Anchored with Purpose | Faith, Family, Purpose, Dreaming, Planning, Overcoming Anxiety, Overcoming Overwhelm

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Anchored with Purpose | Faith, Family, Purpose, Dreaming, Planning, Overcoming Anxiety, Overcoming Overwhelm

The Anchored with Purpose Podcast focuses on Faith, Family, Purpose, & Dreaming Big. How do I fill the emptiness I feel in my life? What is missing from my life? The stresses of this world are causing me anxiety, how can I cope? I’m a mom, but I feel so drained and have lost a piece of me, how do I find me again? How do I dream again? How do I even achieve those dreams?And the biggest question of all, is it worth pursuing my purpose and dreams? Whether you’re a dreamer, a mom, connected in your faith or feeling a little (or a lot) lost, this is the show for you. The Anchored with Purpose Podcast is a live-workshop style podcast packed with actionable step-by-step tips to help you redefine what you want in your life in the areas of faith, family, purpose, & pursuing your dreams.You can train with the experts on how to dig in, reconnect with your faith & purpose, and tackle your biggest goals along the way.

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    82| When God Calls You to More: Following the Holy Spirit with Heidi Bollich-Erne

    What does it mean to embrace the feminine genius in today’s world? In this inspiring episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa sits down with Catholic publisher and educator Heidi Bollich-Erne, founder of The Better Part Journal, a beautiful new print journal created to elevate the voices, experiences, and intellectual contributions of Catholic women.Heidi shares the powerful story behind the journal’s name, including the dream that inspired it and the connection to Mary of Bethany choosing “the better part” at the feet of Jesus. Together, Melissa and Heidi dive into topics like the feminine genius, women’s voices in the Church, slowing down in a noisy digital world, discernment, creativity, faith-filled leadership, and following the call God places on your heart.If you’ve ever felt a holy discontent, sensed God calling you toward something more, or wondered how your gifts can serve the Church and the world, this conversation will deeply encourage you.✨ Ready to build a simple daily faith routine? Grab your free Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal here: Free Anchored with Purpose Faith JournalChapters:00:00 – Introduction02:30 – Heidi’s Background & Story05:00 – Who Is Edith Stein?08:15 – The Story Behind The Better Part Journal11:00 – What’s Inside the Journal16:00 – Women’s Voices in the Church20:40 – Why Print Instead of Digital24:30 – Slowing Down in a Noisy World29:15 – Letting the Holy Spirit Lead34:45 – Encouragement for Women Feeling Called to More41:50 – How to Find The Better Part Journal43:45 – Final Thoughts & EncouragementResources & Links Mentioned: • The Better Part Journal Website: https://www.thebetterpartjournal.com/ • The Better Part Journal on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578958392539 This episode is a beautiful reminder that God often calls us through holy discontent, unexpected dreams, quiet nudges, and open doors we never planned for ourselves. When women embrace their gifts, lead with faith, and remain open to the Holy Spirit, incredible things can happen.If this episode encouraged you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and subscribe to the Anchored with Purpose Podcast so more Catholic women can discover these conversations.Catholic women podcast, feminine genius, Catholic women leadership, Edith Stein, women in the Catholic Church, Catholic motherhood, Catholic personal growth, faith and purpose, discernment, holy discontent, Catholic intellectual journal, feminine genius Catholic, Catholic women community, Christian women podcast, Catholic entrepreneurship, women of faith, spiritual growth for women, Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Catholic creatives, The Better Part Journal

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    81| Declutter Your Home, Find Your Peace | ft. Gina Morton

    If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by clutter in your home, your schedule, or even your thoughts, this episode is for you.Melissa sits down with Gina, host of Pruning to Prosper, to talk about how decluttering is about so much more than just organizing your space. It’s about creating room for God to move in your life.Gina shares how she went from helping women organize their homes to helping them clear mental and spiritual clutter, all rooted in faith and the power of the Rosary. You’ll walk away with simple, practical steps to get started, along with a fresh perspective on how your environment impacts your peace, your purpose, and your ability to say “yes” to God.This conversation is equal parts practical and powerful. It will leave you feeling lighter, encouraged, and ready to take your next step.Key Takeaways:Why clutter is not just physical but mental and spiritualHow God created order first and why that matters for your homeThe connection between your environment and your ability to hear GodA simple 3-step method to start decluttering todayHow to let go of emotional attachment to “stuff”Why your home can become a place of ministry and hospitalityHow routines and systems create freedom and peaceThe role of the Rosary in bringing clarity, focus, and directionHow decluttering can open the door to purpose and transformationChapters: 00:00 Welcome and introduction to Gina 01:00 Gina’s story and how Pruning to Prosper began 03:00 Why decluttering is about more than your home 05:00 Creating space to hear God more clearly 08:00 Using your home for ministry and hospitality 10:00 Why your environment impacts your peace 13:00 Creating a home you actually want to be in 15:00 The power of the Rosary in daily life 20:00 Where to start when you feel overwhelmed 22:00 Gina’s step-by-step decluttering method 25:00 Letting go of emotional attachment to things 33:00 What your family actually values and remembers 37:00 Using what you have instead of saving it 41:00 A powerful transformation story 45:00 What a peaceful home really feels like 48:00 Systems that make life easier 51:00 From cluttered life to purposeful living 56:00 How to connect with GinaResources & Links:Gina’s Podcast: Pruning to Prosper: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pruning-to-prosper-catholic-declutter-organize-motivation/id1613434502 Connect with Gina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pruningtoprosperpodcast/  Free Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/fb72f69cdf Catholic podcast, decluttering tips, Christian home organization, faith and home, Catholic motherhood, rosary and daily routine, how to declutter your home, mental clutter, spiritual growth for women, Christian personal development, organizing your home, simplify your life, Catholic women podcast, finding peace at home, faith based habits, Christian routines, hospitality in the home, living with purpose, overwhelmed mom help, home systems and routines

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    80| Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Lead Your Life with Faith Instead of Burnout

    Are you feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like you’re constantly trying to “balance” it all and still falling short?In this powerful and relatable conversation, I sit down with Bethany Rees, founder of Leadership on the Rocks, to talk about what it really means to lead with faith in every area of your life. From motherhood to career to personal growth, Bethany shares a refreshing perspective on leadership, identity, and how to move from chaos to clarity.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the things but still missing peace, this episode will remind you that true leadership starts from within and is rooted in Christ.✨ Key TakeawaysLeadership is influence and you are already a leader in your home, work, and relationshipsWhy “balance” is a myth and how to embrace harmony insteadHow to stop chasing the perfect system and start anchoring your life in GodThe difference between building a life on sand versus building on the rockHow to overcome overwhelm by shifting your identity back to ChristA simple but powerful first step to reset when you feel stressed or stuckBethany’s “Body of Leadership” framework: head, heart, hands, and gutsHow to take your thoughts captive and replace comparison with truth⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction + Meet Bethany Rees02:00 What Leadership Really Means (Hint: You’re Already One)03:45 The Story Behind “Leadership on the Rocks”06:30 Overwhelm, Stress, and the Lie of Self-Help10:30 Identity in Christ vs. Identity in the World13:20 From Balance to Harmony in Everyday Life17:00 Raising Independent Kids Through Intentional Leadership20:00 Breaking Free from Comparison and Negative Self-Talk24:00 Bethany’s Leadership Framework (Head, Heart, Hands, Guts)30:00 Leading with Faith in Secular Spaces34:30 How to Move from Overwhelm to Clarity36:00 The Power of Prayer in Everyday Moments40:20 Where to Connect with Bethany🔗 Resources + Links🌐 Website: https://www.leadershipontherocks.com 🎙️ Podcast: https://www.leadershipontherocks.com/podcast 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethany-rees Catholic podcast, Christian leadership, faith and leadership, overwhelmed mom, work life balance Christian, faith based personal development, identity in Christ, biblical leadership, Christian mindset, motherhood and faith, harmony not balance, leadership at home, personal growth for women, Anchored with Purpose podcast, Bethany Rees Leadership on the Rocks, Christian podcast

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    79| You’re Not Behind: Trusting God When Your Timeline Feels Off

    Have you ever caught yourself wondering if you’re behind in life, faith, or business?In this episode, I’m sharing something that’s been on my heart in a very real way. Recently, I’ve had moments where I’ve questioned my own timeline, wondering if I should be further along or doing more. But through prayer and reflection, God keeps bringing me back to this truth:You are not behind.In this episode, we’re talking about how God doesn’t reveal your purpose all at once. He reveals it one step at a time. If you’ve been waiting for clarity, feeling stuck in comparison, or holding back because you don’t have the full plan, this is your reminder to trust Him with your next step.We also connect this conversation to this month’s theme, from building a daily faith practice after Lent, to taking action in your life and business, to stepping into leadership.📖 Free Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/fb72f69cdf Key Takeaways:Why the feeling of being “behind” is often rooted in comparisonGod’s timing is different from your timeline and it is always intentionalClarity often comes after you take action, not beforeWhy you don’t need the full blueprint to move forwardThe power of praying for your “next right step”How a daily faith practice helps you hear God more clearlyA simple question to help you take action todayChapters:00:00 You are not behind02:00 How this episode fits into this month’s theme03:30 The comparison trap and feeling behind05:00 God’s timing and Ecclesiastes 3:1106:30 Trusting God without the full plan08:00 How God reveals purpose step by step09:30 Why clarity comes through action11:00 Proverbs 3:5-6 and trusting God12:00 Stop waiting and take the next step13:30 One question to help you move forwardResources & Links: 🎧 From Lent to Lifestyle episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/73-from-lent-to-lifestyle-how-to-build-a-daily/id1775076672?i=1000754688886 🎧 Interview with Kara Williams: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/78-god-gave-you-this-for-a-reason-with-kara-williams/id1775076672?i=1000761282052 📖 Free Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/fb72f69cdf Call to Action:If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs this reminder. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss next week’s conversation on leadership.Christian podcast, Catholic podcast, faith and purpose, trusting God, God’s timing, feeling behind in life, overcoming comparison, daily faith practice, hearing God’s voice, personal growth for women, Christian personal development, faith based encouragement, purpose driven life, Anchored with Purpose podcast

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    78| God Gave You This for a Reason with Kara Williams

    If you’ve ever felt stuck trying to launch a course, podcast, or online offer because of tech overwhelm, this episode is for you.In today’s conversation, I’m joined by Kara Williams, who helps women simplify tech and confidently bring their ideas to life. We talk about the real reason so many women stay stuck, how to move past perfectionism, and why having someone walk alongside you changes everything.One of the most powerful moments in this episode is Kara’s story of how God closed a door she thought she was meant to stay in, only to lead her into something even more impactful. If you’ve been wrestling with uncertainty, this will encourage you to trust His plan.If you’ve been sitting on an idea, this is your sign to take the next step.✨ Key TakeawaysWhy tech overwhelm is NOT the real reason you’re stuckThe mindset shift every woman needs before launchingHow perfectionism is actually fear in disguiseThe simple first step to move your idea out of your head and into actionWhy over-consuming courses can keep you stuckThe power of having someone walk alongside you step-by-stepHow automation and systems prevent burnout in your businessWhat it looks like when God closes one door to open anotherWhy your calling matters and shouldn’t stay hidden⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome + Meet Kara Williams02:30 Kara’s journey from stay-at-home mom to tech expert05:30 The real struggle women face when launching online08:00 Why courses alone don’t get you results10:45 The first step to launching your idea14:45 Perfectionism, fear, and taking action17:10 Getting unstuck when you feel overwhelmed20:45 What systems and automation actually look like24:20 Staying in your lane to avoid burnout25:45 How faith shaped Kara’s business journey27:30 When God closes a door and redirects your path29:30 How to connect with Kara🔗 Resources + LinksConnect with Kara Williams:Website: Helpmekara.com Instagram + Facebook: @helpmekara🙌 Loved This Episode?If this episode encouraged you, make sure to:Subscribe to the podcastLeave a review on Apple PodcastsShare this episode with a friend who’s been feeling stuckcatholic podcast for women, christian entrepreneurship, faith based business, overcoming fear and doubt, tech overwhelm, course creation for beginners, launch an online course, christian women in business, purpose driven life, hearing God’s call, faith and business, perfectionism and fear, building a business with God, online business systems, automation for entrepreneurs 

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    77| Lent Is Over… Now What? How to Stay Consistent in Your Faith Life

    Lent may be over, but what if this is just the beginning?In this reflective episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa walks you through a powerful post-Lent reset to help you hold onto the faith habits you built during Lent and turn them into a sustainable daily rhythm.If you felt closer to God, more intentional, and more grounded over the past season, this episode will help you identify what worked, what didn’t, and how to carry that momentum into your everyday life.Through simple, practical questions, you will reflect on your time with God, prayer life, scripture habits, journaling, and more so you can build a faith routine that actually fits your real life.You are not starting over. You are building something that lasts.Key Takeaways• How to turn your Lenten habits into a sustainable daily faith practice• Why consistency matters more than perfection in your spiritual life• Simple reflection questions to help you evaluate your time with God• How to create a realistic routine that fits your current season of life• The power of gratitude, scripture memory, and intentional prayer• How to recognize when God is speaking to you in everyday moments• Why your faith practice should feel life-giving, not overwhelmingChapters00:00 Welcome + Post-Lent Reset00:01 Why You Should Not Lose What God Started01:08 Reflecting on Your Time, Place, and Rhythm with God02:22 Creating a Sustainable Faith Routine03:00 Starting Your Day with Gratitude04:45 Scripture Memory and Hearing God’s Voice07:08 Choosing Devotionals with Intention07:08 How Scripture Shapes Your Day08:10 What Are You Hearing from God09:33 Prayer That Feels Like a Conversation10:30 Journaling and Finding What Works for You11:30 Building Your Faith Lifestyle Going Forward12:00 Encouragement to Keep Showing UpLinks & Resources• Start the devotional: From Lent to Lifestyle: From Lent to Lifestyle: Building a Daily Faith Practice that Lasts• Download the free Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal sample• Shop the full Anchored with Purpose Faith JournalBook Melissa to Speak at Your EventWebsiteFacebookInstagramAnchored with Purpose TribeEmailcatholic podcast, catholic mom, daily faith routine, christian habits, prayer routine, how to hear from God, bible app devotional, christian personal development, faith and purpose, spiritual growth for women, christian morning routine, gratitude practice, scripture memory, journaling with God, intentional living, catholic personal growth, building faith habits, lent reflection, easter season faith, anchored with purpose podcast

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    76| When You Put God First, Everything Aligns| ft. Mindy Backsen

    In this faith-filled conversation, Melissa sits down with Mindy “Mindo” Backsen, a wife and mom from North Dakota whose story is rooted in obedience, surrender, and trusting God when the next step feels uncertain. Mindy shares how she left a demanding career in insurance, stepped into social selling and coaching, and discovered that true alignment happens when Christ is first, not second.Together, they talk about how overconsumption, urgency, and striving quietly steal our peace, and how Scripture, quiet time with God, and fixing our eyes on Jesus bring clarity in confusing seasons. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, spiritually dry, or unsure of your next step, this episode will remind you that you are not stuck. You are being invited deeper. And God is working, even in rebuilding seasons.Links MentionedMindy’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mindybacksenMindy on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindy.backsenChristian Women Building Business Together: https://christianwomenbuildingbusiness.com/Key TakeawaysPeace comes from alignment with Christ.You may not have control, but you do have a good God.Overconsumption of voices creates confusion.Discernment check: Is this bringing peace or pressure?Uncertainty is part of life, but your certainty can be Christ.You are not stuck.Small, obedient steps compound over time.Stop giving away your power to distractions and negativity.The stirring for more is not random. God multiplies obedience.Chapters & Timestamps00:01 Welcome + Meet Mindy Backsen00:49 Mindy’s story: career, motherhood, and feeling called to “more”02:37 The leap of faith and surrender04:22 Putting Christ first and finding alignment07:47 Seeking God wholeheartedly (Jeremiah 29)10:37 What steals peace: urgency and overconsumption13:30 Discernment: peace vs pressure15:40 Navigating uncertainty and divine redirection18:23 You are not stuck: fixing your eyes on Jesus21:45 Being an ambassador of Christ in daily life23:42 The stirring for more and small obedient steps28:20 Where to find Mindy29:15 Teaser: the “divine detour” storyCatholic women podcast, Christian women podcast, faith and purpose, surrender to God, peace in motherhood, spiritual dryness, Christian encouragement, trusting God in uncertainty, discernment peace vs pressure, how to hear God’s voice, quiet time with God, daily faith habits, renewing your mind scripture, fix your eyes on Jesus, Peter walks on water, Jeremiah 29:11-13, Proverbs 3:5-6, Isaiah 60:22, Matthew 5 salt and light, loaves and fishes obedience, Christian mindset coaching, overwhelm and anxiety faith, overconsumption and clarity, rebuilding season faith, obedience to God, Anchored with Purpose podcast

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    75| How to Hear God’s Voice When You Feel Stuck and Overwhelmed

    Have you ever wondered, “How do I actually hear from God?” Or felt stuck asking, “What is my purpose?”In this faith-filled episode, I’m answering two powerful questions from women in our community and chances are, you’ve asked them too.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, unsure of your direction, or disconnected from God’s voice, this episode will remind you that your purpose is not something you have to figure out alone. It is something you walk into with God, one step at a time.We talk about how God speaks, often in quieter ways than we expect, how to recognize His guidance in your everyday life, and how to release the pressure of having everything figured out.If you are craving clarity, peace, and direction, this episode is for you 💙💡 Key TakeawaysPurpose is often found in everyday faithfulness, not just big momentsGod is already guiding your path, you are not alone in figuring it outGod speaks most clearly through Scripture and daily relationship with HimQuiet time helps you hear God in a noisy worldThe desires on your heart may be invitations from GodOpen and closed doors can be God’s direction and protectionYour purpose unfolds over time, not all at onceAsk God for your next right step instead of the full plan⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome and the questions we are answering02:00 Why we feel stuck in our purpose03:30 What purpose really looks like05:00 How God speaks through Scripture08:30 Creating space to hear God in the quiet11:00 Recognizing God through your desires13:30 Open and closed doors as direction16:00 When you still do not know your purpose18:30 The next right step prayer21:00 Final encouragement and invitation🔗 Resources & Links MentionedThe Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren YouVersion Bible App Bible in a Year Podcast with Fr. Mike Schmitz From Lent to Lifestyle devotionalIf this episode spoke to you, I would love to hear from you 💙What is one small step you feel God inviting you to take?Be sure to subscribe and leave a review so more women can find this messageCatholic podcast for women, Catholic mom podcast, how to hear God’s voice Catholic, Catholic purpose and vocation, Catholic personal development, how to know God’s will Catholic, faith and purpose for Catholic moms, daily Catholic faith routine, Catholic spiritual growth for women, trusting God’s plan Catholic, discerning God’s voice, Catholic mindset and personal growth, overcoming overwhelm with faith, living your God given purpose

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    74| Turning Pain Into Purpose with Dr. Brandi Kelly

    What if the hardest moments in your life could become the very thing that helps others find hope?In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Melissa Wilkinson sits down with Dr. Brandi Kelly - educator, former superintendent, leadership coach, and founder of the Spark Hope Community. Dr. Kelly shares the heartbreaking story that shaped her life when she lost her younger brother in a tragic accident at just 15 years old.Rather than allowing grief to define her story, Brandi chose a different path. Through decades of leadership in education, personal healing, and deep faith, she discovered that hope is not just a feeling - it is a daily practice and a choice.Dr. Kelly also shares how burnout and health struggles led her to step away from her high-pressure superintendent role and into a new calling - helping women leaders reconnect with purpose, reflection, and faith through the Spark Hope Community.If you have ever felt overwhelmed, stretched thin, or unsure of your purpose, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone and hope is always possible.Links Mentioned in the EpisodeDr. Brandi Kelly Website, Lead with Hope Podcast, Spark Hope Community and Free HOPE Leadership Clarity Assessment: https://sparkhopeedu.comKey Takeaways from This Episode• Hope is not passive. It is a daily choice that requires intentional action.• Difficult seasons can become the foundation for a meaningful purpose.• Leadership becomes healthier when we create space for reflection and pause.• Journaling, prayer, and Scripture can help us hear God more clearly.• Women leaders thrive when they have safe spaces for connection and encouragement.• Your story and your struggles may be the exact encouragement someone else needs.Want to build a daily faith practice that lasts? Join my plan on the Bible App: From Lent to Lifestyle: http://bible.us/r/He5 Episode Chapters00:00 Introduction to Dr. Brandi Kelly00:45 Trigger warning and episode overview01:30 The tragic loss of Brandi’s younger brother05:40 Choosing hope after trauma07:00 Learning to ask God for daily direction08:45 Stress, burnout, and stepping away from leadership11:30 Facing uncertainty after leaving the superintendent role12:40 Writing the book Lead with Hope13:00 The origin of the Spark Hope framework14:30 The HOPE system: habits, optimism, purpose, excellence15:10 Mindset struggles, perfectionism, and people pleasing16:20 Creating the Spark Hope Community for women leaders18:30 Why reflection is essential for leadership20:50 Daily practices: Bible reading, journaling, and prayer23:00 Reviewing your journal and celebrating growth24:50 Scheduling reflection into your life25:20 The power of community for women leaders27:45 Creating safe spaces for vulnerability28:00 Encouragement for women feeling overwhelmed29:40 Turning pain into purpose30:00 Where to connect with Dr. Brandi KellyAnchored with Purpose podcast, Melissa Wilkinson podcast, Dr Brandi Kelly, Spark Hope community, Christian leadership for women, faith based leadership, hope after trauma, women leadership community, Christian personal growth for women, leadership mindset, journaling and faith practice, Christian leadership podcast, turning pain into purpose, faith based personal development, women leaders support community

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    73| From Lent to Lifestyle: How to Build a Daily Faith Practice That Lasts

    This episode is deeply personal and full circle for me.After 2,470 consecutive days in the YouVersion Bible App, I’m officially a content partner, and my brand-new devotional plan is live: From Lent to Lifestyle: Creating a Daily Faith Practice that Lasts.In this episode, I share the behind-the-scenes story of attending the Beyond a Billion celebration in Oklahoma City, hearing from Bobby Gruenewald and Craig Groeschel, boldly asking to become a content partner, and why I created this Lent devotional for women who want a simple, sustainable daily faith rhythm.If you’ve ever struggled with consistency in your prayer life or wanted to move from seasonal motivation to lasting transformation, this episode is for you.📖 Ready to Start the Plan?Download the free Bible App and begin:From Lent to Lifestyle: Creating a Daily Faith Practice that Lasts👉 Download the Bible App and follow Anchored with Purpose: https://www.bible.com/organizations/9555df54-34ac-4b14-bc38-ee830fb1060b 👉 Start the Plan:  http://bible.us/r/He5 🎉 Join me and the Anchored with Purpose community for a group reading beginning March 6th (my birthday!):  👉 Join the group reading here: https://bible.com/reading-plans/67833/together/79255031/invitation?token=j8NKyJUpHTU-Lwp3gH22ow&source=share Don’t do this alone. Start it with a friend, your small group, or read alongside us in the discussion section inside the app.⚓️ Key Takeaways• Small daily consistency creates long-term spiritual growth• The YouVersion Bible App has over one billion downloads and will always remain free• Bold obedience opens unexpected doors• Lent is a starting line, not a finish line• Sustainable rhythms matter more than spiritual intensity• Reading plans together deepens both faith and relationships• YouVersion challenges and badges can help motivate consistency⏱ Chapters00:00 – A Full Circle Moment01:30 – 2,470 Days in the Bible App04:00 – Beyond a Billion: Inside the Celebration06:30 – Hearing from Bobby Gruenewald & Craig Groeschel09:00 – The Bold Ask That Changed Everything11:30 – Why I Created From Lent to Lifestyle14:00 – What You’ll Experience Inside the Plan16:30 – How to Download the Bible App & Join19:00 – Why You Shouldn’t Do This Alone22:00 – Join Me March 6th for a Birthday Group Reading24:30 – Lent Challenge Badge & YouVersion Challenges Explained27:30 – Please Rate, Review & Tag Me29:00 – What Will Your Streak Be?Let’s move from Lent to lifestyle - together.Catholic Lent devotional, daily faith practice for women, how to stay consistent in prayer, Bible App Lent challenge, YouVersion Bible plan, Catholic women podcast, daily prayer routine for busy moms, building spiritual habits, Lent Bible reading plan, Christian women devotional, faith consistency for moms, spiritual reset for Lent, Bible App streak motivation, simple daily prayer habit, how to grow closer to God, devotional for Catholic moms, seasonal faith to lifestyle faith, Lent spiritual growth, accountability in faith, Catholic podcast for women

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    72| Purpose Over Pressure: A Faith-Filled Path Out of Burnout ft. Misty Lakes

    In this conversation, Melissa sits down with life and business coach Misty Lakes to talk about Godfidence, which is confidence rooted in Christ instead of hustle culture. Misty shares her journey from direct sales into coaching, how God faithfully led her step by step, and why putting Him at the center of our lives and businesses changes everything.Together, they unpack why so many women feel burned out from wearing too many hats, how guilt sneaks in when our priorities are misaligned, and a simple but life changing visual tool that helps women realign their time, energy, and focus. Resources mentioned in this episode: • Journey to Be Godfident Devotional & Course: https://www.mistylakes.biz/store • 40 Day Social Media Fast by Wendy Speake: https://a.co/d/7OBkm7e • Misty Lakes Coaching & Collective: https://www.mistylakes.biz/coaching Key TakeawaysGodfidence means rooting your identity, confidence, and decisions in who God says you are — not in hustle, pressure, or people-pleasing.God should be the CEO of your life and business, guiding decisions both big and small.Burnout often comes from wearing too many “good” hats at the same time — not from doing one thing poorly.The Target Exercise helps visually prioritize what matters most: God, personal wellbeing, family, and then everything else.Your family is your first ministry, and your relationship with God deserves protected, intentional time.Social media often consumes time without reflecting what we actually value.Intentional boundaries create peace and reduce guilt.Purpose brings peace; pressure brings burnout.Faith and business were never meant to be separate — alignment brings flow and fruit.⏱ Chapters00:00 – Welcome & Meet Misty Lakes 02:30 – From Direct Sales to Coaching: Trusting God Step by Step 06:30 – How God Prepares Us Long Before We See the Plan 07:00 – What Is Godfidence? Confidence Rooted in Christ 10:00 – Letting God Be the CEO of Your Life 11:00 – Why Women Feel Burned Out and Overwhelmed 13:00 – The Target Exercise: A Visual Way to Prioritize What Matters 15:00 – Taking Hats Off Without Guilt 17:30 – Temple Time: Honoring God by Caring for Yourself 19:30 – Being Intentional With Time, Energy, and Boundaries 21:00 – Social Media, Scrolling, and Mental Clarity 23:45 – Why Faith and Business Shouldn’t Be Separate 27:30 – Obedience, Stewardship, and God’s Blessing 30:00 – Purpose Over Pressure: A Client Transformation Story 33:30 – How to Connect with Misty & Her Community 34:45 – Closing EncouragementChristian women in business, faith based life coaching, Godfidence, Christian confidence, burnout recovery for women, faith and business alignment, Christian entrepreneur podcast, women wearing too many hats, intentional living Christian, faith based coaching for women, Christian leadership for women, purpose over pressure, time management for Christian women, Christ centered business, spiritual burnout, women and hustle culture, faith driven success, Christian personal growth podcast, women seeking peace and purpose, God at the center of life and business

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    71| Lent for the Busy Catholic Woman

    If Lent already feels like one more thing on your to-do list, this episode is for you.In this encouraging and Scripture-rooted episode, Melissa Wilkinson speaks directly to the busy Catholic woman who feels tired, distracted, spiritually behind, or overwhelmed before Lent even begins. Instead of a picture-perfect or performance-based Lent, Melissa walks through what real Lent looks like in real life.Rooted in Joel 2:12, Matthew 4, and Matthew 6, this episode reframes Lent as a season of return, not perfection. Through the three pillars of Lent — prayer, fasting, and almsgiving — Melissa offers simple, sustainable ways to grow closer to God without adding pressure to an already full life.If you’ve ever quit Lent by week two, struggled to stay consistent with prayer, or felt like you’re not doing “enough,” this conversation will remind you that God is not asking you to impress Him. He is inviting you to return.Lent is not about performance. It is about presence.Key TakeawaysLent is about returning to God, not proving yourself (Joel 2:12).The desert is not punishment — it is preparation (Matthew 4).Jesus says “when you pray, when you fast, when you give alms” — not if (Matthew 6).Prayer for a busy woman can be simple and repeatable.Fasting helps reveal attachments and create space for God.Almsgiving stretches the heart outward in love.You can begin again at any time — God’s mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22–23).Your real life — your SUV, your kitchen, your routines — can be holy ground.Choose one prayer practice, one meaningful fast, and one intentional act of love.Lent is about consistency, not perfection.Chapters:00:00 — Lent for the Busy Catholic Woman01:59 — The Desert Is Preparation, Not Punishment03:30 — Why Lent Feels Overwhelming05:00 — Prayer: Abide, Don’t Perform08:30 — Fasting: Detach and Create Space11:30 — Almsgiving: Stretching the Heart in Love13:45 — When Week Two Hits16:30 — Making the Rosary Sustainable18:45 — Your Real Life Is Holy Ground20:30 — A Simple Lenten Framework22:00 — Lent Is About Intimacy, Not ImpressivenessBook Melissa to Speak at Your EventWebsiteFacebookInstagramAnchored with Purpose TribeEmailDream Workshop Wait List

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    70| When the World Feels Scary, This Is How We Stand Firm in Faith

    When the world feels unstable and heartbreaking, it’s hard not to carry that weight in your heart and home. In this episode, Melissa speaks into the fear and emotional exhaustion many women are experiencing as they watch growing struggles within our government, rising division, and devastating stories of families being torn apart and people being detained through immigration enforcement. Entire communities are living with uncertainty, and as moms, that fear hits especially close to home.But Scripture reminds us that seasons of unrest are not new to God’s people. Throughout biblical history, God’s children have faced turmoil, persecution, and uncertainty. In every generation, He has given the same instruction: put on the Armor of God.Melissa also shares practical ways to spiritually cover your children. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by everything happening in the world, this episode will remind you that you are not powerless and you are spiritually protected and equipped to stand firm.✨ Key Takeaways• Difficult and uncertain times are not new. God’s people have always had to learn how to stand firm in seasons of fear and unrest.• Our greatest battle is spiritual. The enemy uses chaos, fear, and division to steal our peace and distract us from faith.• The Armor of God in Ephesians 6 is a daily spiritual practice that protects our hearts, minds, and homes.• The Belt of Truth helps us anchor in God’s Word before absorbing headlines and social media.• The Breastplate of Righteousness guards our hearts from bitterness, anger, and hardened thinking.• The Shoes of the Gospel of Peace help us carry calm into our homes instead of panic.• The Shield of Faith is what we lift when anxiety and fear about the future rise up.• The Helmet of Salvation reminds us to protect our minds and set healthy boundaries with media.• The Sword of the Spirit, God’s Word, is how we fight fear and lies with truth.• Praying over your children and blessing them with holy water is a powerful way to spiritually cover your family.Book Melissa to Speak at Your EventWebsiteFacebookInstagramAnchored with Purpose TribeEmailDream Workshop Wait List⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 — When the World Feels Heavy03:30 — This Is a Spiritual Battle06:30 — The Belt of Truth10:00 — The Breastplate of Righteousness13:00 — The Shoes of the Gospel of Peace17:00 — The Shield of Faith20:30 — The Helmet of Salvation24:00 — The Sword of the Spirit30:00 — Armoring Your Children34:00 — Standing Firm in Uncertain TimesArmor of God for moms, Ephesians 6 explained, Christian response to fear, praying for your children, spiritual warfare for women, Catholic mom faith encouragement, finding peace in uncertain times, Christian anxiety help, faith over fear, daily faith practice for moms

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    69| In the Wilderness? Day 41 Is Coming | ft. Mya Hull

    In today’s episode, Melissa sits down with her new friend Mya Hull, a former top 1% leader in Mary Kay who felt God stirring something deeper, even in the middle of success. Mya shares her origin story, what that leadership season taught her about identity, and the “holy discontent” that led her to lay down what looked good on paper in order to follow what God was calling her into next. You’ll hear the powerful meaning behind “41”—the idea that we all walk through “40 seasons” of wilderness, waiting, testing, and transition… but day 41 comes, and God is faithful. Mya walks us through how her Ignite Your Joy workshop became the foundation for a faith-led community for women entrepreneurs, and how the 41 Sisterhood is helping women grow with joy, clarity, confidence, and obedience. If you’re in a season of waiting, this conversation will leave you with hope and practical encouragement to stay rooted in Christ while you walk toward your own “41 moment.” Follow Mya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themyahull?igsh=ZzRoYjU1cTZxYTg4&utm_source=qr  Mya on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mya.hull  41 Sisterhood / Stan Store: https://stan.store/theMyaHull  Email Mya: [email protected] Free Purpose Bracket Resource: https://stan.store/theMyaHull/p/snag-your-free-purpose-bracket  Key Takeaways Success can be a slippery slope: even good things (recognition, achievement, leadership) can quietly become an identity or an idol if we’re not careful. Conviction is different than shame: Mya describes moments where God didn’t condemn her, but lovingly redirected her heart posture. God often uses transition to get our attention: new environments can create space to hear Him clearly again. Your gifts exist outside of your title: Mya shares the shift of separating her strengths from her previous business and realizing God could use them in a new way. You don’t need all the steps to obey: sometimes God gives the idea first and the logistics later. The “41” message is hope: wilderness doesn’t last forever, and God always keeps His promises. Fasting from noise brings clarity: Mya talks about getting quiet (not isolating, but choosing solitude with God). Your test becomes your testimony: God can use the very season you wish you could skip. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome + why this conversation felt God-ordained 00:58 – Mya’s origin story: pastor’s kid, entrepreneur at 20, motherhood + transition 04:07 – Top 1% leadership: what success taught her about discipline, ambition, and identity 06:37 – “It can become an idol”: the heart shift behind achievement 09:04 – Holy discontent: when God starts stirring something deeper 09:31 – Transition + deeper Bible study: learning to truly hear God again 12:23 – Obedience without answers: “I’m supposed to lay this down” 15:55 – Recognizing your gifts outside your business + “keep writing” moment 19:05 – People’s opinions vs the story we tell ourselves 23:08 – What’s next: Ignite Your Joy workshop + purpose bracket tool 29:09 – Why community matters for solopreneurs 29:37 – The story behind 41: wilderness seasons + day 41 breakthrough 35:33 – Launching the 41 Sisterhood: community, workshops, coaching, real transformation 41:12 – Hope for the woman in the wilderness: how to hold faith until day 41 46:51 – Fasting from noise + staying rooted in Jesus 49:05 – Where to find Mya + how to join the community Call to Action If you’re in a “40 season” right now—waiting, wrestling, transitioning, or feeling like God is asking you to lay something down—friend, you are not alone. Day 41 is coming. Share this episode with a friend who needs hope, and be sure to follow Mya and check out the 41 Sisterhood if you’re craving community and clarity in this season. Christian women entrepreneurs, faith-driven business, obedience over approval, leaving direct sales, identity in Christ, Christian business coach, faith and entrepreneurship, choosing joy in the wilderness, Christian women community, purpose and calling, surrender season, waiting on God, day 41, wilderness season faith, clarity confidence joy, Christian coaching community, rooted in Christ, Christian mindset, spiritual growth and business, hope in hard seasons  

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    68| Perimenopause Explained with Rita Johnson: Why Your Body Feels So Different

    Perimenopause is the topic so many women are whispering about over coffee, but rarely getting real answers. In this conversation, functional health practitioner Rita Johnson breaks down what’s actually happening in your body during perimenopause and why symptoms like weight gain, inflammation, sleep issues, digestive changes, and mood shifts are not “just aging.” Rita explains the powerful connection between gut health and hormone balance, why supplements can become expensive band-aids if you don’t address root causes, and the small daily habits that can make a big difference. You’ll also hear a balanced, faith-friendly discussion on hormone replacement therapy (HRT), including common misconceptions and what to look for if you’re considering it. Links Mentioned Rita’s Website: https://naturalfertilitycare.org/nutritional-therapy/  Rita’s Podcast (Health & Hormones): https://healthandhormones.org/  Divine Mercy Nutritional Care (Rita’s practice): [LINK] Free Hormone Balancing Guide: https://birdsend.page/forms/9473/cDk9YT4KSn   Perimenopause Toolkit Workshop (live + replay option): https://healthandhormones.org/perimenopause-workshop/  Key Takeaways Perimenopause is a remodeling season, not a dead end. Your body is shifting from higher to lower hormone output, and multiple systems are adapting along the way. Symptoms vary widely, but your intuition matters. If you’re 35+ and feel like your body is “different” or unfamiliar, it may be perimenopause-related. Gut health impacts hormones in two big ways: your ability to make hormones (nutrients, fats, absorption) and your ability to clear hormones (detox pathways). Healthy bowel movements matter more than most women realize. Regularity and quality can be a key sign of hormonal balance and detox support. Probiotics aren’t the only answer. Food-based probiotics (like fermented foods) may be a simple starting point, and deeper digestive support may be needed depending on the root issue. “We can’t out-supplement bad habits.” Slowing down, chewing, sitting to eat, and praying before meals can help your body shift into “rest and digest.” Workout intensity may need adjusting in perimenopause. Too much HIIT/cardio can strain adrenals for some women, while strength training and walking often support hormone health best. Collagen and protein can be helpful, but keep it simple. Prioritize whole foods when possible, and use supplements strategically. Synthetic fabrics and “toxin panic” can lead to overwhelm. Focus on your body’s non-negotiables instead of trying to fix everything at once. HRT isn’t the same as birth control, but it matters what you’re being prescribed. Rita emphasizes bioidentical hormones and addressing root causes alongside symptom relief. Chapters 00:00 Welcome + why we’re talking perimenopause now 00:38 Rita’s story: cycle tracking, infertility, and functional hormone work 02:45 Overlooked perimenopause symptoms and the “cotton to silk” body shift 05:34 Melissa’s personal symptoms: stress, weight gain, inflammation, labs, and restrictive plans 09:20 Gut health + hormone balance: why detox and digestion matter 11:08 What “healthy digestion” actually looks like (and what’s not normal) 14:40 What to do next: probiotics, fermented foods, enzymes, and targeted support 18:35 The power of slowing down: chewing, sitting, and praying before meals 19:37 Listener Qs: collagen, supplements, and what’s worth the hype 22:20 Coffee + protein: stabilizing blood sugar and protecting cortisol 23:53 Adrenals + workouts: when HIIT/cardio may be too much in perimenopause 28:01 Synthetic fabrics + toxin overwhelm: focus on your “non-negotiables” 31:15 HRT explained: when it helps, when it becomes a band-aid 35:59 Misconceptions, the early 2000s study, and bioidentical vs synthetic hormones 38:49 Where to find Rita + free hormone balancing guide 40:27 Perimenopause Toolkit Workshop (HRT, charting, intimacy, and self-navigation)   perimenopause symptoms, perimenopause weight gain, hormone imbalance in women, functional medicine for hormones, gut health and hormones, estrogen dominance, progesterone and perimenopause, adrenal health and cortisol, perimenopause workout routine, strength training in perimenopause, inflammation and hormones, digestion and hormone detox, healthy bowel movements, fermented foods probiotics, digestive enzymes for women, collagen for women over 35, protein for women over 40, coffee and cortisol, hormone replacement therapy HRT, bioidentical hormones, Catholic hormone health, NAPRO doctor hormones, FEMM hormone support, faith and wellness for women, women’s hormone coaching  

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    67| Vision Is Not New Age: A Catholic Approach to Dreaming With God

    Vision boards. Visualization. Imagining your future. For many Catholics, these words can feel uncomfortable or even off-limits. Is this New Age? Is it Christian? Is it something we should avoid altogether? In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa breaks down why vision is deeply biblical and deeply Catholic when done the right way — with God at the center. You’ll learn how visualization can actually become a powerful form of prayer, how Scripture invites us to imagine God’s future for our lives, and how vision boards can be used as a faith-filled tool for surrender, not control. Melissa also weaves in wisdom from one of her favorite authors, Mark Batterson, and explains the clear difference between New Age manifestation and Catholic discernment. If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s okay to dream big with God — this episode is for you. 🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why vision is biblical, not trendy or New Age How imagination is a gift from God The difference between visualization as prayer vs. manifestation Why surrender matters more than control when dreaming with God How God provides provision where He gives vision The Catholic mindset vs. the New Age mindset (side-by-side clarity) How vision boards can become a visual prayer journal The neuroscience behind focus, habits, and holy imagination How vision connects to Melissa’s Life Anchors: faith, family, health, purpose, impact, relationships, and home 🎧 Episode Chapters 00:00 – Is Vision Biblical or New Age? 01:08 – Grounding Vision in Scripture 02:23 – Imagination as Prayer 04:32 – Dreaming with God, Not Apart from Him 06:48 – God Gives Vision and Provision 08:15 – Catholic Vision vs. New Age Thinking 09:18 – What a Catholic Vision Board Really Is 11:40 – The Neuroscience of Holy Focus 13:02 – Vision Through the Life Anchors 14:06 – Dream Big and Trust God’s Timing 🛠️ Practical Takeaway This month, spend intentional time with Jesus and ask: What do You want me to become this year? What vision do You have for my life? Where are You inviting me to trust You more deeply? Then consider creating a simple, faith-filled vision board as a prayer tool. Catholic vision boards, Catholic visualization, is visualization biblical, vision boards for Christians, vision and faith Catholic, biblical vision and imagination, Catholic approach to vision, Christian vision boards, vision as prayer, faith based vision boards, is visualization New Age or Christian, Catholic teaching on vision, can Catholics use vision boards, holy imagination Catholic, vision and discernment Catholic, how to pray with imagination, God given vision, surrender vs manifestation, Christian alternative to manifestation, Catholic mindset vs New Age, where there is no vision the people perish, write the vision make it plain, Ephesians 3:20 Catholic reflection, biblical vision scripture, scripture on vision and purpose, faith and personal growth, Christian goal setting, dreaming with God, God sized dreams, Christian mindset renewal, faith based goal planning, vision and purpose Christian, Catholic women podcast, Christian women podcast, faith and purpose podcast, Catholic personal growth podcast, Christian mindset podcast, faith based encouragement podcast, Mark Batterson, The Circle Maker, Draw the Circle devotional, Chase the Lion book, Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Life Anchors framework, faith filled dreaming, Catholic life coaching, faith based vision planning  

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    66| Earbuds In: A Catholic Conversation About Sex, Intimacy, and Marriage

    This is an “earbuds in” conversation, friend. Melissa sits down with Ellen Holloway, host of Charting Toward Intimacy (a leading Catholic intimacy podcast), for an honest, hope-filled conversation about sex, intimacy, and healing in marriage—in a way that’s fully aligned with the Catholic Church. Ellen shares her personal story (including the early struggles of marriage, learning Natural Family Planning, and healing from vaginismus), why so many Catholic women feel shame or confusion around sex, and practical steps to reconnect with your body, your spouse, and God. You’ll also hear powerful takeaways like a body scan prayer, the idea that sex can be prayer, and why scheduling sex isn’t unromantic—it’s often the most loving way to prioritize intimacy in real life. Learn more at Ellen’s website: https://vinesinfullbloom.com/  Key Takeaways You’re not “bad” for struggling with sex. Many emotions around intimacy are learned responses, not moral failures. Shame thrives in silence. Intimacy is deeply vulnerable, so it’s often avoided—but it’s too important to ignore. A powerful starting point: the Body Scan Prayer. Noticing your thoughts about each part of your body and asking God what He thinks can be deeply healing. God calls your body “very good.” Parts of the body that carry the most shame are also parts that reflect God’s design for communion and relationship. Healing takes time—and wins matter. Celebrate small progress instead of only focusing on the end goal. Sex can be prayerful. Ellen encourages bringing God into your intimacy—praying about your sex life and (eventually) praying with your husband. Spontaneity is not the standard. Scheduling sex is often a healthy way to prioritize connection (just like we schedule what matters most). Libido can be rebuilt. Desire and pleasure aren’t “either you have it or you don’t”—there are practical steps forward. There are safer ways to get support. Not every level of conversation is appropriate with close friends—sometimes a coach/community outside your circle is best. Free next step: Ellen shares a free webinar on January 21 focused on rebuilding libido and learning key foundations for pleasure. Chapter Titles + Timestamps 00:01 — Earbuds In Disclaimer + Episode Preview 00:37 — Ellen’s Story: Early Marriage Struggles, NFP, and Healing 05:05 — “Why Didn’t Anyone Teach Us This?” (Purity Culture + Pre-Cana Gaps) 07:06 — Why Intimacy Feels Misunderstood or Avoided 13:30 — Motherhood + Disconnection: What Feels “Off Limits” and Why 14:39 — The Body Scan Prayer (Asking God What He Thinks About Your Body) 20:20 — For the Woman Carrying Shame, Confusion, or Trauma 23:55 — God-Centered Intimacy: Sex as Prayer + Praying About Sex 30:24 — Free Webinar (Jan 21): Rebuilding Libido + Foundations for Pleasure 32:51 — Scheduling Sex: Debunking the “It Must Be Spontaneous” Myth 42:12 — Where to Find Ellen + Podcast + Webinar Sign-Up 43:22 — Closing Blessing + “Stay Anchored With Purpose” Links Mentioned Ellen’s website: https://vinesinfullbloom.com/  Ellen’s podcast: Charting Toward Intimacy (wherever you listen) Free webinar sign-up (Jan 21): https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_9Q4qrEa3T7q3AoXzYniGzQ Books/resources mentioned: Gregory Popcak, Holy Sex: https://a.co/d/663Dphl  Edward Sri: https://a.co/d/eNMGodf  Christopher West (Theology of the Body resources): https://a.co/d/74Yyby5  The Power of a Praying Wife (Melissa mentions): https://a.co/d/7EtCjQL Catholic marriage, Catholic intimacy, sex in marriage, Theology of the Body, natural family planning (NFP), fertility awareness, vaginismus, libido, orgasm, pleasure, shame, purity culture, healing, body scan prayer, praying with your husband, scheduling sex, spontaneous vs responsive desire, emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, Catholic women, marriage encouragement  

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    65| You Are Not Behind: A Gentle Reset for the New Year

    January is loud. Everywhere you turn you hear, new year, new you, hustle harder, do more, become everything overnight. And if you do not get it all figured out in January, the year is basically over. In this episode, Melissa gently calls out the January Trap and shares why trying to carry a year’s worth of change into one month is the fastest way to burn out before February even hits. Instead of hustling, this episode invites you to slow down, choose a Word of the Year, filter your goals through your Life Anchors, and create a simple, intentional plan using your Anchored with Purpose Planner so transformation happens one faithful step at a time. ✨ Key Takeaways You are not behind if your goals or vision board are not done yet. January is for setting the foundation, not becoming a completely new woman. Your Word of the Year should guide what you focus on each month. Planning is not procrastinating, it removes the mental load. You do not need 10 goals, you need 3. Big goals become achievable when they are broken into monthly action steps and scheduled into your real life. Flexibility is not failure. You adjust and keep going. ⏱️ Episode Chapters 00:00 – Welcome + The January Hustle Culture Lie 01:11 – The January Trap and Why It Leads to Burnout 02:26 – Why Transformation Happens Slowly 04:50 – Using Your Word of the Year With the Life Anchors 07:14 – Choosing Only Three Goals for the Year 09:39 – Breaking Big Goals Into Monthly Action Steps 11:56 – Scheduling Your Goals Into Your Weekly Planner 14:21 – Flexibility, Grace, and God’s Provision 🛠️ Resources Mentioned Anchored with Purpose Planner: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/products/anchored-with-purpose-planner Word of the Year Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/64-one-word-can-change-everything-why-resolutions-fail/id1775076672?i=1000743213795  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/10-how-one-word-can-transform-your-year/id1775076672?i=1000680670747  Life Anchors Introduction Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/36-anchored-in-every-area-10-life-anchors-that-hold/id1775076672?i=1000713214616  Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/aUrUAKz Choose your Word of the Year. Write down how that word should influence each of your Life Anchors. Pick your top 3 goals for the year. Then decide what you need to focus on this month to set your year up for success and schedule those action steps into your planner. Transformation does not happen in a week. It happens through quiet obedience and small faithful steps. January goals, Word of the Year, transformation, Christian goal setting, planning with purpose, Life Anchors, Anchored with Purpose Planner, faith based planning, burnout prevention, intentional living, Catholic moms, Christian women podcast, Catholic, Catholic women  

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    64| One Word Can Change Everything: Why Resolutions Fail & Words Transform

    As the new year begins, most of the world rushes to make resolutions. However, research shows nearly 80% of them will be abandoned by mid-February. In this powerful episode, Melissa shares why she stopped setting resolutions and started choosing a Word of the Year instead - a simple, faith-filled practice that aligns your heart, habits, and purpose with God. Melissa walks you through her Word of the Year journey from 2017 through 2025, explains how to choose your own word using her free guide, and reveals her 2026 word: Transformation -  a year focused on renewing her mind, strengthening her body, and living as a true “living sacrifice” for God. 🧭 Key Takeaways Why 80% of New Year’s resolutions fail — and what works better What a Word of the Year is and how it shapes who you’re becoming How Melissa’s past words prepared her for each new season A step-by-step framework for choosing your own Word of the Year How to anchor your word with a definition, Scripture, and vision Melissa’s 2025 word (Impact) and how God multiplied her influence Her 2026 word (Transformation) and the physical, spiritual, and mental renewal God is inviting her into ⏱ Chapters 00:00 – Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work 01:30 – What is a Word of the Year? 02:00 – Melissa’s Word of the Year journey (2017–2025) 02:45 – Why a word works when resolutions don’t 03:30 – How to choose your Word of the Year 04:45 – Example: 2025 Word — Impact 06:30 – Introducing 2026 Word — Transformation 07:00 – Vision for Transformation in body, mind & spirit 08:30 – Invitation to download the Word of the Year Guide 🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned 📝 Free Word of the Year Guide — Download here: 👉 https://anchored-with-purpose.ck.page/b78367e68c 📖 YouVersion Bible App — Download here: 👉  https://www.bible.com/users/mjwilkinson41 🎧 Previous Episode on Word of the Year — Listen here: 👉 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/10-how-one-word-can-transform-your-year/id1775076672?i=1000680670747  

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    63| From Mess to Mission: Turning Your Story Into a Business That Serves Others | ft. Linds Paulson

    In today’s episode, Melissa sits down with Lindsay Paulson, CEO of LP Consulting and host of the Mess to Mission podcast. Lindsay helps faith-filled, high-capacity women simplify their homes, systems, and businesses so they can operate with more peace and confidence. Lindsay shares her powerful mess to mission journey, including her pivot out of the hotel industry, what she learned scaling a construction company from a 3-person team to 22, and how deep personal loss shaped her mission-driven approach to business. Together, Melissa and Lindsay talk about where to start when God places a dream on your heart, why systems matter (especially early on), how to build rhythms that prevent burnout, and why asking for help is not weakness. You’ll walk away with practical, encouraging steps to simplify, start, and move forward with faith. Key Takeaways Start with what brings you joy and what lights you up. Your business can be built for your current season. Your “mess to mission” story can become the very foundation of how you serve others. Systems save you later. Lindsay’s ADE method helps you scale with sanity: Automate, Delegate, Elevate. You can’t delegate what you haven’t outlined. Create simple processes and SOPs “like you’re explaining it to a kindergartener.” You don’t need expensive tools to get started. Use free or low-cost resources first to avoid shiny object syndrome. Build rhythms that support your family life: time blocking, admin days, and a strong “set your future self up for success” routine. Play and rest are not optional. They’re how you refuel to avoid burnout and keep showing up with joy. Comparison steals confidence. Don’t compare your day one to someone else’s day fifty. Asking for help is a mindset shift. Delegation can bless you and support other small business owners too. Don’t get stuck in perfection. People need your knowledge more than they need your “perfect” logo or the perfect shade of blue. Chapter Titles & Timestamps 00:00 — Meet Lindsay Paulson (LP Consulting + Mess to Mission) 02:02 — Lindsay’s Mess to Mission Story and Her Big Pivot 09:50 — Mission-Driven Work: Nonprofits, St. Jude, and Redeeming Hope 10:59 — Where to Start When God Places a Dream on Your Heart 12:50 — Why Systems Matter and a Simple System You Can Start Today 15:32 — Shiny Object Syndrome and Choosing Tools That Fit Your Brain 18:19 — Faith and Business: Building Around Family, Not Burnout 22:51 — Rhythms for Family Life, Travel Seasons, and Preventing Burnout 29:08 — Why It’s Hard to Ask for Help and How to Shift Your Mindset 32:23 — Encouragement for the Woman Afraid to Take the Leap 34:37 — Where to Find Lindsay and Work With Her Links Mentioned in the Episode Lindsay’s Website: www.lindspaulson.com  Instagram: @linds.paulson Mess to Mission Podcast: Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts Automation Academy (Monthly Subscription): Available on Lindsay’s website (www.lindspaulson.com ) 🎙 The Anchored with Purpose Planner is available NOW  — plus a FREE December download to try and use right away! faith-based business, Christian women entrepreneurs, systems for small business, business systems and processes, project management for entrepreneurs, how to start a business as a mom, automate delegate elevate, time blocking for moms, business without burnout, simplify your business, operations consulting, business automation, women owned business, Mess to Mission podcast, faith and entrepreneurship, delegation for entrepreneurs, free business tools, Google Workspace for business, ClickUp free version, entrepreneurship for busy moms  

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    62| Year in Review: Do This Before You Set Goals for the New Year

    Before you set a single goal for the new year, Melissa invites you to pause and complete a Year in Review / Life Evaluation—a simple, powerful reflection that brings clarity, context, and peace. She shares how she recently did this with her planner and prayer time, why reflection matters (with encouragement from Scripture and mentor Rick Warren), and how this process looks different when life feels more balanced than it once did. You’ll learn exactly how to review your year through highlights, goals met, lessons learned, struggles, places visited, and especially through the Anchored with Purpose Life Anchors—so you can see God’s faithfulness, measure your growth (including your Word of the Year: Impact), and step into the next season with intention. Plus, you can download the free Life Evaluation guide. Key Takeaways A Year in Review gives you clarity + context before you set goals for what’s next. Scripture calls us to reflect and remember what God has done (Ecclesiastes 3:1; Psalm 77:11–12). Reviewing your year through the Life Anchors helps you see where you were thriving—and where you want to grow. Your “Word of the Year” becomes more meaningful when you evaluate real-life evidence of it (Melissa’s 2025 word: Impact). Progress doesn’t always look like perfection - sometimes it looks like balance, growth, and grace. Practical tools help: flipping through your planner, reviewing calendar/photos, and using a simple evaluation worksheet. Your wins count - especially the quiet ones you might forget if you don’t write them down. This reflection becomes fuel for choosing your next Word of the Year and setting goals rooted in your real life. It’s okay if your review happens at your desk instead of a coffee shop - still do it (and yes, go grab the latte anyway). The free Life Evaluation download is designed to make this process easy and doable. Chapters 00:00 — Pause Before You Plan 01:16 — Why a Year in Review Matters (Clarity + Context) 02:19 — Last Year’s Perspective vs. This Year’s Balance 04:37 — Life Anchors Review: Faith Wins & Spiritual Growth 06:57 — Health & Family Wins (Gym, Intentional Time, Parenting Growth) 11:32 — Relationships & Community (Coffee Dates + Gym Friends) 13:54 — Money & Career Wins (Anchored with Purpose + Rebuilt + YouVersion) 20:45 — Personal Growth, Coaching, and Legacy Work 23:00 — Fun & Recreation (Wins You Forget Until You Flip the Planner) 27:46 — Home Wins (Kitchen Refresh + Creating Joy at Home) 30:05 — Highlights: Full Circle Mentor Moments + Big Events 34:45 — Goals Met + Biggest Accomplishments 36:59 — What Worked vs. What Didn’t 39:23 — Struggles, Grief, and Trusting God Through Uncertainty 40:42 — Lessons Learned + Rest (Because Your Body Keeps the Score) 42:10 — Places Visited + Why It Matters to Track Them 43:50 — Download the Free Life Evaluation + How to Use It 45:20 — Final Encouragement: You’ve Got This Year in Review, Life Evaluation, Christian goal setting, faith-based planning, reflection prompts, end of year reset, Word of the Year, Wheel of Life, Life Anchors, Catholic personal growth, spiritual reflection, planner reflection, gratitude and growth, habits and systems, work-life balance, discipleship, making an impact, Scripture reflection, journaling prompts, goal setting with God, Anchored with Purpose planner  

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    61| Reclaim Your Space with GRACE: Faith-Filled Organizing with Melinda Grace

    In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose podcast, Melissa sits down with professional organizer and author Melinda Grace, creator of the Reclaim Your Space with GRACE method. If your home feels overwhelming, your closets are overflowing, and your mind feels just as cluttered as your countertops, this conversation will feel like a deep breath. Melinda shares how God led her from an acting career in New York and LA into professional organizing, and how she began to see that clutter isn’t just “stuff” — it’s deeply connected to our anxiety, faith life, and sense of purpose. She unpacks powerful stories of women whose lives changed as they cleared their homes: new jobs, big moves, finished books, and fresh courage to step into their callings. You’ll also hear Melinda’s GRACE framework for decluttering (Gather, Release, Acquire, Cultivate, Enjoy), how to start where you’re most stuck, and why inviting God into the process can turn organizing from a dreaded chore into a soul-level reset. Whether you’re getting ready for the holidays, dreaming of a calmer new year, or just tired of feeling like you’re drowning in your own home, this episode will help you reclaim your space — and your peace — with grace. Melinda’s Book: Reclaim Your Space with GRACE by Melinda Grace – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FR9J9QN8  🎙 The Anchored with Purpose Planner is available NOW  — plus a FREE December download to try and use right away! Key Takeaways Clutter is not neutral – research shows it increases cortisol and can contribute to anxiety, fatigue, and stress, especially for women. Your home is a sanctuary – our physical spaces can either support or sabotage our ability to hear God, rest, and live our purpose. Start where you’re stuck – notice which room, corner, or routine makes you feel the most overwhelmed and begin there. Clutter and calling are connected – when women clear space, they often gain clarity and courage for big decisions (moving, writing a book, changing careers, etc.). We attach emotions to objects – sometimes we’re really holding onto memories, guilt, or identity, not just “stuff.” It’s okay to ask for help – inviting a friend, organizer, or coach into your space can be the breakthrough you need. The GRACE framework makes decluttering doable: G – Gather: your goals, your supplies, your items, and even donation options R – Release: let go of what no longer serves your current season A – Acquire: only then bring in bins, baskets, and design touches C – Cultivate: practice your new “dance” and rhythms in the space E – Enjoy: pause to celebrate, rest, and thank God for the transformation Faith belongs in the process – praying over what to keep, what to release, and where to donate can turn decluttering into a spiritual practice. You’re doing better than you think – moms are carrying a huge mental load; organizing is meant to support you, not shame you. Small changes matter – even tiny shifts like moving glasses closer to the water source or reworking a drawer can save time and mental energy daily. Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome & Holiday Clutter Chat 02:00 – Meet Melinda: Faith, Family & Life by the Beach 05:00 – From Acting to Organizing: A Calling Rewritten 09:00 – When Decluttering Changes a Life 12:00 – Clutter, Cortisol & the Science of Stress 16:00 – Drowning at Home: Where Do I Even Start? 18:30 – “Start Where You’re Stuck” 22:00 – Why Letting Go Is So Emotional 24:30 – Praying Over Donations & Finding the Right Home for Your Stuff 28:00 – Faith, Purpose & Our Overloaded Homes 33:00 – The GRACE Framework for Organizing 41:00 – Melissa’s $400 Kitchen Refresh & “Dance” in the Home 45:30 – How to Work with Melinda & Where to Find Her Links & Resources Mentioned Melinda’s Book: Reclaim Your Space with GRACE by Melinda Grace – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FR9J9QN8  Connect with Melinda Grace: Website: www.melindagrace.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melindagraceorganizing/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melindagraceorganizing Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/melindagraceorganizing LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-grace-0a3632329 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@melindagraceorganizing Newsletter: https://melinda-grace-organizing.kit.com/7b63959d73 https://bit.ly/melindagraceorganizing Grab Your Free Decluttering Checklist HERE -> https://melinda-grace-organizing.kit.com/80361b279fhttps://bit.ly/MGOdeclutteringlist Refresh Your Kitchen with My Top 10 Organizing Hacks for Kitchens HERE -> https://melinda-grace-organizing.kit.com/7103328cf4https://bit.ly/MGOkitchenreset  Easy, Printable Password Tracker HERE -> https://melinda-grace-organizing.kit.com/f3cb202522https://bit.ly/MGOPasswordTracker Connect with Melissa & Anchored with Purpose: Links  Book Melissa to Speak at Your Event Website Facebook Instagram Instagram Anchored with Purpose Tribe Email Christian home organization, Christian organizer, faith-based decluttering, reclaim your space with grace, Melinda Grace organizing, GRACE organizing method, clutter and anxiety, Christian minimalist lifestyle, organizing for overwhelmed moms, faith and home, Christian home reset, holiday decluttering, Christian women and mental load, GRACE framework, reclaim your space book

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    60| Planning With Purpose: Faith, Focus & Flexibility

    🎉 It’s a big day on the Anchored with Purpose Podcast — the Anchored with Purpose Planner is officially available! 🎉 In today’s episode, Melissa unveils the planner she has been designing, refining, and dreaming about for more than 15 years. She shares the behind-the-scenes journey of searching for the perfect planning system, the hilarious “Frankenplanner” experiment, discovering the discbound system, and overcoming overwhelm with other planners on the market. As someone recently diagnosed with ADHD, Melissa explains how planning tools have been life-changing, and how this new planner is created specifically to help women live with peace, clarity, and intention — without guilt or overwhelm. Inside this episode, you’ll learn what makes the Anchored with Purpose Planner different: weekly Scripture memory, monthly biblical themes, inspirational messages, time-blocking layouts, reflection pages, and the flexibility of a printable system that you can fully customize. Melissa also explains why she intentionally didn’t include every possible feature and how optional add-ons allow each woman to personalize her planning experience. If you’re ready to plan your life with purpose and anchor your days in faith — this episode will get you excited to start. 🎙 The planner is available NOW  — plus a FREE December download to try and use right away! Key Takeaways The Anchored with Purpose Planner is now available and ready to order 🎉 Planners have supported Melissa through decades of demanding seasons and helped with ADHD and executive functioning The Anchored with Purpose Planner has been designed over 15 years and refined for more than a year in real-life use The discbound system allows full customization and flexibility for planning in a way that fits real life Weekly Scripture memory, monthly Scripture themes, inspirational messages, time blocking, and reflection pages create structure with peace Too many planners are overwhelming — this one is intentionally simple, faith-centered, peaceful, and flexible Optional add-on pages and free resources allow everyone to personalize their planning system Permission to give yourself grace: the planner is a tool, not a boss Chapters 00:00 — Welcome & planner launch celebration 🎉 00:45 — Melissa’s journey: why planning matters 01:35 — ADHD diagnosis & how planning supports executive functioning 02:20 — Searching for the perfect planner + the “Frankenplanner” story 04:30 — “People would pay you for this” — the seed planted 05:40 — Discovering the discbound system 08:45 — What makes the Anchored with Purpose Planner different 11:15 — Scripture, inspiration & monthly overview pages 12:05 — Time blocking & weekly reflection 12:50 — Why simplicity matters + avoiding overwhelm 13:45 — Catholic planners & finding the perfect middle ground 15:05 — Printable flexibility + optional add-ons 16:25 — Who this planner is for 17:10 — How to order + FREE December download 18:05 — Final encouragement & blessing Helpful Links from This Episode 🛍 Order the Anchored with Purpose Planner: https://anchoredwithpurpose.com 📥 Download the FREE December Planner Pages: https://anchoredwithpurpose.com 🌀 Discbound System Resources: Levenger: https://levenger.com ARC by Staples: https://staples.com Martha Stewart Discs: available at Staples Happy Planner (similar system): https://thehappyplanner.com 📱 Follow Melissa on Instagram: https://instagram.com/anchoredwithpurpose  📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@anchoredwithpurpose    Anchored with Purpose Planner, planner launch, faith-based planner, printable planner, discbound planner, Catholic women, Christian moms, intentional living, time-blocking planner, Scripture memory, ADHD planning tools, executive functioning, planning with faith, peace not panic

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    59| Family Dinners, Less Stress: How Meal Prep Builds Connection, Confidence, and Health | ft. Cassie Groeschel

    In this episode, Melissa brings back registered dietitian, wife, and mom of three, Cassie Groeschel, to talk all things meal prep, family meals, picky eaters, and raising kids who actually know how to cook. Cassie shares how she went from burnt-out, multi-job-working mom to a woman who uses simple meal prep routines to buy back hours of her week and reclaim evenings with her family. She breaks down why meal prep doesn’t have to mean “half your Sunday in the kitchen,” how to use tiny pockets of time (like when the toast is in the toaster!) to prep, and why cooking is a lost life skill we desperately need to bring back for our kids. You’ll hear practical, grace-filled strategies for: How to meal prep in small pockets of time instead of marathon Sundays Why cooking at home is tied to better health, connection, and confidence Simple, age-appropriate ways to get toddlers, kids, and teens helping in the kitchen How to handle picky eaters with more intention and less frustration What to do before you overhaul your meals: pantry resets, life-season audits, and realistic goals How Cassie’s Busy Mom Meal Prep Course helps you reduce decision fatigue, feed your family well, and stop dreading the “What’s for dinner?” question If you’re a busy mom who is tired of scrambling at 5 p.m., wants her kids to learn real-life kitchen skills, and desires more peaceful, screen-free family dinners, this one will speak right to you. 🔗 Links Mentioned in This Episode Cassie’s Website Learn more about Cassie, her work with families, and her resources: 👉 wellnessthatfits.com Cassie on Instagram Follow Cassie for practical, realistic wellness and meal prep tips for busy moms: 👉 @wellnessthatfits Cassie’s Podcast Wellness That Fits – launching around the time of this episode, where Cassie shares more about nutrition, family wellness, and realistic health strategies for busy women. https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/wellness-that-fits/id1845172688 ⏱ Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome Back, Cassie! Meal Prep, Family Time & Picky Eaters 00:47 – Cassie’s Story: Burnout, Multiple Jobs & Finding Meal Prep 03:31 – “I Don’t Have Time to Meal Prep”: Mindset Shifts That Change Everything 04:38 – Tiny Pockets of Time: Prepping Lettuce While the Toast Toasts 06:11 – Reducing Food Waste with Freezer Hacks (Spinach, Carrots & More) 07:39 – Cooking as a Lost Life Skill & Why It Matters for Our Kids 09:43 – From Convenience Culture to Food Literacy and Emotional Connection 10:52 – Life Skills Camp: Letting Kids Wash, Chop & Use Knives Safely 11:42 – Age-Appropriate Kitchen Tasks: Toddlers to Bigger Kids 13:37 – Teaching Food Safety, Raw Meat Handling & Modeling in the Kitchen 14:56 – Making It Fun: Music, Theme Nights & Confidence in the Kitchen 16:12 – Spiritual & Emotional Connection Around the Table (Gratitude & Prayer) 18:46 – Patience, Screens Off & Building Social-Emotional Skills at Mealtime 20:04 – Mindful Eating vs Screens: Brain-Gut Connection & Feeling Satisfied 22:03 – Picky Eaters: Lists, Favorites & Involving Kids in Decisions 24:26 – Kids Packing Their Own Lunches: Setting Them Up for Success 27:43 – Teaching Where Food Comes From: Grocery Trips & Food Literacy 28:44 – Kids Are More Capable Than We Think: Melissa’s Lunch Story 28:56 – Inside the Busy Mom Meal Prep Course: Life Season Audit 30:17 – Pantry Reset, Core Ingredient Prep & Diverse Meals from the Same Base 32:35 – Kid Lunches Formula: Protein + Grain + Fruit + Veggie 33:34 – Reducing Decision Fatigue: Sustainable, Nutritious Meal Planning 34:34 – Why Decision Fatigue Is Real & How Meal Prep Can Help 34:56 – Where to Find Cassie & Her Busy Mom Meal Prep Course (with Discount Code) 35:32 – Melissa’s Testimony: High-Protein, High-Iron Wins with Her Boys 36:14 – Encouragement, Impact & Cassie’s Upcoming Podcast 37:20 – Closing Encouragement: Stay Anchored with Purpose Busy Mom Meal Prep Course + Discount Code Cassie’s course designed specifically for busy, stretched-thin moms who want to: Spend less time in the kitchen Feed their families nourishing meals Reduce dinner-time stress and decision fatigue Use code PREP50 at checkout to receive $50 off the Busy Mom Meal Prep Course. Busy mom meal prep, Christian moms cooking, family meal planning, picky eaters help, kids in the kitchen, teaching kids to cook, healthy family dinners, faith and family meals, dietitian tips for moms, easy meal prep ideas, screen-free family dinners, Catholic mom life, time-saving meal prep for families, decision fatigue dinner time, kid-friendly meal prep. Grab the FREE sample of the Anchored With Purpose Planner 👉 https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 anchoredwithpurpose.com Anchored with Purpose Podcast Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal Anchored with Purpose Instagram

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    58| Holy Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace with Family This Holiday Season

    In this powerful conversation, Melissa sits down with Meghan Lemery-Fritz, LCSW — a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years of experience — to talk about healthy boundaries, emotional safety, narcissistic family members, and how to protect your peace during the holidays as a Christian woman. Meghan shares how her Catholic + charismatic upbringing, her mom’s late-in-life social work career, and even old HBO movies sparked her fascination with relationships and human behavior. From there, she unpacks what boundaries actually are (and what they’re not), why so many Christian women confuse self-abandonment with holiness, and how the Holy Spirit often speaks through our discomfort, intuition, and lack of peace. You’ll hear practical, faith-filled guidance on: What a healthy boundary really is (hint: it’s about your actions, not their behavior) How to recognize when you’re dysregulated, drained, or ignoring your intuition Why “being nice” and being kind are not the same — and how authenticity is actually more Christ-like How to prepare for family gatherings with a clear plan, exit strategies, and time limits What to do if you’re dealing with a narcissistic or emotionally unhealthy relative Why it’s okay — and sometimes necessary — to go low contact or no contact How to say no without over-explaining, and how to stop abandoning yourself in the name of “being a good Christian” This episode is especially timely if you’re heading into Thanksgiving, Christmas, or extended-family events and already feeling anxious, guilty, or overwhelmed Chapters 00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Meghan Lemery-Fritz 00:39 – Meghan’s Family, Faith Background & Local Connection 02:11 – How HBO Movies, Bible Study, and Her Mom’s Career Shaped Her Calling 05:41 – Growing Up Catholic with a Charismatic, Scripture-Rooted Twist 07:29 – What Is a Healthy Boundary (and What It’s Not)? 10:00 – Are Boundaries Unloving? A Catholic Perspective on Dignity & Self-Respect 12:45 – Dysregulation, Intuition, and the Holy Spirit’s “Still Small Voice” 15:27 – People-Pleasing vs Inspiration: Are You a Cheerful Giver? 16:18 – Nice vs Kind: Serving from Ego vs Serving from the Spirit 18:39 – Self-Abandonment, Oxygen Masks, and Feeling “Dead Inside” 20:27 – Time in the Word, Quiet, and Why We Need Space to Heal 22:04 – Practicing “No”: Simple Phrases for Protecting Your Peace 23:25 – The Power of Authenticity: The Strongest Energy in the Room 24:44 – Holiday Triggers: Birth Order, Old Patterns, and Family Expectations 27:51 – Melissa’s Christmas Story & Redefining What the Day Looks Like 29:35 – Discomfort as Information: Listening to Your Body (Not Just “Anxiety”) 30:54 – Setting Clear Expectations: Offensive vs Defensive Boundaries 32:14 – Safe Words, Exit Plans, and Handling Intrusive Questions 33:44 – Hosting, Over-Functioning, and Letting Others Help 35:27 – “I Have Anxiety” vs “I Have Feelings”: Learning to Hold Space 36:16 – Narcissistic & Emotionally Unhealthy Family Members: First Steps 37:40 – Low Contact, No Contact & Moving Toward Safety as a Christian 40:14 – How You Feel Around Someone as a Clue to Personality Disorders 42:38 – Where to Find Meghan Online & Her Personality Disorder Content 44:41 – Melissa’s Closing Thoughts & Meghan’s Upcoming Podcast 🔗 Links Mentioned in the Episode Meghan’s Telehealth Psychotherapy Practice Fritz & Tanger Psychotherapy (serving clients in Pennsylvania, Vermont, Colorado, New York, and New Hampshire) 👉 https://www.fritzstanger.com/  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/meghan-lemery-fritz-glens-falls-ny/1051148 Meghan on TikTok – Personality Disorders & Boundaries Short, powerful “crash course” videos on personality disorders, narcissism, boundaries, and emotional health 👉https://www.tiktok.com/@personalitydisordercoach?_r=1&_t=ZP-91B6y1NRN1D  or  Search “Personality Disorder Coach” on TikTok Healthy boundaries Christian women, Catholic boundaries, Christian mental health, holiday family stress, narcissistic family member, personality disorders, emotional safety, people-pleasing, Christian women saying no, Catholic moms and boundaries, holiday triggers, Christian therapist boundaries, Holy Spirit and intuition. Connect with Melissa:  Book Melissa to Speak at Your Event Website Facebook Instagram Instagram Anchored with Purpose Tribe Email

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    57| Anchored, Not Anxious: How Weekly Planning Helps You Find Peace

    Ever feel like your to-do list is running you instead of the other way around? 🌀 The appointments, the kids’ activities, hosting responsibilities, family coming to town, holiday prep, and somewhere in there — you still need time to breathe? In today’s episode, Melissa gets honest about overwhelm, anxiety, and the powerful practice that helps her reset and return to peace every single week: faith-first planning using the weekly spread inside the Anchored With Purpose Planner. Inside this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why God cares about how you use your time ✨ The science behind writing down tasks + reducing anxiety ✨ How to turn a mental spiral into calm clarity ✨ The one weekly focus that keeps you grounded ✨ How to brain-dump and sort tasks with intention ✨ Why scheduling tasks makes you 3x more likely to finish them ✨ Color-coding, time-blocking, and stepping into stewardship ✨ A gentle reminder that planning ≠ perfection — it’s progress And most importantly — how your planner can become a place of peace, a sanctuary where you meet God, breathe deeply, and choose purpose over panic.   🧠 Key Takeaways Your planner is not just paper — it's peace Start your week with God, not your calendar A weekly focus keeps you aligned with your calling Scripture anchors your mind and heart Writing tasks down frees your brain to breathe Time-blocking turns intention into action Celebrate wins — big and small — to cultivate gratitude & joy Consistency over  perfection 📌 Links Mentioned Grab the FREE sample of the Anchored With Purpose Planner 👉 https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 Anchored With Purpose Faith Journal 👉https://a.co/d/bGAJpU5 📱 Let’s Connect Tag me on Instagram when you're doing your weekly planning — I LOVE seeing your spreads and cheering you on! @anchoredwithpurpose or @melissajwilkinson  🎧 Listen + Share If this episode blessed you, share it with a friend who needs peace, clarity, and a reminder that she doesn’t have to hustle — she can plan with God.

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    56| Global Bible Month: Simple Ways to Stay Anchored in Scripture

    This month, we’re celebrating something powerful — Global Bible Month with the YouVersion Bible App. With more than one billion downloads, the Bible App has put God’s Word into the hands and hearts of people all over the world — including right here in our community. In this episode, Melissa shares how daily Scripture — whether through a physical Bible or the Bible App — has grounded her, guided her, and helped her stay anchored through busy seasons, motherhood, and life’s unexpected moments. You’ll hear simple, practical ways to spend time with God each day, how to use features inside the YouVersion app like streaks, prayer prompts, and Bible plans, and why even one verse a day can reshape your heart and your home. 📲 Download the Bible App: Download The Bible App Now - 100% Free  💁🏻‍♀️ Join me on the Bible App: https://www.bible.com/users/mjwilkinson41 📖 Read the Rebuilt Faith Bible Plan: https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/62006 Get your FREE Anchored with Purpose Planner: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2  🎧 Episode Chapters 00:00 — Welcome & Why Global Bible Month Matters 01:05 — When Life Feels Loud & Full 02:20 — “Scripture Gives Time Back” 04:00 — The Bible App as a Lifeline 05:15 — Searching Scripture by Emotion or Topic 07:00 — Verse of the Day & Daily Devotions 08:40 — Sharing Scripture in Everyday Conversations 09:45 — Guided Prayer & Tracking Prayer Requests 11:20 — Streaks + Staying Consistent 13:15 — Bible Reading Plans 16:07 — Reading Plans With Friends 17:25 — My Favorite Physical Bible 18:20 — The “Rebuilt Faith” Plan 20:10 — Habits, Grace, & James Clear Wisdom 22:00 — Gratitude for the YouVersion Milestone 23:30 — Your Invitation to Join the Challenge YouVersion Bible App, Global Bible Month, Bible reading habit, daily Scripture routine, Christian morning routine, Catholic Bible plan, Rebuilt Faith YouVersion plan, Bible App streaks, faith habits for moms, verse of the day devotional

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    55| When God Sends Joy with a Curly Tail: Our Pug Adoption Story

    This week on the Anchored with Purpose podcast, I’m sharing something a little different — not about goal setting or productivity, but about joy. The kind of joy that sneaks up on you when you least expect it, the kind God brings right into your lap… sometimes literally, with fur, wrinkles, and curly tails. Our family just adopted two new pug puppies, Duke and Duchess, from Green Mountain Pug Rescue, and they’ve completely stolen our hearts. After losing our beloved Olive in 2020 and Frank the Tank earlier this year, our house felt quiet — like something was missing. But God, in His goodness, knew exactly how to fill that space again. In this episode, I’m sharing the full story — from how Olive and Frank first became part of our lives, to the long wait, the adoption process, and the moment Duke and Duchess came home. You’ll hear how God used these little rescue pups to remind me that He truly cares about the small details of our lives — even the four-legged ones. What You’ll Hear: How our family’s pug story began — and how each one “found” us What the waiting season taught me about God’s timing The sweet reminder that joy often returns in small, unexpected ways How Duke and Duchess have brought laughter and light back into our home Let’s Stay Connected: Instagram: @anchoredwithpurpose Website: anchoredwithpurpose.com

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    54| When You Say Yes to God: One Year of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast

     Can you believe it’s been one year of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast?  In this special anniversary episode, Melissa celebrates a year of showing up together — growing in faith, rediscovering purpose, and dreaming big again. She shares heartfelt reflections, lessons learned, and encouragement for anyone who’s ever felt afraid to start before they were ready. From nervous beginnings to building a thriving community, Melissa reminds us that obedience matters more than perfection, your story can set someone else free, and God multiplies what we surrender. Whether you’ve listened since day one or you’re just joining the Anchored with Purpose family, this episode will inspire you to keep trusting God with your next step and your big dreams. Get your FREE copy of the Anchored with Purpose planner here: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 In This Episode You’ll Learn: The heart behind the Anchored with Purpose Podcast Why obedience > perfection in any dream or calling How God uses your story to impact others What happens when you surrender control and say “yes” to God Encouragement for stepping into your next season with faith and confidence Connect with Melissa: Instagram: @anchoredwithpurpose Website: anchoredwithpurpose.com Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share your favorite episode!

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    53| Raising Kids in the Faith (Without the Pressure): Kristin DeVan on Real-Life Habits

    Melissa sits down with Kristin DeVan—mom of four, campus minister, and longtime Nativity/Rebuilt ministry leader—to talk about raising kids in the Catholic faith, simple family faith habits, and building a home culture rooted in Jesus (without perfection or pressure). Kristin shares how serving as a kid ignited her calling, how liturgical seasons help families, practical ways to pray with little ones, and why small groups matter for moms. You’ll hear honest encouragement on burnout, boundaries, and keeping your cup filled while you pour into your family and church. Get your FREE copy of the Anchored with Purpose planner here: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 What you’ll learn How early serving in church shaped Kristin’s calling and faith Simple, realistic family faith rhythms (prayer before meals, bedtime intentions, worship music) Using liturgical seasons (Advent, Lent) to engage kids who think in “seasons” Why modeling matters more than perfection (parents as visible disciples) Small groups for moms: going deeper, being known, and staying filled Guarding against comparison and online perfection; choosing voices that encourage Practical resources: saints books for kids, worship music (Forrest Frank), Hallow app Chapters 0:00 – God-orchestrated friendship & fun-size besties 1:25 – Kristin’s story: serving at 8 years old → theology → campus ministry 8:55 – Nativity/Rebuilt snapshot: one church, one message, excellence 11:30 – Keeping faith central with four kids: simple, consistent habits 15:25 – Practical traditions: mealtime prayer, bedtime intentions, music, saints books 18:30 – Worship music & Scripture: memorizing through lyrics 20:30 – Real-talk: avoiding pressure and perfection; doing what fits your family 22:45 – Hallow app, rosary readiness, and meeting kids where they are 24:20 – Small groups for moms: virtual after-bedtime & going deep 26:10 – Encouragement for moms in every season: grace > perfection Keywords: Catholic moms, Catholic family life, family faith practices, liturgical living for families, Catholic parenting, motherhood and faith, small groups for moms, Rebuilt Parish, Nativity Church, worship music for kids, saints for kids, prayer with children, Catholic women encouragement, balance for busy moms

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    52| Stop Waiting for January: Tips to Finish the Year Strong

    Can you believe there are less than 90 days left in the year? Most people will hit pause and coast through the rest of the season — but not you, friend.  In this episode, Melissa Wilkinson shares faith-filled encouragement and practical strategies to help you finish the year strong. You’ll learn how to reflect on your goals, re-align your priorities, and take intentional steps toward the dreams God has placed on your heart. Through Scripture, research, and personal stories, Melissa walks you through how to create small, consistent habits that build momentum before January even arrives — because better is the end of a thing than its beginning (Ecclesiastes 7:8). Whether you’re feeling behind, overwhelmed, or just ready for a reset, this episode will help you find clarity, peace, and purpose as you close out the year with intention and grace. 💡 What You’ll Learn: Why how you finish the year matters more than how you started it How to reflect on your 2025 goals — and release the ones that no longer fit Faith-based strategies to stay grounded when life feels busy How to build “atomic habits” that help you end the year strong The power of planning with purpose (and how to use your planner as a faith tool) How to set one “next right step” each week for meaningful progress Tips for prayer journaling, celebrating weekly wins, and planning with joy How gratitude, faith, and focus work together to create momentum 🕒 Chapters & Time Stamps: 0:00 — Why finishing the year strong matters 2:00 — The truth about New Year’s resolutions and building momentum early 4:00 — Revisiting your goals and reflecting on what still matters 6:00 — Systems, not goals: Lessons from Atomic Habits 8:00 — The Anchored with Purpose Planner: building structure and faith into your days 10:00 — Melissa’s personal story: health goals, gym challenges, and finding motivation 14:00 — The power of small habits and daily discipline 17:00 — Using your planner to track prayers, gratitude, and wins 22:00 — Giving yourself permission to adjust your goals 25:00 — Dreaming with God: setting new intentions for the coming year 28:00 — The final challenge: plant one small seed before December 31st 🧩 Resources Mentioned: Anchored with Purpose Planner: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2  Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://a.co/d/5y2MODN  The Dream Manager by Matthew Kelly: https://a.co/d/aiBBU8K Anchored with Purpose: anchoredwithpurpose.com  faith-based goal setting, finish the year strong, Christian motivation, end of year reflection, Catholic women podcast, faith and planning, building habits that last, Christian time management, journaling and prayer habits, momentum for the new year, intentional living, Anchored with Purpose podcast

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    51| From Burnout to Alignment: Emotional Intelligence for Women in Leadership

    In this faith-filled conversation, Melissa sits down with Dr. Tennille Woodward—educator-turned-speaker, leadership coach, and national conference presenter—to talk about women in leadership, emotional intelligence, and what it really takes to live and lead in alignment. Tenille shares how she moved from corporate finance to the classroom to the principal’s office, and now to the keynote stage, helping women own their influence (Maxwell: “leadership is influence”) at work, at home, and in their faith communities. They unpack burnout, how to notice the early rumble strips (shoutout to From Drift to Drive), why “taking up space” matters, and practical ways to give and receive feedback with grace. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I really a leader?”—this episode says yes and shows you how to step forward with purpose. Connect with Dr. Tennille Woodward: Website: growleadempower.com (coaching, speaking, workshops) What you’ll learn: Why every woman is a leader (influence at home, work, church) The difference between performance and purpose—and a tiny shift you can make this week How to spot burnout before it breaks you (the “rumble strips” metaphor) Emotional intelligence as the key to stewarding influence (and how to grow it) A simple way to practice healthy feedback (beyond “good job”) What alignment looks like when your vision, values, and actions move in the same direction Why it’s okay to “take up space”—and how to build the courage to do it Chapters 0:00 — God-orchestrated meeting: Maxwell Conference + a wild connection story 2:45 — Tenille’s path: corporate finance → education → principal → leadership speaker 5:30 — “Leadership is influence”: why women already lead (even if they don’t claim it) 8:15 — Movie-themed archetypes: Scene Stealer, Plot Twister, Silent Extra 11:30 — Avoiding pendulum swings & finding alignment 15:00 — Emotional intelligence at home, work, and church 17:30 — Feedback that forms people (not just “good job”) 20:10 — Moms, boundaries, and the courage to say “no, thank you” 23:10 — From performance to purpose: one small shift this week 24:20 — Where to find Tenille + connect for coaching Resources & mentions: Chris Robinson, From Drift to Drive (burnout & “rumble strips”) - https://a.co/d/5pzcvnK  Melissa’s Free Planner: Weekly “Prayer Requests” box (top right) + “Weekly Wins” box (bottom right) to build faith, focus, and momentum: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 Keywords: women in leadership, Christian women leadership, faith-based leadership, emotional intelligence for women, burnout recovery, boundaries for moms, leadership alignment, John Maxwell leadership, purpose-driven living, feedback culture, motherhood and leadership, female keynote speaker

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    50| Keeping the Faith When the World Feels Scary

    In this episode of Anchored with Purpose, Melissa shares encouragement for holding onto faith when the world feels heavy. With recent tragedies close to home and across the country, it’s easy to feel shaken or overwhelmed. But even in heartbreaking times, we can anchor ourselves in prayer, community, and the goodness of God. Key Takeaways: Why it’s okay to bring your honest questions and grief to God How prayer connects us to Him and to each other The simple but powerful impact of asking, “How can I pray for you?” Using the Anchored with Purpose Planner to track prayer requests and celebrate weekly wins Choosing to focus on the good as an act of faith and resilience Get your FREE copy of the Anchored with Purpose planner here: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2 Chapters: 0:00 – When the world feels scary and life feels heavy 2:00 – Wrestling with God in hard times 4:40 – The power of prayer and community 7:00 – Writing down prayer requests in the planner 9:20 – Weekly wins: focusing on the good 12:00 – A word of encouragement for Spring Grove and beyond 14:30 – Closing prayer and blessing

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    49| Not Strictly Spiritual: Silence, Gratitude & Everyday Prayer| ft. Mary de Turris Poust

    Writer, retreat leader, and spiritual director Mary de Turris Poust joins Melissa to unpack how ordinary moments—oatmeal breakfasts, folding laundry, school drop-offs—become encounters with God. From the domestic church and parenting to gratitude practices, silent retreats, and learning to “stop striving” (Psalm 46), Mary offers simple, doable rhythms for busy women who want a deeper spiritual life without guilt or overwhelm. 🗓️ Get your FREE Anchored with Purpose Planner for the last 4 months of the year! https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2  Highlights The pivot from “business of the Church” to truths of the faith How the domestic church forms kids—then learning to let go as they launch Why gratitude shifts us from lack to abundance (Mary’s journal is 9,000+ entries!) Easy family practices: gratitude jar, numbered nightly “3 things” Praying in the everyday: mindful meals, pots & pans spirituality (St. Teresa of Ávila) A gentle path into silence: start with five minutes, silent breakfasts, car quiet What silent retreat is (and isn’t): removing crutches (no reading/writing/eye contact!) Retreats Mary leads: silence, scripture, art & music, collage prayer, “puzzle as meditation” When you “can’t hear God”: trust, begin again, and embrace the journey as the goal Scripture & Wisdom Mentioned Psalm 46:10 — “Be still… / Cease fighting… / Stop striving and know that I am God.” St. Teresa of Ávila — “God walks among the pots and pans.” St. Catherine of Siena — “All the way to heaven is heaven.” Try This Week Create a small sacred space (chair, candle, scripture/holy card). Practice five minutes of silence once a day (car, kitchen prep, early morning). Start a gratitude habit: write and number 3 daily thanks or use a family gratitude jar. Resources & Links Mary DeTurris Poust — https://notstrictlyspiritual.com/  Mary’s Advent book (Liturgical Press) - https://litpress.org/Products/6872/Waiting-in-Joyful-Hope Calls to Action If this encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave a rating/review. Tag us with your gratitude jar or quiet-time space!

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    48| How to Build Habits Without Burnout

    Our lives are shaped by our habits — for better or for worse. The small choices we make every day either anchor us in peace and purpose or leave us drifting and overwhelmed. In this episode of Anchored with Purpose, Melissa unpacks why habits matter, how they connect to our faith, and the simple, practical ways to start building habits that actually last. Drawing on insights from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey and Atomic Habits by James Clear, Melissa shares how to: See habits as stewardship of the gifts God has entrusted to us Shift from goal-chasing to identity-based habits that stick Use habit stacking to add new rhythms without adding extra time Shape your environment so your habits become easy and natural Track and celebrate habits with a planner (and why that matters!) Embrace progress over perfection when habits slip Friend, your habits are shaping your life right now — but with God’s help, you get to choose the kind of life you’re building, one small step at a time. 🗓️ Get your FREE Anchored with Purpose Planner for the last 4 months of the year! https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2

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    47| Perfect(ish) Time Management: Stewarding Your Time for Faith, Family, and Purpose

    Time is one of the most valuable resources we have—but so often, it feels like it’s slipping through our fingers. In this inspiring conversation, Melissa sits down with Kali Brigham, host of the Perfectish Podcast and a seasoned time management coach, to explore how women of faith can reclaim their time, align their priorities, and live with greater peace and purpose. Kali shares her unique journey from NBC news producer—where every second literally counted—to coaching women across all seasons of life in building rhythms that matter. Together, Melissa and Kali talk about practical strategies for stewarding your time, creating intentional mornings, managing family expectations, and even leaving margin so you can breathe, dream, and grow into your God-given purpose. 💭 Download Kali’s free Friday Planning and Brain Drain sheets at https://tinyurl.com/braindraintemplate What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why time management is really about time stewardship as women of faith How to build mornings that feel right—not just follow someone else’s schedule A powerful way to bring intentional faith practices into your day (without guilt or checklists) The “thermostat principle” for setting the spiritual and emotional tone in your home How to use habit stacking to grow your prayer life and faith Practical rhythms for managing family expectations so you’re not pouring energy into things that don’t matter Why doing a time audit is one of the most eye-opening ways to reclaim your time Kali’s Friday Planning Party strategy for setting up a week with intention and freeing up your weekends How surrendering your daily plan to God creates both peace and freedom 🗓️ Get your FREE Anchored with Purpose Planner for the last 4 months of the year! https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/befd76a8d2  Scriptures Referenced: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the kingdom of God Psalm 22:3 – God inhabits the praise of His people 1 Thessalonians 5:17 – Pray without ceasing Proverbs 16:9 – A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode: Kali’s Website: https://www.kalibrigham.com/  The Perfectish Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/perfect-ish-time-management-for-your-beautifully-imperfect/id1713232629 Follow Kali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kali.brigham/  James Clear’s Atomic Habits: https://a.co/d/djBuWrz  YouVersion Bible App: https://www.bible.com/users/mjwilkinson41 Kali’s Free Resource: Friday Planning Party Templates and Brain Drain sheets at https://tinyurl.com/braindraintemplate Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/grAekgq  Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose  anchoredwithpurpose.com 

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    46| 10 Simple Strategies to Invest in Yourself (Without Guilt)

    Hey friend, welcome back to the Anchored with Purpose Podcast! In this episode, we’re wrapping up the Anchored in Every Area series by diving into one of the most transformative life anchors: personal development. Here’s the truth—if you’re not intentionally growing, you’re unintentionally drifting. And as women of faith, wives, moms, and dreamers, we were created for so much more than drifting. Personal growth isn’t just a nice idea; it’s stewardship of the mind, body, skills, and spirit God has entrusted to us. In this episode, I’ll share 10 practical and realistic ways to invest in your personal growth—whether you have a budget for it or not. You’ll discover simple, doable steps to keep learning, stay motivated, and grow closer to who God is calling you to be. We’ll cover strategies like: Daily reading and listening habits to feed your mind with wisdom instead of endless scrolling. Conferences, workshops, and online courses that inspire and sharpen your skills. Masterminds, mentors, and accountability partners to give you encouragement and challenge. Skill stacking, serving, and scheduling growth time to stretch yourself and multiply your impact. Reflection and application—because growth isn’t about information, but transformation. You’ll also hear encouragement from Scripture, including Luke 2:52, Romans 12:2, Proverbs 15:22, and Philippians 1:6—reminders that God calls us to keep growing and promises to complete the good work He began in us. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like your big dreams are slipping away, this episode will give you the tools and motivation to move forward. 🎧 Tune in and choose just ONE strategy to commit to over the next 30 days. Let’s stop drifting and start growing—on purpose. Keywords: Christian personal development, Catholic moms growth, faith and personal growth, spiritual growth habits, personal development strategies, accountability partners, skill stacking, Christian women goals, faith-based time management, Catholic podcast for moms. Free Life Evaluation Tool: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/ec1b0df5ec : Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/g8aVljY  Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose  Follow Melissa on Instagram: @anchoredwithpurpose 📅 Book your Anchored Insights Discussion session here Or just shoot me an email — I’d truly love to connect! [email protected] #ChristianMoms #FaithAndPersonalGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CatholicMomLife #AnchoredWithPurpose

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    45| Money, Faith, and Financial Freedom: Biblical Wisdom for Getting Out of Debt and Building Wealth

    Are you feeling the weight of debt, rising prices, and financial stress? You’re not alone. In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, host Melissa Wilkinson shares her family’s personal journey of paying off cars and law school loans early, building a strong retirement foundation, and creating peace in their home through budgeting and financial stewardship. This episode is part of our Anchored in Every Area series, focusing today on money and finance. We’ll connect real-world money challenges to biblical principles and offer practical tools to help you find financial freedom without guilt or shame. Melissa also shares: 📈 Why the average household debt in America is now over $104,000 (excluding mortgages). 💳 How credit card debt has skyrocketed to $1.1 trillion and why paying it off early matters. 🏦 How she and her husband used the debt snowball method to pay off vehicles and law school loans faster than they imagined possible. 👨‍👩‍👧 How budgeting and regular financial conversations with your spouse can transform your family’s money goals. 📖 What the Bible says about money — “the borrower is slave to the lender” (Proverbs 22:7) — and how to apply that truth with hope, not shame. 🙌 The power of tithing, giving first fruits to the Lord, and experiencing His blessing when we trust Him with our finances. 💡 The best financial advice Melissa’s dad ever gave her: start investing 15% into your 401(k) early. Whether you’re drowning in debt, just getting started with budgeting, or ready to dream bigger about giving generously, this episode will inspire you to live within your means, make a plan, and experience the peace that comes with financial freedom.   🔑 Key Takeaways from This Episode Inflation is real — groceries, gas, housing, and utilities cost more than ever, but there’s still hope for financial stability. The average U.S. household debt is over $104,000 (excluding mortgages), with credit cards averaging more than $6,000 in balances. The debt snowball method works: focus on the smallest debt first, then roll payments into the next one. Budgeting doesn’t have to be restrictive — it’s telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went. Retirement planning is critical: Melissa shares how starting young with 15% into her 401(k) set her up for financial security. Honest conversations about money with your spouse (and even friends) help remove the taboo and build accountability. God calls us to steward His money wisely, tithe faithfully, and trust Him with our needs.   📚 Resources & Mentions The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey: https://a.co/d/4vn2XXP  Proverbs 22:7 — “The borrower is slave to the lender.” Malachi 3:10 — God promises blessing when we bring our tithe. Luke 16:11 — “If you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?”   ✨ Who This Episode is For Women and families feeling the pressure of rising costs and wanting peace with money. Christians looking to align their finances with biblical stewardship. Anyone ready to break free from debt, build savings, and give generously. Listeners who want tactical steps for budgeting, paying off debt, and investing in the future. 💬 Let’s Reflect Together What do you want your financial situation to look like in 5, 10, or 20 years? If you could give generously to any cause or organization, who would you bless and why? Which financial step (budgeting, debt payoff, tithing, retirement saving) do you need to take next? 👉 Friend, this episode isn’t about guilt — it’s about hope. You don’t have to be a slave to debt forever. When you live within your means, stick to a budget, and trust God with your finances, you’ll find peace, freedom, and purpose. Let’s stay anchored in Him — even with our money. Free Life Evaluation Tool: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/ec1b0df5ec : Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/g8aVljY  Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose  Follow Melissa on Instagram: @anchoredwithpurpose 📅 Book your Anchored Insights Discussion session here Or just shoot me an email — I’d truly love to connect! [email protected]

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    44| Anchored in Health: Caring for Your Body, Mind, and Spirit

    Your health is more than a number on the scale — it’s stewardship of the body and mind God has entrusted to you. In this episode of Anchored with Purpose, Melissa dives deep into the Life Anchor of Health, exploring both physical and mental wellness through a faith-centered lens. From finding workouts you actually look forward to, to leading your children by example, to fueling your body with nutrient-rich foods (without living in the kitchen), Melissa shares her personal wins, struggles, and the mindset shifts that make lasting health possible. You’ll hear about her journey from intimidation to strength at her local gym, the surprising family wins with dietitian Cassie Groeschel, and the importance of protecting your mental health through rest, boundaries, and connection. Whether you’re ready to start a 10-minute walk, drink more water, or finally find joy in movement again, you’ll come away with practical tips and biblical encouragement to anchor your health in purpose — so you can live out your calling with energy, peace, and joy. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why health is stewardship, not just appearance (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) How leading by example impacts your kids’ lifelong habits (CDC data) Ways to find the type of movement you love The power of community in sticking with fitness goals Cassie Groeschel’s simple, family-friendly approach to nutrition Practical ways to protect your mental and emotional well-being How small steps lead to life-changing health habits Scripture Mentioned: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Proverbs 4:23 Resources & Links: Connect with Dietitian Cassie Groeschel: https://wellnessthatfits.com/  Listen to Cassie’s previous episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/18-overcoming-exhaustion-finding-balance-a-wellness/id1775076672?i=1000691054931  Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/18-overcoming-exhaustion-finding-balance-a-wellness/id1775076672?i=1000691054931 

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    43| Faith-Filled Relationships: Love, Boundaries, and Connection That Lasts

    Relationships are at the core of our lives—but they’re not always easy. In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa dives into the different types of relationships we navigate every day—marriage, parenthood, friendships, extended family, and even workplace connections. You’ll discover why marriage takes intentional effort, practical ways to connect with your spouse (even on a budget!), how to build deep friendships as an adult, and how to set healthy boundaries with family. Melissa also shares wisdom on being a light in your workplace and ministry environments. You’ll leave this episode encouraged and equipped with journal prompts, reflection questions, and biblical truth to anchor your relationships in love, grace, and faith. Key Topics Covered: Why marriage requires both work and grace (and what Ephesians 5 teaches us) The power of simple, affordable date nights (yes, even from your couch!) How to disciple your kids daily without pressure Overcoming loneliness and building strong friendships as an adult Setting boundaries with extended family while honoring them Living out your faith in your workplace and volunteer roles Reflection questions and journal prompts to help you grow in your relationships Scripture References: Ephesians 5:33 Proverbs 22:6 Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 Exodus 20:12 Matthew 5:16 Romans 12:18 Join the Conversation: Come be part of the Anchored with Purpose Tribe on Facebook for community, encouragement, and practical faith-building tips: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose

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    42| The Family Anchor: Building Faith, Love, and Presence at Home

    In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa continues the “Anchored in Every Area” series by exploring one of life’s most foundational anchors—family. Family was God’s idea from the beginning, designed to be a place of belonging, faith, and character formation. Yet in today’s fast-paced culture, family time often gets crowded out by endless schedules, sports, and obligations. Melissa shares practical ways to stay anchored in love, faith, and values at home, even when life gets messy. You’ll learn: Why family is central to God’s design Eye-opening stats on the stress parents face and the decline of intentional family time How to build intentional family rhythms (like morning blessings, weekly resets, and conversations that matter) Why Melissa’s family intentionally chose not to join the travel sports lifestyle—and how that decision shaped their weekends and faith practices Journal prompts and reflection questions to help you protect your family’s peace If you’ve ever wondered how to strengthen your family anchor without chasing perfection, this conversation will encourage you to focus on what truly matters. Links and Resources: Barna Study: Faith Conversations in the Home Pew Research: Parenting and Family Time Statistics Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe for support and encouragement - https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose  Jesus Calling for Kids: https://a.co/d/1epr0z3 Anxiety Elephants for Tween Boys: https://a.co/d/b92iFiC

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    41| Anchored in Faith: The Foundation That Holds Everything Together

    Faith isn’t just one area of your life—it’s the foundation for everything else. In this episode of Anchored with Purpose, Melissa dives deep into the Faith & Spiritual Life Anchor, part of the Anchored in Every Area series. Between work, kids, laundry, and to-do lists, faith can easily get crowded out. But as Matthew 7:24–25 reminds us, when we build our lives on the rock of Christ, we can withstand any storm. Melissa shares statistics about Mass attendance, prayer, and Bible reading, and explains why consistent faith practices bring lasting joy, purpose, and resilience. You’ll also hear her personal journey of staying anchored in faith through life’s busy and dry seasons, and get practical tips for making faith an intentional part of your daily rhythm. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why faith is the foundation for every other area of your life The importance of weekly Mass and how few Catholics currently attend (only 17% in the U.S.) Practical ways to anchor your faith: Scripture, prayer, sacraments, worship, and community Melissa’s favorite tools and resources for staying connected to God How to rebuild your faith one small step at a time Links & Resources Mentioned: YouVersion Bible App: https://www.bible.com/  Bible in a Year with Fr. Mike Schmitz: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-bible-in-a-year-with-fr-mike-schmitz/id1539568321  Great Adventure Catholic Bible: https://a.co/d/dvnNWBD  Walking with God: A Journey through the Bible: https://a.co/d/ilDHslE   MassTimes.org – Find Mass & Reconciliation near you: https://masstimes.org/  Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal Join the conversation in the Anchored with Purpose Tribe Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1B7c5RBreV/  Journal Prompts: When was a time God showed up for me when I least expected it? What’s currently keeping me from spending more time with God? How do I want my spiritual life to feel in the next 3 months? Reflection Questions: Am I treating faith like a checklist or a relationship? Where am I trying to do life in my own strength? What would shift if I truly let God lead every part of my life?

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    40| Is Your Work Aligned with Your Purpose?

    Whether you're a corporate leader, a stay-at-home mom, a small business owner, or somewhere in between—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Melissa walks through the ups and downs of her own career journey—from managing a $28 million store with 200 employees to becoming a stay-at-home mom, launching a successful direct sales business, and stepping into full-time ministry. She reminds us that our worth doesn’t come from a paycheck, title, or promotion, but from God—and that when we align our work with His purpose, everything shifts. You’ll hear powerful scriptures, surprising stats, and get practical journal prompts to help you anchor your work life in faith. Whether you’re feeling stuck, burnt out, or fired up and ready to go, this episode will encourage you to seek faithfulness over hustle and follow God’s lead in every season. 📖 Scriptures Mentioned: Colossians 3:23-24 Proverbs 16:3 & 16:9 Ecclesiastes 3:1 Romans 8:28 📊 Stats Shared: Only 33% of Americans feel engaged in their work (Gallup). Christians who feel called to their work report higher spiritual well-being (Barna). ✍️ Journal Prompts: What does success mean to me right now? What gifts has God given me that I’m not currently using? Am I clinging to a job or business out of fear or false identity? What would I pursue if I wasn’t afraid? 💡 Action Steps: Pray about your current season and ask God to show you where He’s working. Make a list of your strengths and how you're using them. Consider a mentor or coach to walk with you through transition. 🎁 Want support? Book a free 45-minute Anchored Insights Discussion at https://calendly.com/melissa-anchoredwithpurpose/45min  or email [email protected].

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    39| Why Fun & Recreation Matter for a Faith-Filled Life

    Let’s be real—when life is packed with laundry, meetings, ministry, and motherhood, fun and recreation are usually the first things to go. But what if making time for fun isn’t selfish… what if it’s sacred? In this episode of our Anchored in Every Area series, Melissa dives into why Fun & Recreation is one of the most overlooked life anchors—and why it’s absolutely essential to your joy, health, and spiritual life. From playing family games and throwing water balloons, to understanding what the Bible actually says about rest and delight, Melissa invites you to reclaim fun as holy. You'll hear: Why “recreation” literally means to re-create Four science-backed reasons fun makes you healthier and more grounded Scriptures that reveal God’s design for joy and delight Real-life ideas to intentionally add fun back into your rhythm Why rest and laughter aren’t indulgent—they’re worshipful 👣 Let this episode encourage you to take a walk, play the game, dance in your kitchen, or sit on the porch with a book—because joy is a fruit of the Spirit, not an afterthought. Resources & Links Mentioned: 📝 Grab your free Life Anchor Evaluation:  ​​https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/ec1b0df5ec  🎉 Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe on Facebook: facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose 📩 Email Melissa: [email protected] 📲 DM on Instagram: @melissajwilkinson or @anchoredwithpurpose Key Scriptures Shared: Ecclesiastes 3:13 – “…find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.” Psalm 16:11 – “You will fill me with joy in your presence…” Genesis 2:2-3 – God rested and made that day holy—so should we. Journal Prompts: What fills me up that I’ve been putting off? When was the last time I did something just because I wanted to? What would “holy recreation” look like in this season of life? Listener Invitation: If this episode blessed you, tag Melissa @anchoredwithpurpose and share what fun you’re bringing back into your life this week. Or better yet, send it to a friend who needs a little joy. ❤️

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    Ep. 38: You Were Made for More: Anchoring to Your God-Given Purpose

    Have you ever found yourself asking, “What is my purpose?” or wondering, “Am I doing enough?” You are not alone. In this powerful episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, host Melissa Wilkinson explores how your God-given purpose is not a destination or a title—it’s already rooted in your identity in Christ. With encouragement, Scripture, and personal insight, Melissa unpacks: Why purpose is about obedience and identity, not achievement How to uncover the “seeds of purpose” God has already planted in your life The impact of holy discontent and how it can point you toward your calling The SHAPE framework from The Purpose Driven Life Why your purpose creates eternal impact, even when it's invisible You’ll also be equipped with 6 journal prompts to help you reflect, dig deeper, and prayerfully discern your next faithful step. Key Scriptures: 📖 Proverbs 19:21 📖 Ephesians 2:10 📖 Jeremiah 29:11 📖 Matthew 5:16 📖 1 Corinthians 14:33 Whether you're in a season of uncertainty or stepping into something new, this episode will remind you: you were handcrafted by a God who never wastes a thing. Every gift, story, and burden can be used for His glory.   ✍️ Journal Prompts from This Episode Use these to deepen your reflection this week: What talents, passions, or burdens has God placed in my heart that may reveal my purpose? Where in my current season am I already making an impact, even if it seems small? What do I want the people in my life to remember about how I lived and loved? What bold prayer am I circling, believing that God can use to shape a legacy beyond me? What fear or hesitation do I need to surrender so I can walk in God’s purpose more fully? Who has impacted my life deeply, and how can I carry that legacy forward? 📚 Resources Mentioned: The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson Anchored with Purpose Tribe on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose 

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    37| Creating a Peaceful Home That Doesn’t Stress You Out

    Is your home supporting your peace—or quietly sabotaging it? In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa dives deep into the Home Anchor—one of the most underestimated but powerful life anchors. Through personal stories, research-backed insights, and practical tips, she helps you reconnect with your physical space as a place of peace, purpose, and presence. You’ll learn: Why clutter affects more than your countertops—it impacts your stress and focus. How your home can become a sacred space (even without matching containers). Simple systems for involving your whole family in daily and weekly rhythms. How to turn a single decluttered room into a ripple of motivation. Ways to physically and spiritually invite God into your home. Whether your house feels like a tornado zone or you just need a refresh, this episode will encourage and equip you to create a space where God’s peace can truly reign. Scripture References: Proverbs 24:3–4 – “By wisdom a house is built...” 1 Corinthians 14:33 – “For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.” Key Takeaway: You don’t need a perfect home. You need a purposeful one—one where God is welcome, and peace is possible. Resources & Mentions: Greenlight App – Get $30 Free - Greenlight Debit Card for Kids and Teens Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal - Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal 📝 Journal Prompts  Take some time to reflect on these prompts after listening: What part of my home currently causes me the most stress? What one small space could I start with to create peace and momentum? How am I currently inviting God into my home? What family rhythms or responsibilities could we adjust together? How do I want my home to feel when I walk through the door?

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    36| Anchored in Every Area: 10 Life Anchors That Hold You Steady

    Welcome to a brand new series on the Anchored with Purpose podcast: Anchored in Every Area – 10 Life Anchors That Hold You Steady. In this powerful first episode, Melissa Wilkinson introduces the concept of Life Anchors—the key areas of life that help you stay grounded, focused, and aligned with God's purpose, even when the waves of life come crashing in. Whether you’ve heard her mention them before or you’re hearing this term for the first time, this is the perfect starting point. You’ll discover: What a Life Anchor really is Why these anchors are essential for faith-filled women navigating busy, purpose-driven lives How these 10 anchors are connected to your identity, stability, and calling A preview of the transformative journey ahead in the coming episodes This episode sets the stage for a deeply intentional and grace-filled season. Get ready to reflect, realign, and root yourself in what matters most. 🧭 What You’ll Learn: The meaning behind “Life Anchors” The 10 core areas that shape your life’s direction and spiritual well-being How God uses each anchor to hold you steady in every season   🌊 Perfect For: Women seeking balance and spiritual growth Catholic moms craving clarity and peace Anyone who feels like life is pulling them in too many directions Listeners ready to create a purpose-driven rhythm rooted in faith 🔗 Resources & Links: Free Life Evaluation Tool: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/ec1b0df5ec : Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/g8aVljY  Join the Anchored with Purpose Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/anchoredwithpurpose  Follow Melissa on Instagram: @anchoredwithpurpose 📅 Book your Anchored Insights Discussion session here Or just shoot me an email — I’d truly love to connect! [email protected]

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    35| Habemus Papem! The first American Pope | ft. Peter & Tania Dill

    In this special episode, Melissa chats with Pete & Tania Dill to reflect on a truly historic and Spirit-filled moment in the life of the Church: the election of Pope Leo, the first American Pope. From his humble and hope-filled first words, “Peace be with you,” to the unique blend of Vatican depth and missionary heart that he brings, Pope Leo’s papacy is already stirring hearts around the world. Together, Pete and I explore what his leadership could mean for the global Church—and especially for the American faithful. We talk about: The significance of a Pope from American soil 🌎 Why his message of peace is resonating so deeply, especially with young people How his background in both Vatican diplomacy and mission work makes him a bridge-builder The opportunity for a cultural shift toward missionary discipleship Why Pope Leo’s intentional presence in media could reshape Catholic evangelization What our hopes and prayers are for this next chapter in Church history This episode is filled with faith, curiosity, and expectation. If you're wondering what this means for the Church—and what it could mean for your own call to mission—you’ll love this heartfelt conversation. 🙏 Topics Covered: The emotional impact of seeing an American elected Pope The symbolism and simplicity of his first public message How missionary formation equips leaders to serve a global Church Pete’s dream of a Church where every young person serves in mission The need for authentic storytelling and media engagement Melissa’s prayer for a Church that shares its faith boldly and consistently 🔗 Resources & Links: Follow Pete Dill: https://www.instagram.com/pete.dill/  Backseat Media on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BackSeat-Media What’s the Dill? Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-the-dill/id1532299919  Where Does Jesus Live? Book Link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F88P4WWC?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520

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    34| Mid-Year Reset: Reflect, Recommit & Reignite Your Goals

    Did you know that 92% of people never achieve their New Year’s goals? But here’s the good news: you don’t have to be one of them. In this mid-year check-in episode of Anchored with Purpose, Melissa shares the secret of the 8% who do reach their goals—spoiler alert: it’s not more time or talent, it’s reflection and adjustment. Melissa walks you through the 10 Life Anchors (used in her coaching and journals) to help you rate and reflect on where you're thriving and where you need a reset. She dives into practical tools like the Life Evaluation Wheel and revisits the Word of the Year you prayerfully chose in January. (Don’t remember yours? That’s okay—we’ll help you find a new one for this season.) You’ll also get thought-provoking journal prompts to help you realign your goals with God’s purpose and a reminder that it’s never too late to dream again. Whether you’re crushing it or feeling like you’ve veered off course, this episode will help you reflect, refocus, and take your next faithful step. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why the brain thrives on regular goal reflection How to use the 10 Life Anchors as a mid-year compass Why your Word of the Year still matters How to use the Life Evaluation Tool monthly Journal prompts to reignite purpose and momentum How life coaching through Anchored with Purpose can support your reset Links Mentioned: 📥 Download the FREE Life Evaluation Tool ✨ Get your FREE Word of the Year Guide 🎙️ Listen to the Word of the Year Episode 💬 Contact Melissa About a Dream Workshop 📅 Book your Anchored Insights Discussion session here Or just shoot me an email — I’d truly love to connect! [email protected]   Book Melissa to Speak at Your Event Website Facebook Instagram Instagram Anchored with Purpose Tribe Email

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    33| Rhythm Over Rigidity: Building a Summer That Works for Your Family

    Summer break can be a beautiful time for freedom and fun—but let’s be honest, it can also feel overwhelming, especially for moms juggling work, home, and kids. In this episode, Melissa Wilkinson gets real about the ups and downs of summer rhythms. From enrolling kids in camps and managing screen time, to working from home and navigating mom guilt, Melissa shares practical tips, personal stories, and permission to find your family’s sweet spot between structure and spontaneity. You’ll learn: Why your summer doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing (fully structured or totally free) Creative ideas for camps (even attending multiple VBSs!) How to balance work-from-home life with keeping kids engaged Real-life wins and fails from Melissa’s past summers Simple strategies to reduce screen time and increase family fun Whether you're a stay-at-home mom, work from home mom, work outside of the home mom or just trying to make the most of summer without losing your mind—this episode is for you. 📅 Book your Anchored Insights Discussion session here Or just shoot me an email — I’d truly love to connect! [email protected]   Book Melissa to Speak at Your Event Website Facebook Instagram Instagram Anchored with Purpose Tribe Email

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Anchored with Purpose Podcast focuses on Faith, Family, Purpose, & Dreaming Big. How do I fill the emptiness I feel in my life? What is missing from my life? The stresses of this world are causing me anxiety, how can I cope? I’m a mom, but I feel so drained and have lost a piece of me, how do I find me again? How do I dream again? How do I even achieve those dreams?And the biggest question of all, is it worth pursuing my purpose and dreams? Whether you’re a dreamer, a mom, connected in your faith or feeling a little (or a lot) lost, this is the show for you. The Anchored with Purpose Podcast is a live-workshop style podcast packed with actionable step-by-step tips to help you redefine what you want in your life in the areas of faith, family, purpose, & pursuing your dreams.You can train with the experts on how to dig in, reconnect with your faith & purpose, and tackle your biggest goals along the way.

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Melissa Wilkinson - Life Coach for Catholic Women

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