the peace, but still ending up in shutdown, short answers, or tension? If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation with your teen thinking, “What just happened?” or “Why does this keep happening?”—this episode is for you. In this week’s episode, we’re getting to the root of why communication can feel so hard with your teen—and one simple shift that can begin to change the tone of your conversations almost immediately. This isn’t about saying the perfect thing. t’s about building connection in a way that helps your teen feel safe enough to open up.  You’ll Learn: Why your teen shuts down—even when you’re trying to connect • The subtle way pressure shows up in conversations (and how to shift it) • One simple communication skill that builds connection without pushing your teen away • How to begin creating emotional safety so your teen feels understood If you’re ready to stop walking on eggshells and start building trust and real connection with your teen…This episode will give you a simple place to start—and help you see what’s actually been getting in the way. Ready to go deeper? Join my free live workshop: Connect With Your Teen – Stop Walking on Eggshells and Build Real Trust Learn how to: • Stay calm and connected in the moment • Understand why your teen shuts down (and what to do right then) • Know exactly what to say—even when they’re distant or defensive 👉 Save your spot: https://connectwithyourteens.com/workshop Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 3 - Stop Walking on Eggshells: 6 Secrets to Confidently Connect with Your Teen (Part 1) 4 - Stop Walking on Eggshells: 6 Secrets to Confidently Connect with Your Teen + Bonus Tip (Part 2)

Do conversations with your teen ever go sideways… even when you’re trying to do everything right? You’re learning communication skills…You want to stay calm, present, and connected…But in the moment—something shifts. You feel the pressure. The fear. The urgency to fix, correct, or respond quickly. And suddenly… the conversation doesn’t go the way you hoped. If you’ve ever walked away thinking, “I know what to do… why didn’t I do it?” you are not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about how to build connection by closing the gap between knowing communication skills and actually using them in real daily conversations with your teen. Because transformation doesn’t happen from learning alone…it happens when those skills become second nature. You'll learn: 5 practical ways to stop conversations from going sideways How to stay anchored and calm when emotions rise Why practicing outside the moment changes everything A simple faith-based approach to becoming more present and connected   If you’ve been wanting to feel more confident in how you communicate—and experience more peace, connection, and trust in your relationship with your teen—this episode will give you a simple place to start. Ready to start transforming your relationships? Mark your calendar for May 12th! I’m hosting a FREE 1-Hour Live Connect With Your Teens Workshop. In just one hour, I’m going to show you what’s actually keeping you from the connection you’re longing for…why your teen pulls away when you try to connect…and how to create conversations where you both feel safe enough to share. And we’re not just going to talk about it—you’re going to practice it. I’ll walk you through how you can respond in a way that builds connection instead of shutting it down…how to pause, bring your thoughts and feelings to God, and anchor yourself in his truth.  You’ll leave with tools you can use that same day in real conversations. 👉 For early access to registration become a Connect With Your Teens Insider—you’ll get weekly encouragement, real-life stories, and practical communication tips… and be the first to get the link. Become an Insider here: Weekly Newsletter More Resources: ✨ Join the Connect With Your Teens Monthly Support Group, live on Zoom, Wednesday, April 22nd at 10 AM (PST) 👉 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup ✨ Book a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching ✨ Join the FB Community:  Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group  ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected] 💛 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for? Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 Related Episodes: #13 - The Secret to Effortless Connection With Your Teen (And How to Break the Hidden Barrier) #10 - When Your Teen Pulls Away: How to Rebuild Connection Through Invitation, Not Control

Do you ever feel yourself shift in a conversation with your teen…like you were calm one moment—and suddenly you’re reacting? Maybe they roll their eyes…shut down…or go back to their phone…And something in you tightens. That moment?  It’s not random. And it’s not just about communication skills. In Part 3 of this series, I’m walking you through a simple, faith-anchored process to recognize what’s happening in those moments, uncover the lie underneath it, and begin replacing it with truth—so you can build connection and actually live this out in your real conversations as you are parenting teens. You’ll Learn: How to recognize when you’re becoming unanchored in conversations A simple 3-step process to uncover the lies driving your reactions How to identify the root behind recurring communication patterns How to begin replacing lies with truth through a simple, Spirit-led process   If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “Why did I react like that?” This episode will help you slow that moment down, see what’s underneath it, and begin responding from peace instead of pressure. ✨If this episode is helping you see what’s underneath your reactions…and you want support walking this out in your real conversations—I want to invite you to book a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call. It’s personalized to you and your family, and you get to bring up what's really going on right now…and we’ll uncover what’s happening underneath—the lies, the patterns that may be affecting your relationship…and what it could look like to respond differently, from a place of peace. 👉 Book your session: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching More Resources: 💛 Looking for a supportive space to process this with other moms?  Join the Connect With Your Teens Support Group. You don’t have to do this alone. 📅 April 22nd at 10 AM MST 👉 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 💌 Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍 Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected] Related Episodes: 65 - 3 Lies That Sabotage Communication With Your Teen (Part 1) 66 - 2 More Lies Sabotaging Communication With Your Teen (Part 2)

Have you ever been in a conversation with your teen…and suddenly it feels like more is at stake than just the conversation? Like their reaction means something about you…or if you don’t handle it right, you might lose connection? That pressure you feel in those moments…isn’t random. And it’s not just about your communication skills. In Part 2 of this series, we uncover two more lies that quietly shape how you show up with your teen—and how they impact your ability to build connection and navigate conflict. Because when identity and urgency are driving your responses…even your best intentions can create pressure instead of connection. You'll learn: • The lie that ties your teen’s behavior to your worth as a mom • Why urgency in conversations often comes from fear—not connection • How identity pressure and fear of losing connection shape your reactions • One simple question to help you shift from pressure to presence   If you’ve ever felt that pressure rise up in conversations…or walked away feeling like something deeper was going on—this episode will help you see it more clearly and begin responding from a place of peace instead of pressure. If this episode had you thinking, “Okay… I can see this in me…” and you’re not quite sure what to do with it yet—that’s exactly where I can support you. In a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call, we take what you’re navigating right now…and gently walk through what’s happening underneath—the lies, the patterns…and what it could look like to respond differently from a place of peace. So you’re not just understanding this…you’re actually living it out in your conversations. 👉 You can book your call at https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]  

Do you ever walk away from a conversation with your teen thinking…“That’s not how I wanted that to go…” You tried to stay calm. You chose your words carefully. You were intentional…And somehow, it still felt tense, disconnected, or off. What if it’s not just about what you’re saying…but what’s driving you underneath the conversation? In this episode, we begin a powerful 2-part series uncovering the hidden lies that shape how you show up with your teen—and how they impact your communication skills and ability to build connection. Because it’s not just about better conversation starters…it’s about what’s happening in your heart in the moment. You’ll Learn: The core lie many moms carry—and how it creates pressure in conversations How control and correction are often rooted in something deeper The connection between the false identities we take on and disconnection One simple awareness shift to help you respond from peace instead of pressure If you’ve been trying to communicate well…but still feel like something is missing in your connection—this episode will help you see what’s really happening and begin shifting toward more peaceful, connected conversations with your teen. Ready for more clarity and connection in your conversations? If you’re listening and thinking, “I see this… but I don’t know how to change it in the moment,” you don’t have to figure it out alone. In a 1-hour Communication Coaching Call, we’ll walk through what’s really happening in your relationship and map out exactly what to say in your next conversation—anchored in truth, not pressure. 👉 Book your session here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching More Resources: 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for?  Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

What if the reason your teen shuts down…isn’t because they don’t want to talk—but because they don’t feel understood? So many moms feel stuck in constant conflict, walking on eggshells, or unsure how to communicate without it turning into an argument. In this episode, we’re talking about one powerful shift in communication skills that can help you stop arguing with your teen, build connection, and begin to move through conflict in a completely different way. Because your teen’s perspective may not match your intention—but it feels real to them. And how you respond in that moment… changes everything. You’ll Learn: Why your teen’s perspective matters (even when it feels wrong) How to respond in conflict without shutting the conversation down A simple way to improve family communication and build trust What to say so your teen feels safe, respected, and open to talking If you’ve been wondering how to communicate better, reduce conflict, and create more open conversations with your teen—this episode will give you a simple, practical place to start. If you’re listening and thinking, “I want this kind of connection with my teen—but I’m not sure how to get there,” you don’t have to figure it out on your own. My 1:1 Communication Coaching Calls are a place to pause, be heard, and get clear on what’s really going on in your relationship—so you can move forward with confidence and know what to say next. 👉 Book your coaching call here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Related Episodes: #50 - From “We Need to Talk” to Honest Conversations That Build Connection (Part 1) #51 - From “We Need to Talk” to Speaking Your Heart So They Receive It (Part 2) #52 - From “We Need to Talk” to Restoring Connection With Grace (Part 3) #53 - From “We Need to Talk” to Real Conversations That Build Connection (Part 4) More Resources: 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey? 🎧This is a collection of songs that have brought me peace, encouragement when I needed it most and helped my anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

What happens after your teen finally opens up… Do things actually change? Or does it go right back to the way it was before? If you’ve ever had a good conversation with your teen and wondered, “Will this last?”—this episode is for you. In this episode of Connect With Your Teens, we continue the conversation with Dina Windle, a mom of a teenage daughter, and explore what happened after that first breakthrough moment—and how it began to change their connection. You’ll hear how one shift in communication skills began to build something deeper—ongoing trust, openness, and connection. You’ll learn: Why one good conversation can lead to lasting change How to respond in a way that makes your teen want to come back What builds trust over time (not just in the moment) How small shifts can strengthen your relationship with your teen If you’re parenting teens and longing to build connection that lasts beyond one conversation, this episode will give you hope—and a clear way forward. If you’re listening and thinking, “I want this kind of connection, but I’m not sure how to get there,” this is for you. You care deeply and want to stay patient, but in the moment it’s hard to stay anchored in who God’s called you to be. You don’t have to figure this out alone. In my 1-hour Communication Coaching Call, we’ll uncover what’s really happening in your conversations and give you simple, faith-anchored tools to build connection and trust—so you can move forward with clarity and confidence. Book your call here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for?  Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

What do you do when your teen is angry… emotional… or pushing you away? Most of us react. We defend. We try to fix. But what if the moment you feel the most tension…is actually your greatest opportunity to build connection? In this episode, Terri sits down with mom Dina Windle for a real-life conversation about a difficult moment with her daughter—one that could have created more distance, but instead became a turning point in their relationship. This is part one of a powerful two-part conversation where you’ll hear what it looks like to stay anchored, listen differently, and create the kind of safety that helps your teen open up. You’ll Learn: Why reacting in the moment can shut your teen down How staying anchored helps your teen feel safe and heard What it looks like to listen without taking things personally How connection begins even in the middle of conflict If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation with your teen thinking, “Why did that go that way again?” this episode will give you a new way to approach those moments. Press play and hear what’s possible when connection comes first. Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your teen wondering, “Why did that go that way again?” You don’t have to figure this out alone. In my 1-hour Communication Coaching Call, we’ll look at what’s really happening beneath the surface and help you move forward with clarity, peace, and a plan to rebuild connection. 👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

What if your teen pushing you away… isn’t rejection at all? What if it’s actually a sign they still want connection—with you? When your teen is argumentative, emotional, or shutting you out, it’s easy to believe the connection is gone. Many moms start to feel like they’re losing their influence—or that their teen simply doesn’t care anymore. But what if that behavior isn’t disconnection… it’s a cry for connection? In this episode, we’re reframing what you’re seeing so you can understand what your teen is really asking for beneath their behavior—and begin to build connection again with confidence and clarity. You’ll Learn The difference between a broken connection and a fractured one 5 surprising signs your teen still wants connection What your teen is really asking for beneath attitude or shutdown A simple shift that will strengthen your communication skills instantly If you’ve been wondering how to reconnect or questioning if your teen still needs you… this episode will give you hope—and a new way to see what’s really happening. Do you want weekly encouragement, parenting tips, and communication skills to strengthen you relationships straight to your in box? Then click the link to join my Connect With Your Teens Insider list today!  Become an Insider here: Weekly Newsletter Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey? 🎧You can get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist here:: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

What if the hardest moments in conversations with your teen…aren’t something to fix—but something to step into? That tension you feel…that fear rising up inside of you…what if it’s not the problem? What if it’s actually the place God wants to meet you—and begin transforming how you show up in parenting teens and relationships? In this episode, we’re talking about the internal wrestle so many moms experience…and how truth-telling—not fixing—is where freedom begins. If you’ve ever: Felt fear or anxiety rise in conversations with your teen Worried about saying the wrong thing or creating distance Tried to “handle it right” but still felt disconnected This episode will help you see those moments differently, so you can build connection and respond from a place of truth—not fear. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why fear shows up in conversations with your teen How the “internal wrestle” is actually an invitation from God What Jacob’s story reveals about identity and transformation The simple question that can open the door to transformation How to begin responding from your identity in Christ instead of fear You don’t have to get it perfect. You can simply stay in the present—and be willing to tell the truth. 💬 If this podcast has encouraged or helped you would you take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen. Your review helps more moms see the podcast and get support. Click here to review on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296 💛 Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: https://www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]  

Have you ever noticed your teen starts opening up…and somehow, the conversation shuts down? You’re trying to help. You’re trying to guide. But instead of getting closer… they pull away. What if the problem isn’t what you’re saying—but how quickly you’re trying to fix it? In this episode, I’m sharing one simple communication skill that can completely change the way your teen responds to you—helping them feel safe, understood, and actually want to keep talking. This is the shift that builds trust… one conversation at a time. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why teens shut down when we move too quickly to solutions The listening mistake most moms don’t realize they’re making How summarizing creates safety and deeper connection What to say so it doesn’t feel awkward or scripted A simple way to start using this today If your teen has been distant, quiet, or hard to reach lately—this episode will show you where to start. 🎧 Press play and learn the skill that opens real conversation. ✨ Want support for applying this in real life? I’m hosting a free, private monthly support group for moms of teens — live on Zoom. It’s a safe space to come as you are, talk through what’s been hard, and get support around communication and connection. We’re kicking it off on Wednesday, March 25th at 10 AM MST. You’ll need to register to join. 👉 Save your seat here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup Resources: 💌 Want weekly encouragement and communication tips straight to your inbox?  Sign up for the newsletter and get practical tips, stories of how this works in real life & hope sent to you every week. Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunication ✨Contact: [email protected]

Have you ever put thought into how you were going to respond to your teen… and the conversation still didn’t go the way you expected? You’re trying to stay calm. You’re thinking about what to say. And still… something feels off. In this short bonus episode, we’re talking about why communication with your teenager can feel harder than expected — even when your heart is in the right place — and the small shift that can begin building connection again. If you’ve been navigating tension, silence, or conversations that don’t go very deep, this episode will help you see what may be happening underneath it — and how to begin responding differently in a way that strengthens your relationship. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why conversations with your teen can feel off even when you’re trying What may be creating disconnection in communication A simple shift that helps build trust and connection ✨Ready for more support? If you’ve been wanting better communication with your teen but aren’t sure what to change, this will give you a place to start. If you’re listening and wishing you had support with this right now, you’re invited to join my free Connect With Your Teens Monthly Support Group — a simple space to talk through real-life conversations and move toward connection. Register 👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Follow or DM Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your teen thinking… “Why did I say that?” or “I think I just made that worse…” You love your teen. You want to guide them, help them, and stay connected. But sometimes, in the moment, your response comes out of frustration, fear, or pressure—and it leaves both of you feeling more disconnected. What if the problem isn’t your communication skills… but what you’re anchored to in the moment? In this episode of Connect With Your Teens, Terri’s sharing 5 powerful scriptures you can use to anchor your identity in Christ so you can communicate with more peace, clarity, and confidence—and begin to build connection with your teen in a way that actually invites them to open up. This isn’t about saying the perfect thing. It’s about becoming anchored before you respond. In this episode, you’ll learn: How anchoring your identity in Christ strengthens your communication skills Why fear, guilt, and frustration can quickly disrupt connection with your teen 5 scriptures to help you feel steady and calm in difficult conversations How to respond in a way that builds connection instead of creating distance If you’ve been feeling frustrated, reactive, or unsure how to respond in conversations with your teen, this episode will give you a simple, faith-anchored place to start. Ready for more personal support?  On a personalized Communication Coaching Call, we’ll gently uncover what may be blocking connection with your teen and help you take simple, practical steps forward so you can begin responding differently right away. You can learn more and book your session here: connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Connection with your teen doesn’t come from perfect communication. It grows when you’re anchored—and they feel safe to be heard. 💛 Need ongoing support?  Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement. Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup 💌Want weekly encouragement straight to your in box? Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it?  Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💬 Want to help more moms like you get the support they’ve been praying for? Leave a review so they can find this podcast and renewed hope for their relationship: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast  

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your teen thinking… “Why did I say that?” “I should have handled that better.” “Maybe I messed this up.” That quiet voice of mom guilt can creep in quickly. And while it often comes from love and a deep desire to guide your child well, it can quietly shape the way we communicate with our teens. Sometimes guilt leads us to over-explain, over-advise, or walk on eggshells in conversations. We try harder, talk more, and push for solutions—only to find our teen shutting down or pulling away. In this episode of Connect With Your Teens, we talk about how mom guilt can cloud our communication skills and unintentionally create pressure in conversations. You’ll learn simple shifts that help you communicate from peace and confidence instead of fear—so you can build connection and create space where your teen feels safe to talk. In this episode, you’ll learn: How mom guilt quietly shapes conversations with your teen Five ways guilt can unintentionally block connection Simple communication shifts that help your teen feel heard and understood Why listening first often opens the door to deeper conversations ✨ Ready to begin healing your relationship with your teen? Schedule a Communication Coaching Call with me-we’ll uncover what may be blocking connection in your relationships and map out practical next steps so you can walk forward with the ability to respond with clarity, peace, and confidence. 👉connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Connection with your teen doesn’t grow out of guilt. It grows when they feel safe to talk—and safe to be heard. Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Grab your Anchoring Spotify Playlist here for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your teen thinking, “I was trying to encourage them… so why did they shut down?” You care deeply. You’re trying to listen, understand, and support your teen. But sometimes conversations still end in silence, distance, or frustration. In this episode, we talk about three common communication patterns many loving moms use that sound supportive and relatable on the surface… but can unintentionally leave a teen feeling unheard or cause them to stop talking. These patterns often come from a good place — wanting to comfort, relate, or encourage your child when they’re hurting. But when we respond this way, they can shift the focus away from your teen’s own words and experience instead of helping them feel understood.  You’ll discover how these subtle ways we try to show love and support can block connection — and how simple shifts in your communication skills can help your child feel understood and safe continuing the conversation. You’ll learn: The 3 communication patterns that can unintentionally block connection Why encouragement, reassurance, or sharing your own story can sometimes backfire How to recognize when a conversation shifts away from your teen’s experience One simple awareness step that can begin opening the door to deeper conversations If you’ve ever wondered why your teen shuts down even when you’re trying to help, this episode will give you practical communication strategies to help your teen feel safer talking and strengthen your relationship. 🎧 Ready for breakthrough with your teen? If today’s conversation encouraged you and you’re realizing you’d like some personal support navigating communication with your teen, you don’t have to figure it out alone. You can learn more about my 1-hour communication coaching call here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💬 If you learned something from this episode or were encouraged to deepen your connection with your teen, I'd love it if you'd take thirty seconds to leave a review so more moms can find the support they’ve been praying for. https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

What if the communication tools you’ve been taught… aren’t actually enough to build connection and real trust with your teen? Many moms learn communication skills like active listening or conflict resolution, yet conversations at home can still feel tense, exhausting, or disconnected. So what’s missing? In this special episode of Connect With Your Teens, I’m joined by someone who deeply shaped my own understanding of communication and relationships—my mentor Nancy Demmitt. Nancy and her husband Dallas spent decades counseling couples and families. But along the way, they discovered something surprising: communication skills alone weren’t enough to transform relationships. Real change came when communication became anchored in something deeper—our identity in Christ, personal responsibility, and a posture of grace. In this conversation, Nancy shares the story behind the communication approach that became the foundation for my own work helping moms build connection and trust with their teens. You’ll Learn Why traditional communication skills often fail to create lasting connection The deeper foundation that transforms family communication How anchoring in Christ changes the way we respond during conflict Why taking responsibility for our own reactions is key to healthier conversations A simple story from Nancy’s parenting years that shows the power of listening for understanding If you’re parenting teens and longing for calmer conversations, deeper trust, and a stronger relationship with your teen, this episode will give you a powerful new perspective on communication. Sometimes the biggest shift in our families begins when we stop trying to control the conversation and start anchoring ourselves first. Ready for more support? If you’re listening and thinking, “I want this kind of connection with my teen… but I’m not sure how to get there,” you don’t have to figure it out alone. My 1-hour Communication Coaching Calls are a safe place to pause, be heard, and get clear about what’s happening in your relationship. Together we look at what may be blocking connection and walk through simple, Spirit-led ways to rebuild trust and peace in your relationship with your teen. 👉 Book your coaching session here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching 📖 If you’d like to get a copy of Nancy and Dallas Demmitt’s book, “Can You Hear Me Now?,” you can find it here: Amazon: https://a.co/d/05yMKU9H Or Entrust Source (latest cover): https://www.entrustsource.com/product/can-you-hear-me-now/ Related Episode:  54 - Is This Silent Parenting Habit Stealing Your Health and Connection? Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter

You love your teen. You want connection. You want peace in your conversations. You want to build trust, not tension. So why does it still feel hard? What if the struggle isn’t just communication skills… but the pace your family has been living at? In this honest, heart-to-heart episode of Connect With Your Teens, we’re talking about a silent parenting habit that quietly affects your health, your emotional and spiritual well-being, and your ability to build connection with your teenager.  You’re doing your best. You’re giving opportunities. You’re managing school, sports, activities, work, and responsibilities. But this habit may be shaping your family more than you realize — and it could be impacting your patience, your nervous system, and your communication. When you’re constantly running, meaningful conversations feel harder. Emotional depth requires margin. Anchored communication requires calm. And when moms are stretched thin, even the best parenting tips can feel impossible to apply. You’ll learn: How busyness becomes a hidden cause of family disconnection Why emotional conversations require slowness to grow How to recognize when you’re operating in survival mode Simple, Spirit-led shifts that help you build connection through calm, anchored communication skills And if you’re listening today and thinking, “I want connection. I want peace in our conversations. I don’t want to keep guessing what to say,” you don’t have to figure that out alone.  My 1:1 Communication Coaching Session is a safe place to pause, pray, and get clear on how to move forward effectively so you can rebuild trust with your teen in a Spirit-led, practical way. You can book your 1-hour session at https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist 💬 I’d love it if you’d leave a Review so more moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

“I want you to know where I’m coming from — not because I’m trying to control you, but because I love you. And I’m going to love you no matter what you decide.” What if that’s how your next hard conversation ended? In this final episode of the series, you won’t just learn the framework — you’ll hear it. Because knowing communication skills that build connection is one thing. Hearing what they actually sound like in real life is another. Today, Terri walks you through real anchored conversations — including a phone boundary discussion and a high-stakes situation involving a boyfriend sleepover. You’ll hear how tone, posture, and ownership shift a conversation from control to collaboration. In this episode, you’ll learn: What anchored talking sounds like in real conversations How to address screen time without escalating conflict How to express concern without control How to use “I want” statements to build trust This is where theory becomes practice. ✨ Ready to stop repeating the same conflict cycles? Book a Communication Coaching Call and we’ll map out one real conversation you’re facing — step-by-step — so you can build connection instead of tension. 👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

You’ve said the hard thing. You’ve shared your concerns. You’ve owned your feelings. But the conversation still feels unfinished. Why? Because most of us were never taught the communication skills needed to have “the talk” in a way that truly builds connection instead of distance. In this third episode of the series, we walk through Step 7 — the next piece that shifts your “we need to talk” moment from correction to collaboration. Instead of demanding change, you’ll learn how to express what you want in a way that invites your teen into partnership. And that’s where grace enters. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why traditional confrontation often creates compliance without connection How to move from problem-focused to possibility-focused communication What it sounds like to express “I want” without control or pressure How casting vision builds trust and emotional safety A powerful biblical example of appealing instead of commanding This is where anchored communication becomes transformational. ✨ Ready to begin healing your relationship? Schedule a Communication Coaching Call with me—we’ll talk through where you’re feeling stuck and what it could look like to finally start creating lasting connection with your teen as you partner with God in the journey.  👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist 💬 I’d love it if you’d leave a Review so more moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

You’ve been replaying the conversation in your head for days. You care deeply. You see things that concern you. You want to build trust, not create distance. But every time you try to bring it up, your teen shuts down… gets defensive… or walks away. And suddenly “we need to talk” turns into conflict instead of connection. In Part 2 of this 3-part series, I’m giving you the exact words and simple structure to help you build connection, strengthen your communication skills, and speak your heart in a way your teen can actually receive. Because parenting teens isn’t just about what you say — it’s about how you say it. If you’re a Christian mom who wants practical parenting tips rooted in identity and wisdom — this episode will show you how to move from reaction to intentional conversation starters that create safety instead of shutdown. In This Episode You’ll Learn: The 3 biggest mistakes moms make when confronting hard topics How to use “I see / I hear” instead of leading with judgment How to share your thoughts without presenting them as facts How to express real emotions in a way that softens your teen instead of triggering them A simple conversation structure that helps your teen feel heard, not attacked And if you're ready for more support and connect with other moms, join our private How to Connect With Your Teen Facebook group. This is where we’re building community, sharing wins, and helping each other navigate hard conversations in a way that builds connection and trust. When you join, you’ll receive a free set of conversation starters you can use right away. Click here to join:  Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group More Resources:  💌 Want weekly encouragement and communication tips straight to your inbox? Sign up for the newsletter and get practical tips, stories of how this works in real life & hope sent to you every week. Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

Every mom knows that moment—you say "we need to talk" and watch your teen immediately shut down, get defensive, or walk away. You enter these conversations with the best intentions, wanting to address their behavior and restore peace. But the way most of us were taught to handle conflict is just a bandaid to a deeper issue, and it ends up creating more distance. Have you been listening more? Reflecting back what you’re hearing your teen say? Inviting them to share more? Then you’ve been laying a foundation of connection. Now how do you talk so they’ll listen?  Stay tuned. In this first episode of a three-part series on parenting teens we’re talking about how we can build connection through the words we speak even in conflict. Terri will be sharing a game-changing framework that’s transformed how she communicates with her kids.  What You'll Learn: The #1 reason your teen shuts down when you try to have hard conversations (and how to fix it) How to choose connection as your goal instead of confrontation The power of truth-telling with yourself before speaking to your teen Why anchoring in Christ's peace is the secret to transforming your communication skills Before you go, if this episode helped you, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It takes just a minute and it means the world to me—plus it helps other moms find their way to this community. Thank you for being here.  Leave a on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist

What if the way you see and love your teenager could mirror the moment you first felt fully loved and fully accepted by God?  In this episode, Terri shares an experience during her kids' teen years but didn't have the language for at the time. Through prayer and reflection, God showed her a deeper truth about acceptance, love, and how to build God breathed connection with our teens—no agenda, no strings attached.  If you've been searching for parenting tips that go beyond managing behavior and outcomes to creating bridges to your teen's heart, this episode will shine light on how you can do this from your own experiences with God. Stay with me—this isn't another strategy. It's a heart transformation. What You'll Learn: How to love your teen the way God first loved you—with no strings attached   Why your teen can sense your agenda (and what to do instead)   A reflective exercise to reconnect with your own teen years and build connection   How God's acceptance of you can transform your parenting approach   Want simple, practical ways to start connecting with your teen today?  Download my Building Connection Beyond Screen TimeInside—a free guide with 15 conversation starters and parenting tips to help you show up with no-agenda love and build real connection. Download here: connectwithyourteens.com/build-connection-screentime Want more support? 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved, adored, and delighted in: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist

Struggling to communicate with your teen? Feel like every conversation ends in frustration, conflict, or silence? What if the breakthrough you're looking for has nothing to do with finding the perfect words—and everything to do with what you do before you open your mouth? In this episode, we're diving into the #1 sign that your communication skills are about to start transforming your relationship with your teen.  We'll unpack the story of David in 1 Samuel 30—when everything fell apart and he was under crushing pressure (sound familiar?)—and discover what he did that changed everything. Spoiler: He didn't try to fix the problem first. What you’ll learn: Why trying to "fix" the conversation is keeping you stuck The 3-step framework to communicate with confidence and peace How to let go of the agenda and invite the Holy Spirit into your conversations Ready to let go of the weight and step into breakthrough? Here’s practical help starting these conversations? Grab the free guide 'Building Connection Beyond Screen Time' with 15 easy conversation starters you can use today:  https://connectwithyourteens.com/build-connection-screentime 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

If you've ever felt like the last person your teen wants to talk to, this episode is for you.  We're going beneath the surface to understand what's really happening in your teen's brain and heart when they choose the screen over real conversation. You'll discover why they're willing to risk the drama and pain of social media—and what that reveals about what they're actually searching for. More importantly, you'll learn how to respond with compassion and strategy instead of control. We'll talk about how to build connection that makes them *want* to put the phone down and open up to you—without forcing it or feeling like you need to have all the answers. This isn't about managing screen time. It's about becoming the safe place they choose to come to. If you're ready to stop reacting out of fear and start connecting with confidence, this episode will show you how. What You'll Learn: What's really driving your teen to their phone (it's not what you think) Why the risk of social media feels safer to them than talking to you Communication skills that open doors instead of shutting them down Parenting tips for creating connection that feels safe, not threatening Conversation starters that invite them in without pressure Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist 💬 I’d love it if you’d leave a Review so more moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

If you've ever felt like you're at your wit's end with your teen—constantly worrying, trying to control, but only pushing them further away—this episode is for you. Today, I'm sitting down with a mom (we'll call her Jessica) who was exactly where you are. She was anxious, exhausted, and desperate for connection with her daughter who was shutting down. But through anchoring in God's love, practicing simple communication skills, and surrendering control, everything changed. Her daughter went from shutting down to opening up. Toxic relationships fell away. Peace replaced fear. And her entire family was transformed—including her marriage. In this episode, you'll hear: ✅ How Jessica went from reactive and controlling to calm and connected   ✅ The power of using conversation starters and truly listening without fixing   ✅ How anchoring in God's love as His daughter changed her entire approach to parenting   ✅ Why surrendering control actually created space for God to work in her daughter's life   ✅ How building connection with her teen impacted her marriage and entire family dynamic   ✅ Practical parenting tips for moms who feel stuck, anxious, or disconnected If you're wondering if it's too late or if change is even possible—this conversation will give you hope. Ready to experience this kind of transformation yourself? Join me for a FREE live Connect With Your Teen workshop on Monday, January 27th. In just one hour, I'll walk you through the exact steps Jessica used to go from constant worry to deep connection with her older teens. 👉 Register today: https://bit.ly/opt-in-cwyt-workshop Resources & Links  🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 💬 Would you take 60 seconds to leave a Review so more moms can find the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

If you've ever walked away from a conversation with your teen wondering, "What did I just do wrong?"—this episode is for you.  The silence. The tension. The one-word answers. The distance you're feeling isn't a failure… and it does not need to be permanent. You're not a bad mom and you're not failing.  You just need a different approach to build connection in these teen years. In this bonus episode, I'm inviting you to join me for the FREE Connect With Your Teen Workshop on January 27th—a live, 1-hour hands-on training where we'll break down what's keeping you from the connection you desire and what to do instead so your teen starts to open up. Here's what you'll learn: ✅ Why your current approach isn't working—and how to stop the cycle of disconnection, silence, and shut down ✅ Why your teen pulls away when you try to connect—and how to create conversations where they feel safe enough to talk ✅ Communication skills that work in real life (not just in theory or perfect circumstances) ✅ Faith-based conversation starters anchored in Christ that create real transformation—not tips and tricks that leave you confused You'll walk away with tools you can use that very same day to stop feeling dismissed, ignored, or like you're losing your child. If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start building real connection with your teen, this workshop is for you. Register here: https://bit.ly/opt-in-cwyt-workshop Let's make 2026 the year your relationship transforms. Resources & Links  🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected]

Have you ever felt paralyzed as a mom? Like you’re walking on eggshells…Replaying conversations at night…Overthinking every word because you’re afraid of making things worse. When the noise in your head gets this loud, it can feel impossible to hear God’s voice — or know how to move forward with your teen. In this episode, I share a deeply personal moment that brought me face-to-face with that paralysis — and how God met me there. This conversation is about learning how to quiet noise, build connection, and show up with peace in your communication. You'll learn: Why fear and overthinking block clarity and communication skills How internal noise makes connection feel impossible Why building connection starts inside you, not with fixing your teen How peace — not control — creates safety and openness Mom, if you feel stuck right now, you are not failing. You’re being invited into freedom — and God is still speaking, even through the noise. ✨ Join my Free Live Workshop – January 27th Learn how to stop walking on eggshells and reconnect in just 10 minutes a day and become the calm, safe presence your teen needs. 👉 Register here: https://bit.ly/opt-in-cwyt-workshop Want more support? 🤍 Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌 Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨ Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected]

What if your teen isn’t drifting away for good—but waiting to see if it’s safe to come back? If you’ve been carrying the fear that your teen is pulling away, this episode offers a hopeful and grounding reframe. Often, what looks like distance or silence isn’t rejection at all. It’s waiting. Waiting to see how you show up. Waiting to see if your presence feels calm, steady, and safe enough to trust again. In this episode, I walk you through a powerful real-life story of a mom who stopped trying to fix her teen and instead shifted how she showed up. When fear and anxiety no longer led her communication and she began using the listening skills we’ve talked about something changed. Her daughter began seeking her out—not because she had the perfect words, but because connecting with her mom finally felt safe. We’ll talk about why building connection with teens isn’t about saying the right thing perfectly all the time, but about practicing communication skills that flow from who you are in Christ so that the way you relate and communicate reflects peace instead of pressure.  You’ll learn how fear subtly shapes our communication styles, how that impacts trust, what truly helps teens open up again, and a simple next step to start showing up confidently, steadily, and anchored in Him. In this episode, you’ll learn: What your teen may truly be waiting for beneath the distance How your presence impacts trust more than your parenting tips Why emotional safety matters more than perfect communication A simple, practical next step to help you show up calm and grounded If you’re a mom parenting teens and longing to rebuild trust, improve communication skills, and stop feeling like one wrong move could make things worse, this episode will remind you of something important: you already have what your teen needs. Christ lives in you, and when you show up anchored in Him, your teen feels it. This truth will help you see your teen—and yourself—through a new lens, and give you hope for what’s still possible. 🚨Ready to become the mom your teen actually wants to talk to? Join me for a live FREE Connect with Your Teen Workshop on January 27th at 7pm MST, where we’ll talk honestly about how to reconnect with your teen and begin building trust in a safe and loving way.  Registering gets you a chance to win door prizes!  Register here: https://bit.ly/opt-in-cwyt-workshop Want more support? 🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group 💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox? Weekly Newsletter ✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨Contact: [email protected] 🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=O7JpUf2GReeybWuLczA5dg&pi=u-259Y2TakRLCN 💬 I’d love it if you’d leave a review so more moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

New year, same struggles with your teen? I get it. But what if this year could be different—not because you try harder, but because you align with what God is already doing? Maybe you've been tiptoeing around your own home, hoping today won't be the day something sets them off. You ask a simple question and get shut down with one word. Or worse—an eye roll and a slammed door. And you start thinking, "Is this just how it's going to be now?" Here's the truth, Mom: Connection is still possible. Even when it feels impossible. In this episode, I'm sharing 4 powerful conversation starters that will help you stop striving and start connecting His way. These aren't just parenting tips—they're questions that will help you partner with God to create real, lasting connection with your teen. What if God’s plan and the breakthrough you've been praying for starts with asking the right questions? What You'll Learn: Why New Year's resolutions often fail—and what to focus on instead   The thought reversal that changes everything: It's not about getting your teen to open up—it's about creating safety where they want to   4 conversation starters to help you build your connection plan with God's guidance One intentional action you can take this week to start building trust in 10 minutes a day   Ready to Stop Walking on Eggshells and Start Connecting? Join me for a FREE live workshop on January 27th: Connect With Your Teen: Build Trust in 10 Minutes a Day and Stop Walking on Eggshells.  In just one hour, I'll walk you through simple, practical tools rooted in faith that actually work. You'll learn how to stop the cycle of tension, create safety so your teen wants to open up, and rebuild trust even if things feel really broken right now. 🔗 Reserve your free spot: https://bit.ly/opt-in-cwyt-workshop Let's do this together so you can enjoy your relationship with your child again. 💛 Resources & Links ✨ Join the FB Community: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly tips, encouragement, and be the first to know of upcoming events: Weekly Newsletter ✨ Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: [email protected] 💬Would you take 1 minute and leave a Review so more moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for? Here’s the link to the show:: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast