94: Managing Up: How to Handle an Unpredictable Boss

He's a "great guy" but he calls pregnant teammates "disabled," doles out off-color jokes in your one-on-ones, and swings between warm and erratic so fast you get emotional whiplash. Sound familiar? In this episode of Hannah Hotline, we break down how to handle a boss who's unpredictable and inappropriate without quitting and without losing yourself. This isn't about managing his moods; it's about protecting your own sanity and career while you're in his orbit.  Here's what we cover: - Why his behavior is classed as bullying and harassment (even if it's not aimed at you) - The psychology of "hypervigilance" and why you feel on edge all the time - Exactly what to say when he crosses a line (scripts included) - How to get clarity on his inconsistent decisions without confrontation - The one habit that protects you if things escalate: documenting everything Timestamps: 01:00 — The listener's dilemma: the "great guy" with the off-color comments 02:35 — Why this behavior is bullying and harassment even when it's not aimed at you 04:17 — The power dynamic at play (and why millennials stay quiet) 04:50 — How to speak up: scripts for shutting down inappropriate comments 06:38 — The golden rule: document everything 07:28 — How to manage his inconsistent decisions (get clarity in writing) 08:58 — What's actually in your control (and what's not) 09:17 — The recap: protect yourself, don't manage his moods #CareerAdvice #workplacebullying #ManagingUp #workplacetoxicity  #HannahHotline #toxicworkenvironment #workboundaries