57 - do exes always come back and does it matter? (youtube ep)

let's talk about HEART BREAKKKK and the period between a break up and actually moving on - does your ex come back? does it matter if they do? sharing my own thoughts and feelings along with some comments i received on tiktok videos i've made on this topic.   SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE PLS  https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla i said i wouldn't update podcast audio but ppl have said they still like listening on audio platforms so i'll try my best to update here too xx ask me a question~recieve a written pep talk from me! https://direct.me/l/67j6 follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberak... 13:45 when they come back/ what you realize when they come back  18:21 importance of journalling in healing  20:33 minimum a year for someone to change  21:21 why do you wanna be w someone that needs to lose you  23:00 dating for association 26:45 they come back  27:00 you want to meet as new people  28:53 rebuilding your sense of self  30:25 when they're dating someone new and still slide in the dms lol  38:21 being on the same team  41:38 comments from tiktok  44:45 being intentionally single  1:00:00 take how people treat others into consideration   love and heartbreak embracing good and bad running from your emotions love and heartbreak are inextricably linked how do you really know someone grieving potential processing your grief building  a new sense of self when they come back while dating someone new being vulnerable and learning to trust yourself  lingering pain after breakups bad apologies being intentionally single and alone why do people change