57 | Why Moms Feel Guilty Choosing Themselves

I’m recording this episode right before leaving for a solo vacation without my husband and without my kids—and honestly, I know that alone can make some parents uncomfortable. In this episode, I’m talking about the guilt so many moms and dads carry when it comes to choosing themselves, resting, taking space, or simply wanting time away from the constant responsibility of caring for everyone else.We talk about: Why parents struggle to prioritize themselves  The emotional weight of constantly being “needed”  Mom guilt and the pressure to always put yourself last  Solo vacations, independence, and trust in marriage  Burnout, emotional exhaustion, and losing yourself in parenthood  Why taking care of yourself is not selfish I also share how my husband and I approach solo travel in our marriage, how our perspectives around money and experiences have evolved over time, and why I believe healthy relationships require space for individuality too.Because somewhere along the way, many parents started believing that constantly sacrificing themselves was proof of love.But burnout isn’t love.Exhaustion isn’t proof you care more.And you are still allowed to matter too.📬 PO Box: 457 Green, Ohio 44232