83. Arguing With Reality

Byron Katie said it best, "When you argue with reality you lose but only 100% of the time." It's true! When you argue with what's actually happening, because you think something else should be happening, it doesn't change anything. All it does is make you feel like crap. You create more suffering for yourself. Just because you think something 'shouldn't' be happening doesn't change the fact it IS happening. Or vice versa, just because you think something 'should' be happening doesn't change the fact that it isn't happening. This week I share my own struggle with reality. I get personal and open up about some of the ways I've been arguing with reality and what it's caused me. I know a lot of you are going through some stuff right now and I hope that by sharing what's happening in my world, you're able to learn from my experience and find a little more peace in your own world. Want to quiet the noise in your head? Click <<HERE>> to Grab my free guide: 4 Ways to Feel Better FASTER. Small, simple, strategies you can start today to feel better tomorrow! How to Connect With Pamela: Website Facebook Instagram TikTok About the host: Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves. This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself. I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.