90. People Pleasing Causes More Conflict than it Resolves

I didn’t stutter! On this episode we are graced with Nyak’s presence to discuss all things people pleasing. Is it a tool that helps avoid conflict, or does it actively contribute to it? We read out your juicy people pleaser DMs (thanks for sending them) and discuss polyamory and a dust up with a psychic (oops! everyone pray for us😬). Additionally: Communicating capacity and boundaries in friendshipsCommunication styles over textOverextending oneself and its consequencesHow to communicate the inability to hold spaceAppropriate vs. Inappropriate white liesReferencesInstagram video on communication types: https://t.ly/VukEuJoin the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I didn’t stutter! On this episode we are graced with Nyak’s presence to discuss all things people pleasing. Is it a tool that helps avoid conflict, or does it actively contribute to it? We read out your juicy people pleaser DMs (thanks for sending them) and discuss polyamory and a dust up with a psychic (oops! everyone pray for us😬). Additionally: Communicating capacity and boundaries in friendshipsCommunication styles over textOverextending oneself and its consequencesHow to communicate the inability to hold spaceAppropriate vs. Inappropriate white liesReferencesInstagram video on communication types: https://t.ly/VukEuJoin the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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