86: Words you need to delete from your vocab today & the joyful Jizo

In this episode we delve into the profound impact of language on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Before digging into this Steph reflects on personal experiences of loss, particularly during Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, and discuss the significance of connection and remembrance through cultural symbols like the Jizo statues in Japan. The conversation transitions into an exploration of specific words that shape communication, such as 'sorry', 'should', 'but', and 'just', emphasising the importance of reframing language to foster positive interactions and self-empowerment. And don't even get us started on the exclamation point!!!!!Language shapes our thoughts and behaviors significantly.Mindfulness in language can enhance communication.Empowerment comes from choosing our words carefully.Using 'and' instead of 'but' fosters connectionWords like 'sorry' can minimise our selfReframing 'sorry' to 'thank you' shifts focus to others'Should' implies obligation and can create guilt'Just' can dilute the importance of our statements.Awareness of language can lead to more positive interactions.____Connect with us @the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui 2026 The Woman Within retreat6 days, 5 nights from 15 - 20 July 2026This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.All details here.Mailing listSign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show.  If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️- share with a  friend- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform Thank you again and see you next week  xx Chloe & Steph