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I Said What I Said
by Mukundwa
I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me! Sign up to Patreon for full episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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177. All relationships are business deals, ESPECIALLY with dudes: ROI, self-esteem and having your own back
Today we're discussing how loving men romantically is predicated on making GOOD BUSINESS DEALS What's the ROI on this relationship? Are you getting more than you give? To me the dissatisfaction and "ruin" of women in relationships with men is less a man/woman problem and more a self-esteem issue....
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171. ‘The Invite’ movie review: romantic relationships aren’t self-esteem vending machines!
I loved ‘The Invite’ and it had me thinking deeply about relationships, so let’s get into it. This is 20% movie review (spoilers included) and 80% musings on modern dating, relationships and gender psychology. I discuss: Dead bedrooms, desire and the suppression of sexual appetite Using romance…
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170. WayFinder Session 2: your mind needs a master
Hi sweet treats! Here’s another recorded WayFinding session. Big big thank you to the lovely listener who let me share their session. We discuss: What happens when your mind does not have a master The importance of a Life Mission Statement When you have a solid identity, self-trust follows...
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169. Suicide, Depression + how To make life Worth Living
Firstly, if you’re actively suicidal please call your country’s suicide hotline, they’re angels <3 The intention of this episode is to speak to folks who feel their life is not worth living anymore. I want to let you know that you aren’t alone and there is quite a bit to live for and these things...
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165. WayFinder Session 1: the inner critic
Massive thank you to the lovely listener who let me share their session. We discuss: Belonging and the myth of fitting in Reality selection is an inside job Identifying and shifting your inner critic Book WayFinding Sessions here: mukundwa.com All social links: https://linktr.ee/mukundwa_ The...
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164. Your Dream Life is CLOSER than you think, mama!!!
If you know what you need to do but cant bring yourself to do it, this isn’t “bad” sign. You’re just trying to leapfrog too many Identities at once. Let’s chat about it Coherence Energetic over-ambition leads to hectic rebounding You have to take your nervous system with you There is no rush…
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163. Life is a privilege and an honour!!! 5 things I’m taking into my new year
Happy Birthday to me and Hozier ❤️♓ I discuss 5 things I'm taking into my new year: the nature of you and god, video game theory, the importance of contrast, masculine and feminine energy, and loving men Book a WayFinding Session: mukundwa.com https://linktr.ee/mukundwa_ Please leave a review on...
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162. Wanna get coached by me? ⭐ Take a listen
More info + booking here: https://www.mukundwa.com SEE YOU ON THE CALL ⭐ ______________________________________________________________________________________________ Join Patreon starting at $1. I’ve capped my earnings: everything above this threshold is donated to Gazans. Here’s where I will…
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158. Love is Blind S9: Ep12+Reunion - wealth gaps, naivety and outsourcing our intuition
Loved this season! But I am always glad when it’s all over 😂 On this episode I discuss: Jordan and Megan: is a wealth gap really that insurmountable? Kalybriah and Edmond: infantilizing men and accountability Madison and Joe: outsourcing intuition, attachment issues and attracting people at your...
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157. Should you take Responsibility for your own Suffering? Manifestation, Fate, Fortune and Suffering
So you want to take responsibility for your reality! Great. How do you do this with care, though? In a way that acknowledges your capacity, takes charge of what you can control while accepting what you cannot… Let’s discussssss: Understanding Manifestation and Reality Creation The Role of Belief...
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156. Love is Blind S9: Ep6-11: substance abuse, sexual coercion and breaking relational patterns (everyone’s getting slapped!!!)
I’m tired!!!! I’m ordering a public flogging of all the men in the town square. Examining Love, Self-Reflection, and Attachment Styles in 'Love Is Blind' Season 9 Alcohol dependence and sexual coercion Intuition and Attachent styles Childhood trauma and breaking relational patterns Filling voids...
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155. Love is Blind S9: Ep1-5: racism, biohacking and arrested development
This season has me HOWLING! My review covers Ep1-5 and 10mins of Ep6 - basically only the pods stuff, nothing beyond. I use the couples as a mirror to discuss larger societal themes around: internalized racism racial preferences shame and romantic desperation trusting ones intuition...
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153. 'Materialists' movie review: love as the last uncolonized frontier
Watched it twice! LOVED all the themes, and I LOVE discussing love, so of course I had a blast recording this episode. I discussed: love as industry capitalism and love hypergamy and lover girls the utility of love manifestation, objectification and dating objectifying love via dating apps...
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150. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep10 & 11: self sabotage and the promise of happily ever after
That’s a wrap! I loved this season. This is a review of Episodes 10 & 11 (reunion). Themes discussed Reality TV and mental health Sarova and Kal: dating down intellectually, ignoring signs, reading auras Bardha and Jed: shocked they aren’t together! owning your triggers and doing shadow work…
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149. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep5-9: bro code, provider men and low self-esteem women
This is a review of Episodes 5-9 up until and not including the weddings. There are no spoilers about the weddings and beyond. Themes discussed the bro code and men’s allegiance to other men (Kieran and Javen) emotional availability (Javen) (not) being an intellectual match (Kal and Sarover) when...
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148. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep1-4: spiritual bypassing, gender roles, attachment styles.
Javen and Patrick, prepare for your SLAPS 👏🏾!!! This is a review of Episodes 1-4 covering the pod only, nothing beyond that. I unpack behaviours, discuss motivations and attachment styles, and consider gender roles and race: Couples analysis - who’s (not) a good fit and why Javen and gender…
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144. Laverne Cox: MAGA, intersectionality and living out our politics (including COMPASSION)
I love the conversation Laverne’s admission has given rise too. A lot of it is shallow and obvious in its call to action (cancel Laverne) so I’d like to provide a deeper perspective rooted in compassion and consideration. I discuss: Dating Across Political Lines The Intersection of Politics and...
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141. Race and identity politics are a scam and I am DONE!!!
The thoughts I unpack: Race obsession is wasting my time White supremacy is a game you only win if you refuse to play the power of focus and attention in how my reality shapes itself around me REFERENCES Black Skin, White Masks - by Frantz Fanon African Americans, Epigenetics -...
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140. Listener Question: How to strengthen your intuition
On this episode I answer a listener question on how to build intuition. I discuss: the connection between intuition, self-trust, and self-esteem. building self-trust through small consistent actions, respecting one's bodily needs and signals. logic and intuition collaborating embodiment’s role in...
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138. The limits of the Law of Attraction/Abraham Hicks
Abraham Hicks’ Law of Attraction methodology is great. But what about its limitations? This episode explores this question through a Reddit post and listener feedback. I discuss: the importance of cultural contexts in spiritual teachings race and visibility in the spiritual industry healing vs…
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137. "Sinners" movie is a spiritual call to action. Will you answer?
WHAT A MOVIE. Indigenous spirituality! Culture Vultures! Connection with the land! Sinners is SHOUTING at you to get connected. Nyakwezi joins me to discuss how the movie addresses: Spirituality and Race Vampirism as an allegory for White Supremacy and Colonialism The beauty of black skin on…
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136. Processing emotions like a big gworl: envy, embodiment, self trust
Hi!!! Been practicing processing my emotions and wanted to discuss that process: self concept and self esteem is directly related to your in/ability to process emotions emotions aren’t identities the power of envy how language obscures understanding - autistic vs allistic speech: direct and…
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Girls and Gays for a Free Palestine 🍉 : donating Patreon proceeds
Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview...
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133. Lying is a form of masking and is ruining your self esteem
So it turns out lies - even the little white ones - have immense consequences on our abilities to build a self esteem! I discuss how lying: challenges our sense of personal authority decentres ourselves is a form of manipulation that robs others of choice causes moral injury builds an immoral and...
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132. what shame and envy tell us about ourselves
This episode is a buffet of topics! I want to explore shame, jealousy and envy. I think all 3 have their place and can be incredible for self discovery. We can lean into them to much though, and also weaponize them (with good intentions but to bad ends). I discuss: envy and jealousy have bad PR...
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129. Think Less, Feel More: presence and submitting to the undulations of life
Today I discuss transitioning from overthinking to embodying and integrating what we already know: Trusting life’s journey and using feelings as a guiding system Letting go of a tightly controlled life, experience presence, and embrace the spontaneity and serendipity of life. Balancing action…
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128. Never been in a serious romantic relationship? Listen to this
The discourse around people who’ve never had serious relationships is…interesting🤔. Let’s unpack: feeling embarrassed about being single/ never having had a serious relationship heteronormative fairytales personal growth outside of romantic relationships the abundance of love everywhere…
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127. Happy birthday to me! Reflections on emotionality and life being an algorithm
I’m so grateful for life! Today as I celebrate the gift of life as a human bean, I reflect on: feeling comfortable being observed in an emotional, sensitive, sincere, vulnerable state submitting to my emotional range life is an algorithm REFERENCES: Bashar -...
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126. Making friends, challenging biases, keeping humble
The transits in my 5th house (play, pleasure, vitality) have been BLESSING ME. I’ve been going out and making friends and spending time with strangers, and I’m loving it. I’m learning a lot about how to be present and world-build/community-build both physically and energetically/ I discuss:...
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125. astrological transits, fate vs. free will, surviving Trumpiana
Today’s plate is a buffet of various topics explored through examining my astrological transits for February: spiritual layering integrating astrological transits into daily life using astrology as a tool for navigating life's ups and downs the importance of having a spiritual practice…
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124. ’Babygirl’ gets real about desire, power and gender dynamics
Miss Nicole NEVER misses. Go give her your duckets NOW. I discuss: Heteronormative settling sex vs. love: can the love of your life also be the best sex of your life? (no) honest representations of women in film freedom through kinks chasing acceptance leads to a lack of fulfilment REFERENCES…
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121. The Ultimatum Season 3 Ep7-10: Abstinence, betrayal and redemption arcs
Phew! I discuss Ep7-10 couple by couple and unpack the prevalent themes: emotional detachment people pleasing how trauma impacts romantic relationships Sex before marriage, feeling betrayed by the Church Lying to create power imbalances and to manipulate References: All about Love - bell hooks...
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120. Trump, Apartheid Clyde and personal power
Truly can’t believe people voted 🤡 in again! So what now…Keep your chins up though. It’s the year of PERSONAL POWER. References: Dimensions explained - https://youtu.be/nnaTaIiji7w?si=BdcmNyGV3KPaxTXY Hitler and Trump - https://youtu.be/nfWwyZLTOaI?si=ppEaDYmhTuw8Xx2b Woman who taught self…
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119. 2025 ins and outs: no more windmilling in comment sections!!!
This year I’m prioritizing presence, peace of mind and self belief, so LOTS gotta go. Enjoy, sweet stoats, and thank you for making my 2024 so fabulous and magical!! Join Patreon starting at $1 Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon:...
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118. The Ultimatum Season 3: Ep4-6 - lies, sex and anger issues
Ultimatum Season 3 has me HOOKED. A case study on patriarchy, desperation, lust, lies and misplaced hope. The full hour is on Patreon. I discuss: settling for scraps rather than being single the dangers of lacking emotional intelligence bypassing sadness for rage unhealed childhood trauma what...
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117. Becoming a spiritual scientist(4): presenting 2024's findings
This year I engaged in spiritual experiments and documented them on the “becoming “a spiritual scientist” series exclusive to Patreon, episodes 100,101,103. I was exhausted by feeling so disempowered and waterboarded by life so decided to look beyond the veil myself. What’s the nature of…
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116. 2024 lessons in relationships: people pleasing, boundaries, reciprocation ft. Nyak
A follow up from Ep90 recorded in May, we reflect on what 2024 has taught us about : people pleasing boundaries reciprocation conflict friendship breakups projecting References: “Ep90 People Pleasing Causes More Conflict Than It Resolves” -...
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115. Pop culture round-up: "Violence isn’t the answer" - since when?! Luigi Mangione, UHC, social murder
Join Patreon for $1 for more Pop Culture Round-up episodes, posted weekly-ish. PCR is available on all paid tiers. On this episode I discuss: social murder anti-revolutionaries anti-intellectualism liberals References Hysteria Podcast: https://youtu.be/2wXI8cNBHSw?si=3fW3fZf77JphAwpi Hosted on...
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114. Meeting your Higher Self: Breathwork, Channeling and Dream Interpretation
WHAT A YEAR! This episode I discuss the spiritual routines I incorporated into my life that have had a profound impact on my connection to my higher self. I discuss Breathwork, yoga nidra, channeling, sound baths, dream interpretation and morning pages. Themes discussed liminal space the power of...
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112. The Ultimatum Season 3: Ep1-3 - hate, hall passes and fetishization
Okay Ultimatum Season 3 is EATING CHILE!!! The full 90mins is on Patreon. We discuss: fetishization colourism and internalized racism gender bias control in relationships the dynamics of age gap relationships manipulation emotional repression Buy this full episode for a once-off fee, or join...
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111. People Pleasers to the front! A 101 on Boundaries
Fellow People Pleasers we are NOT leaving 2024 without learning how to boundary set. People pleasing and boundaries have been directly linked with my own self worth, self concept, sense of self, respecting my self, and STRENGTHENING my intuition, intuitive abilities and my connection to my Higher...
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110: Boundaries! Cultivating a relationship with self, and culling toxicity
In upcoming episodes I'm going to be building on ideas of embodiment, losing people but/because of gaining self-love, and spiritual awakening. Today's episode lays the groundwork for these themes. I discuss some of my developments in: Boundaries with self Processing resentment through body work…
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No Episode Today (postponed to next week)
Episode is postponed! We'll discuss Ep12 + the reunion in one episode next week or the week after. In the meantime catch up with the Love Is Blind tea - specifically, TYLER and his 673 kids - via these links (available to all free+paid patreon members):...
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109. Love is Blind DC Ep10-11: Tantrums, Lies and Demands for Sex
Things have gone from bad to WORSE. We discuss Ep10 and 11, with no spoilers beyond Ep11 (but we do discuss a reddit theory about Tyler and his sperm donor situation). Trouble in paradise for Taylor and Garett, Tantrums and misunderstands between Tim and Alex, bullying in the air with Hannah and...
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108. Love is Blind DC Ep6-9: Hidden children, Cheating & Condom-gate
Have these men lost their rabbit ass minds?!!! We discuss ep 5 from when they leave for vacation, all the way through to half way through Ep9, with no spoilers beyond Ep9. Raw sex, military drama, the ick, no retirement plans - we unpack this and more on this episode. The full 2hr episode on...
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107. Love is Blind DC Ep1-5: Trauma dumping, manipulation and the one drop rule
This season is COOKED! Hard to get through but fun to discuss. The full 2hr episode on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. We discuss Ep1 all the way through to half way through Ep5. We end after the couples meet and before they go on holiday. There are…
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Back for October!
Hey girls n gays! We’re BACK for October 2024 to cover the new season of Love is Blind, airing October 2nd. Watch along with us and join the chitchat about it on patreon! Tokyo Toni - https://www.tiktok.com/@femalerapquotes/video/7285839826983652641?lang=en Thank you Patrons for your presence!…
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Hiatus: See you in 2025!
Current Patreon Members: you will NOT be charged during the hiatus. People wanting to subscribe: Patreon will be open to new subscriptions on Sunday 8th September from 9am GMT+2 to 9pm GMT+2. New subscribers, you will be charged only once for access to the full catalogue. If you miss this window...
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106. Love is Blind UK Ep10-11 + reunion: ambition, cultural clashes and white woman tears
You can buy the full episode for $3 once-off on Patreon I discuss: Catherine and white woman tears Sociocultural ignorance Tom and Maria: intellectualising vs. feeling your feelings Demi's Growth! She picked herself Steven and Sabrina’s 180: from smitten to cold and combative Bobby: my theory on...
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105. Love is Blind UK Ep7-9: bullies, immigrant mums and astrology
You can buy the full episode for $3 once-off on Patreon Let’s get into it! Ep7-9 with no spoilers beyond 9. I discuss: Madman Sam’s last ditch attempts to manipulate Nicole's Diplomatic Approach vs. Benaiah’s directness Ollie's ADHD as the missing context How Tom and Maria could both compromise...
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I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me!
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