70: Good Grief: Honoring Relationships Ending

Our relationships show us places in ourselves that our soul desires us to love or claim. The endings of a relationship, which may have brought both beauty and pain, can bring us that opportunity. Whether it is an ending or shift present or past, in an intimate relationship, family, collegial or friendship, we have another opportunity to return to loving ourselves.In this podcast, I share my personal story of my recent relationship ending, how I am honoring it and the pockets of pain and beliefs that I had the opportunity to look at. I talk about how we can see our relationships as places for powerful healing and wisdom, four places we get stuck in grieving or moving forward into new relationships, getting unstuck from beliefs that keep us in lack, and how the mind and soul can be on different agendas.Then join me in the healing experientials that support integrating and claiming the beauty and love from the relationship, healing any pain or wounds, self-forgiveness in your part of the relationship and excavating the beliefs that emerged, making space for the new, playfulness and life. Links, Article, and ResourcesAll Show Notes for This Episode📝https://candicewu.com/ep70 Podcast Homepage🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcastNewsletter & Embody Community💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-communityPatreon – Your Support Means So Much!💝 https://candicewu.com/patreonCandice Wu Page on Facebook👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNatureFollow Candice on Instagram📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature Sponsored by YOU, my ListenersThank YOU, listeners, for your support!If the Embody Podcast has inspired you, helped, or spoken to you, it would mean the world to me if you would show your support through a contribution on Patreon.Each episode is a lovingly made from my soul and takes anywhere from weeks to a few days to develop and produce. I gladly pay an editor who supports me in polishing and creating high-quality episodes.As little as $1 a month would nourish the podcast to continue to have life and cover the costs. Plus you’ll receive some sweet personalized healing gifts from me that can deepen your embodiment on your own journey. I am excited to share these with you.I am so appreciative that you are considering supporting me in this way.Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤ Show Notes00:00 Intro00:54 Sponsored by People Like You02:14 Opening — Ending Relationships Is Present All Around Me03:36 People Say: Grief Takes Its Own Process and It Never Ends04:47 Overview for This Episode05:27 Charmayne “Where There Isn’t Loving, There Is Something Else to Be Learned”05:55 Our Soul Is on a Journey to Be Loved Inside and Outside09:33 My Previous Partner — Christoph11:20 the Honoring of Our Relationship17:58 the Ending of the Relationship and My Grieving in the Process20:09 What I Found Out While I Was Grieving21:57 Wondering “Does He Really Love Me?” + Healing24:16 Our Relationships Are Deeply Sensitive and Vulnerable24:50 Spiritual Service Satsang / Relationship Comes With Two Partners Who Are Connected in Each Lesson26:07 How to Grieve and Glean the Wisdom From the Relationship26:25 That This Relationship Has Something to Show to You27:18 Getting Unstuck: #1 - Beliefs Like "This Is How It Is for Me” or “I Always Get Left,” Etc.31:04 Getting Unstuck: #2 “No Other Person Will Be as Good for Me as This Last Partner”34:01 Experientials: Integrate, Embody, and Making Space for All Possibility35:03 The Push to Move Forward as Soon as Possible // Claiming the Beauty of the Relationship37:30 Getting Unstuck: #3 the Soul and Mind Having Two Separate Agendas44:53 Heartache and Pain: An Opportunity for Healing45:55 Getting Unstuck: #4 the Mind and Ego Agenda Can Try to Make Things Permanent46:43 Choosing the Surrender to the Souls Journey to Love47:34 Finding the Life That Is Here49:56 Embody Podcast Episode: The Past Is Over50:15 Experientials Connected to This Episode51:22 Give Yourself Tenderness and Time52:45 Outro & Sharing Love53:51 Embody Newsletter