53. Behind the Scenes of Psychological Safety at Work with Lise Kaye-Bell

In this episode of It Starts With You, Vic O'Farrell is joined by Lise Kaye-Bell, a specialist in mission-based leadership and psychological safety, for a powerful conversation about what it really means to feel safe at work. This isn't about fluffy wellbeing policies or tick-box programmes, it's about the subtle behaviours, unspoken tensions and quiet disengagement that leaders often miss. Together they unpack why "quiet quitting" isn't laziness but often a sign of someone not feeling safe to speak up, how bullying can go unnoticed, and why HR can feel both supportive and intimidating at the same time. If you've ever felt like you had to shrink yourself at work, this one will resonate. Lise also shares her unique theatre-based workshop approach, where professional actors bring workplace scenarios to life, helping leaders see the impact of their behaviour in a way that's impossible to ignore. The conversation explores how different personalities navigate unsafe environments, the power of coaching, how to start meaningful check-ins without causing alarm, and the ripple effect our behaviour has far beyond a single interaction. It's an honest, insightful episode that reminds us psychological safety isn't a policy, it's a daily practice. And as always, it starts with you.   . "It Starts with You" podcast is available everywhere on Wednesdays every fortnight.  If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a rating and review! Thank you, Vic.      Let's Connect! Follow Vic O'Farrell via the Queen of Behaviours  Instagram - @vicofarrell LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoriaofarrell/ Email – [email protected] Website - www.queenofbehaviours.com Work with Vicky Showreel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTWViLzyLkU Programmes: https://queenofbehaviours.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Programmes-2024-new-copy.pdf Speaker Pack: https://queenofbehaviours.com/speaker/   FREE RESOURCES Newsletter: https://mymailers.biz/qob/?fbclid=IwAR3CWpPKNLH0Qy7_9fDBYrCK0o6PdDXfHD08phcq8_okFfJM9UT6cAvIFOo Understand Different Personalities: https://form.jotform.com/250735619744363 Quick Guide to Disc: https://queenofbehaviours.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Quick-Guide-to-DISC.pdf DISC for Team Success: https://queenofbehaviours.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Using-DISC-.pdf   For updates on new episodes and everything podcast related Watch the podcast on YouTube:  www.youtube.com/@queenofbehaviours Instagram - @itstartswithyoupodcastqob Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/queenofbehaviours TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itstartswithyoupodcast LinkedIn Page - https://www.linkedin.com/company/queenofbehaviours/ Website - www.queenofbehaviours.com/podcast   About the Guest Lise Kaye-Bell is the founder of Soundproofbox CIC and an experienced learning and development professional with over 25 years' experience across corporate, public, and third-sector environments. She designs and delivers high-impact training, interactive theatre, and facilitated experiences focused on communication, leadership, resilience, safeguarding, and behavioural change. Her work supports organisations to tackle complex issues, strengthen culture, and create meaningful, measurable social impact.     Email [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/share/1Tav4DTuK2/?mibextid=wwXIfr https://www.linkedin.com/in/lise-kaye-bell?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app Instagram: @lisekayebellspeaks