50. HORMONES: When Hormones Hijack the Mind: ADHD, Perimenopause & Emotional Burnout with Dr Sunita Chelva

⚠️ Content warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of suicidal ideation at 17mins.🚛 You survived pregnancy. You survived newborn chaos. You survived years of exhaustion.Then perimenopause hit — and it felt like your ADHD exploded overnight.If perimenopause has made your ADHD feel impossible — you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not the only one.In this raw and relatable episode, Jane sits down with Dr. Sunita Chelva (Hero Menopause & Women’s Health) to unpack what happens when fluctuating hormones collide with ADHD brains. From brain fog and rage to misdiagnosis and burnout, this conversation shines a light on what women are really experiencing — and why it’s not “just Mum life.”What We Cover in This EpisodeHow estrogen and progesterone shifts in perimenopause impact dopamine and ADHD symptomsWhy burnout, brain fog, rage, and emotional reactivity spike in the late 30s–50sThe overlap between ADHD and PMDD — and why up to 70% of ADHD women are affectedWhy women are often offered antidepressants instead of hormone supportHow masking, multitasking, and guilt fuel emotional depletionRed flags when seeking help — and why you may need second or third opinionsPractical steps: symptom tracking, seeking hormone-aware providers, and building supportThis Episode Is For You IfYou feel like your ADHD has worsened in perimenopauseYou’ve experienced brain fog, rage, exhaustion, or guilt that doesn’t feel like “just Mum life”You’ve been told to try antidepressants but suspect hormones are playing a roleYou want to understand why PMDD and perimenopause hit ADHD women so hardYou need validation, language, and next steps to advocate for yourselfReferences & Resources MentionedDr. Sunita Chalva — Hera Menopause & Women’s Health Hero Menopause Symptom Scorer - https://www.heramenopause.com.au/herasymptomscoreAustralasian Menopause Society — symptom tracking toolsADHD Mums Recommended Provider Tool — find GPs & specialists who understand ADHD + hormonesSuggest your own Women’s Health Provider if you have had a good experience. https://form.jotform.com/242630327577863Related ADHD Mums Episodes🎧 The Perimenopause Crash — Progesterone, Stress, and the Rage Nobody Warned Us About🎧 HRT, ADHD & Perimenopause: What No One’s Explaining to Women🎧 Histamine + Hormones — Why You Feel Like You’re Falling Apart✨ Listen now: HORMONES: When Hormones Hijack the Mind — ADHD, Perimenopause & Emotional Burnout — available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and adhdmums.com.au — because hormones may hijack your brain, but they don’t get to define your life — and you deserve support that actually works.JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at [email protected] RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.