74. Keeping Children Safe from Tricky People & Unsafe Situations with Kristi McVee

⚠️ Content Warning: This post discusses child sexual abuse, grooming, and child safety. If this is a difficult topic for you, please take care while listening. But if you're a parent, I encourage you to stick with it - because avoiding it won't make it go away.Most parents assume they’ll know if their child is unsafe. But here’s the reality: neurodivergent kids are more vulnerable - not because they’re unaware, but because they see the world differently.They assume people mean what they say.They trust familiar adults - even when they shouldn’t.They think being ‘polite’ means saying yes.They struggle to spot manipulation, pressure, or coercion.They keep quiet when they feel uncomfortable - because they’re not sure if it ‘counts.’If you’ve never thought about it this way, this episode is a must-listen.What You’ll Get From This Episode:How to teach body safety without making it scaryThe ‘What If?’ method – Simple ways to help kids recognise & react to unsafe situationsThe biggest safety mistake parents don’t realise they’re makingHow to help your child set boundaries & say no - even when it’s hardRed flags your child might be missing (and how to help them notice)The right way to talk about online safety - without isolating them from social life🔗 Missed Part 1? Understanding the Risks – Neurodivergent Children, Social Safety & Grooming dives into why neurodivergent kids are more vulnerable & what parents often overlook. Listen to that first, or jump straight into this episode for practical, real-world strategies.👉 Because keeping kids safe isn’t just about protecting them - it’s about making sure they can protect themselves.RESOURCES MENTIONED: Kristi's websiteKristi's Instagram Kristi's Conversations with KidsKristi's book - Operation KidSafeMy Tricky Eye SpySTART HERE: https://adhdmums.com.au/start-here/ Sometimes, the hardest part is knowing where to start – especially when your brain already feels like it’s juggling a hundred tabs at once. That’s why this space was built to make things easier, not harder. No fluff, no wasted time – just resources designed to meet you exactly where you are.JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at [email protected]. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODEneurodivergent child safety, ADHD child safety, PDA child boundaries, body safety for kids, teaching consent to kids, tricky people awareness, social safety for neurodivergent kids, helping kids say no, red flags for kids, grooming prevention for parents, online safety for ADHD kids, digital safety for tweens, social boundaries for neurodivergent kids, child advocacy skills, how to teach kids about consent, helping neurodivergent kids recognise manipulation, self-advocacy for kids, stranger danger alternatives, protecting kids from unsafe situations, parenting neurodivergent tweens, safety conversations for kids, child safety skills, teaching kids about red flags, neurodivergent kids and social cues, ADHD kids and boundaries, empowering kids to speak up, personal safety for neurodivergent children, recognizing unsafe adults, parenting PDA kids, practical safety strategies for kids, helping kids trust their instinctsMentioned in this episode:ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook Grab your copy now at www.adhdmums.com.au ADHD PlannerSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.