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EPISODE · Nov 26, 2025 · 22 MIN

Abuse Is A Choice: Here’s What Really Drives It And How Men Can Change

from Excellence Above Talent Podcast · host Aaron Thomas

Send us Fan MailWe unpack why abuse is a learned choice rooted in fear, control, and missing emotional skills, and we map a path toward accountability and healthier leadership. We share the “button” concept, name nonphysical abuse, and end with three reflection questions to drive change.• the myth of losing control and the truth about choice• fear of losing control and the pursuit of order• the button metaphor for triggers and responses• nonphysical abuse: verbal, emotional, financial, isolation, threats• male privilege versus partnership and communication• emotional literacy as a missing skill and a learned practice• extreme ownership and accountability over ego protection• identity untangled from power, status, and dominance• reflection questions for honest self-assessmentShare this episode and sit down with the reflection questions in front of a mirror. Because growth starts with truth. Be sure to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode. For daily, motivational, and up-to-date content, follow us on Facebook and Instagram at ExcellenceAbove Talent. Keep moving forward. Never give up, and you are never alone in this battle.Support the show#excellenceabovetalent #EAT #dontgiveup #youdeservethebest #youareenough ...

Send us Fan Mail We unpack why abuse is a learned choice rooted in fear, control, and missing emotional skills, and we map a path toward accountability and healthier leadership. We share the “button” concept, name nonphysical abuse, and end with three reflection questions to drive change. • the myth of losing control and the truth about choice • fear of losing control and the pursuit of order • the button metaphor for triggers and responses • nonphysical abuse: verbal, emotional, financial, ...

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