56. Her vs. Me, What Happened to WE?

Nothing can kill a Friendship quite like the Comparison game. If she's pretty, I must be ugly. If she's smart, I must be dumb. If she's good at this, then I must be bad at it. A thousand little thoughts (LIES!) like these and you're doomed, and that just won't do in Friendship HAVAR Land, where we are called to pull the load side-by-side and together!  Aaaand you can't say we don't live out what we preach real good around here. It was Stacey's bright idea to talk about comparison, which landed us right smack dab in the middle of a Friendship fight during our first attempt at recording (for real). We pushed pause, got back our WE, hugged tight, and tried again. So, don't mind our kids Gabriel (4) and Addie (15) riding skateboards upstairs during this recording; we had to do an emergency late night Podcast session to make up for our Blow Up Gone Good. And it DID end up good.