EPISODE · Nov 12, 2025 · 36 MIN
#72: "Why do I always repeat the same patterns with different people?"
from Embracing HER · host Nathalie Nimah
In this episode, I explore why so many of us find ourselves stuck in familiar dynamics, even when we know they’re not good for us.We’ll dive into the psychology of repetition compulsion - the unconscious drive to recreate early emotional experiences in hopes of finally mastering or healing them. I’ll talk about how childhood conditioning shapes what feels safe, familiar, or “like love,” even when it’s actually painful.And most importantly, we’ll unpack how self-awareness and nervous system work can help you interrupt those old patterns, start making conscious choices, and experience love in a new way — one that doesn’t repeat the past.🌼Get all the tools you need to heal your anxious attachment with FROM ANXIOUS TO SECURE. Use the code PODCAST25 at checkout until the 4th of December for 10% off!✨ Want personalised support? Apply for private coaching HERE.DM me on INSTAGRAMCheck out other FREE resources HERE
What this episode covers
In this episode, I explore why so many of us find ourselves stuck in familiar dynamics, even when we know they’re not good for us.We’ll dive into the psychology of repetition compulsion - the unconscious drive to recreate early emotional experiences in hopes of finally mastering or healing them. I’ll talk about how childhood conditioning shapes what feels safe, familiar, or “like love,” even when it’s actually painful.And most importantly, we’ll unpack how self-awareness and nervous system work can help you interrupt those old patterns, start making conscious choices, and experience love in a new way — one that doesn’t repeat the past.🌼Get all the tools you need to heal your anxious attachment with FROM ANXIOUS TO SECURE. Use the code PODCAST25 at checkout until the 4th of December for 10% off!✨ Want personalised support? Apply for private coaching HERE.DM me on INSTAGRAMCheck out other FREE resources HERE
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#72: "Why do I always repeat the same patterns with different people?"
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