53| Raising Kids in the Faith (Without the Pressure): Kristin DeVan on Real-Life Habits

Melissa sits down with Kristin DeVan—mom of four, campus minister, and longtime Nativity/Rebuilt ministry leader—to talk about raising kids in the Catholic faith, simple family faith habits, and building a home culture rooted in Jesus (without perfection or pressure). Kristin shares how serving as a kid ignited her calling, how liturgical seasons help families, practical ways to pray with little ones, and why small groups matter for moms. You’ll hear honest encouragement on burnout, boundaries, and keeping your cup filled while you pour into your family and church. Get your FREE copy of the Anchored with Purpose planner here: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 What you’ll learn How early serving in church shaped Kristin’s calling and faith Simple, realistic family faith rhythms (prayer before meals, bedtime intentions, worship music) Using liturgical seasons (Advent, Lent) to engage kids who think in “seasons” Why modeling matters more than perfection (parents as visible disciples) Small groups for moms: going deeper, being known, and staying filled Guarding against comparison and online perfection; choosing voices that encourage Practical resources: saints books for kids, worship music (Forrest Frank), Hallow app Chapters 0:00 – God-orchestrated friendship & fun-size besties 1:25 – Kristin’s story: serving at 8 years old → theology → campus ministry 8:55 – Nativity/Rebuilt snapshot: one church, one message, excellence 11:30 – Keeping faith central with four kids: simple, consistent habits 15:25 – Practical traditions: mealtime prayer, bedtime intentions, music, saints books 18:30 – Worship music & Scripture: memorizing through lyrics 20:30 – Real-talk: avoiding pressure and perfection; doing what fits your family 22:45 – Hallow app, rosary readiness, and meeting kids where they are 24:20 – Small groups for moms: virtual after-bedtime & going deep 26:10 – Encouragement for moms in every season: grace > perfection Keywords: Catholic moms, Catholic family life, family faith practices, liturgical living for families, Catholic parenting, motherhood and faith, small groups for moms, Rebuilt Parish, Nativity Church, worship music for kids, saints for kids, prayer with children, Catholic women encouragement, balance for busy moms