# 84 - People-Pleasing vs. Kindness

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.In this episode, I will be talking about people-pleasing vs. kindness, how to identify if you are a people-pleaser, and what you can do to change this behavior. Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag. Social Media LinksThe Lemon Tree Coaching PodcastInstagram TwitterTeacher Resources (really, for anyone)The Lemon Tree by AKSOther Important Resources:The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel Set Boundaries, Find Peace, A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover TawwabRomancing the Shadow by Connie Zweig & Steve WolfThe Enneagram InstituteNational Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225loveisrespect.orgA Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.Al-AnonSAMHSA’s National HelplineLaura's House988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineThe National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)  or TEXT the word “start to 88788National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000