7 Rounds Of IVF, One Facebook Post & Our Discussion Group's First Baby. Uncut with Deb

Today’s episode is such a special one. You would often hear us banging on about how good the community of our life uncut discussion group is, but the story that you’re about to hear might not only make your week but also be the best example of that community we could ever imagine.  Deb has been a part of our discussion group since 2022. Back in December 2023, one of our lifers, Deb, posted in the discussion group: she was 35, single, and had just found out her egg count was below the low range. After seven rounds of IVF and still empty handed, she was asking if anyone would consider donating eggs or embryos to help her become a mum. The post got 375 likes and an outpouring of women offering to help. Today we're sitting down with Deb and her eight-month-old daughter Poppy, who exists because of an embryo donation from another lifer. We talk about the shock of her AMH results, the toll of seven rounds of IVF, finding the "Single Mums By Choice" community, why she chose the Life Uncut discussion group over dedicated donor sites, what it was like juggling multiple potential donors, meeting Poppy's donor family for the first time, and how she plans to talk to Poppy about where she came from. It's a full-circle story about generosity, community and one incredible, hard-won miracle. TIMESTAMPS  0:00 Intro & Deb's Christmas miracle Facebook post 2:15 The AMH shock at age 35 4:06 Finding a sperm donor ("sperm tinder") 4:27 7 rounds of IVF 8:47 Letting go of having a genetic baby 9:34 Finding the "Single Mums By Choice" community 13:50 Posting in the Life Uncut discussion group 21:32 Why the first donor didn't work out 22:21 The embryo transfer that finally worked 24:16 Meeting Poppy's donor family 28:15 How she'll tell Poppy her story one day 30:22 The wild coincidence behind Poppy's name 31:49 What motherhood alone has really been like 34:55 Deb's advice for anyone in the trenches of IVF Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Keeshia Pettit Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.