#88 Suddenly Heartbroken by Your Husband’s Confession or Sin Struggle? 3 Steps to Process Your Pain and Respond Instead of React
Episode 88 of the The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness podcast, hosted by Lydia Santos - Christian Wife Coach, Marriage Ministry Leader, Boymom, titled "#88 Suddenly Heartbroken by Your Husband’s Confession or Sin Struggle? 3 Steps to Process Your Pain and Respond Instead of React" was published on October 8, 2022 and runs 24 minutes.
October 8, 2022 ·24m · The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness
Summary
It’s like an elephant suddenly sat on your chest. Instant physical and emotional reactions begin brewing and brimming as your mind starts spinning with the news your husband is confessing, the sin you’ve just found out about: his infidelity, porn addiction, gambling habit, lustful thoughts, dishonesty, etc. Fight or flight mode begins instinctively to kick in, and you either want to punch and scream or grab your keys and drive far far away. How do we process such hurtful information, such destructive choices from our most loved person? Does our reaction have to be impulsive and explosive? Or is there another way? There is, friend, and we’re going to talk about 3 steps to take so you can respond instead of reacting to this pain. Loads of Love, Lydia --> FOLLOW so you don't miss a show! --> Leave a 5-star rating & written review --> Join the Christian Wife and Marriage Facebook community
Episode Description
It’s like an elephant suddenly sat on your chest.
Instant physical and emotional reactions begin brewing and brimming as your mind starts spinning with the news your husband is confessing, the sin you’ve just found out about: his infidelity, porn addiction, gambling habit, lustful thoughts, dishonesty, etc.
Fight or flight mode begins instinctively to kick in, and you either want to punch and scream or grab your keys and drive far far away.
How do we process such hurtful information, such destructive choices from our most loved person? Does our reaction have to be impulsive and explosive? Or is there another way?
There is, friend, and we’re going to talk about 3 steps to take so you can respond instead of reacting to this pain.
Loads of Love,
Lydia
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