72. Friendship Friction: Coming Back to the Table after Misunderstanding

Do you ever have these ridiculous moments in your friendships that you think will stay a joke between the two of you forever and ever and then suddenly you find yourself telling it on a very public platform... like, say, a podcast?  Ex. Normal-not-so-normal conversation one day: Tab: I do care for you, Stacey.  Stacey: (completely, embarrassingly serious) But you never sit on my lap.  We still don't know why, how, where this came from, but we laughed for ten hours and refer back to it at least once a week when we need a little absurd friendship pick-me-up.  So, let's just say that after a couple of recent conversations where we both felt unheard, we successfully came back to the table to talk it over, and the result was Stacey got her wish.  Join us in the lap of friendship this week that shares how we we worked our way through friction by discussing the dividing line of reasonableness and 4 characteristics of true community that build trust.