76. Celebrating Without Pretending - Owning What You Really Want!

In this episode, Mel and I delve into the complexities of special occasions like Mother's Day and birthdays. These events often come with heightened expectations, and when reality doesn't align, it can lead to disappointment.We share personal stories highlighting how we sometimes downplay our desires -  saying things like, "Oh, don't worry about my birthday," or "I don't need anything special." However, we've come to realize the importance of owning our desires and communicating them clearly. If celebrating your birthday with family and friends brings you joy, it's okay to express that. If you have specific hopes for Mother's Day, articulating them can help your loved ones understand and meet your expectations.Communication is key. By expressing what we truly want, we give our partners and children the opportunity to show up for us in meaningful ways. It's not about grand gestures but about feeling seen and appreciated.Join us as we explore the significance of being honest about our needs and the positive impact it can have on our relationships and personal fulfillment.See you soon,Nat and Mel xxSPLASH OF LIFE with MelJoin Mel in her HOLISTIC approach to personal brand visibility. Through 'Splash of Life' she artfully captures and compassionately guides heart led small businesses so they can share their gifts & allow themselves to feel SAFE being SEEN and HEARD. Offering Canva & Design courses, design work, branding photography & creative visibility mentoring. She invites you to reach out for a conversation if this speaks to you. All her offerings can be found on this link​www.splashoflife.com.au/linksSHE BREATHES with NatAnd if you are having trouble saying YES to celebrating yourself, then come and spend some time in the Breathing Room 'in person' or online with me, I'll show you how its done. xxYou can find out more about me here:https://www.instagram.com/shebreathesnow/In person session here:https://shebreathes.as.me/BreathingRoomShe Breathes exists to help mothers come home to themselves, one breath, one moment, one choice at a time, so that she can know herself, trust herself, and lead herself.