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EPISODE · Oct 16, 2025 · 10 MIN

#68 How Do I... Support Someone Through Illness or Loss?

from Be the Sun, Not the Salt · host Connie Fontaine and Dr. Harry Cohen, PhD

When someone you care about is facing illness or loss, it’s easy to feel unsure about what to say or do. In this “How Do I…” episode of Be the Sun, Not the Salt, Dr. Harry Cohen and Connie Fontaine open up about the small, thoughtful ways we can support people during life’s hardest chapters—without overthinking or making it about us.Here’s what you’ll hear:Why “just being there” often means more than grand gestures (and what that looks like in real life)The gift of listening without advice or platitudes, and how it helps build trustHow to check in gently and let someone know you’re thinking of them, even when words feel inadequateA few big “don’ts” we often put on the people we want to help without realizing itHow embracing small, specific acts of kindness are often better than grand gesturesWhy appreciating the chance to show up as a caregiver or friend is a powerful reframing for both peopleReal reminders that a little humility can go a long wayIf you’re looking for practical, heart-centered ways to support loved ones through the messiness of illness or grief, this episode shares the guidance, encouragement, and honest perspective you need.Tune in for gentle wisdom and stories to keep you grounded, and connected, when it matters most.To explore the book, or for more episodes, information, tips and tools to live a more heliotropic life, visit us at bethesunnotthesalt.com and find us on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and TikTok.

When someone you care about is facing illness or loss, it’s easy to feel unsure about what to say or do. In this “How Do I…” episode of Be the Sun, Not the Salt, Dr. Harry Cohen and Connie Fontaine open up about the small, thoughtful ways we can support people during life’s hardest chapters—without overthinking or making it about us. Here’s what you’ll hear: Why “just being there” often means more than grand gestures (and what that looks like in real life)The gift of listening without advice ...

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