55: How to engineer conflict resolution, find the third option

I often ask myself when navigating conflict...what would an engineer do! In this episode, Jeremy Doran discusses why engineers are great at conflict resolution without compromising. He emphasizes the importance of stating assumptions and seeking the best solution instead of settling for a compromise. Using the example of planning a vacation, he shows how engineers can find a third option that satisfies both parties. By checking assumptions and looking for the best outcome, conflicts can be resolved in a way that leaves everyone happier. Chapters 00:00 Why Engineers Are Great at Conflict Resolution Without Compromising 01:04 Stating Assumptions and Seeking the Best Solution 05:09 Finding a Third Option Instead of Compromising 06:27 Channeling Your Inner Engineer for Effective Conflict Resolution Takeaways Engineers are skilled at conflict resolution because they state their assumptions and seek the best solution. Compromising often leads to a solution that makes everyone slightly less unhappy, but it is not the best outcome. Instead of compromising, channel your inner engineer and look for a third solution that satisfies both parties. By checking assumptions and seeking the best solution, conflicts can be resolved in a way that leaves everyone happier.