EPISODE · Dec 16, 2025 · 51 MIN
Adoption Stories: From Neighbor to Mom, When Adoption Intersects Your Life
from Behind the Curtain: Honest Conversations about Foster Care and Adoption · host Rebecca Harvin
In this episode, we explore foster parenting advice and adoption resources through the story of a neighbor's crisis that led to adopting two teens. Mary shares her transition from a career police officer's mindset to trauma-informed parenting, revealing the challenges and rewards of becoming an adoptive family. Listen to how they moved from emergency foster care to adoption, emphasizing foster care advocacy, attachment, and the power of community support and therapy guidance. This episode highlights practical wins and sustainable hope for caregivers navigating the complex journey of foster care and adoption.In this episode, we cover:• noticing red flags across the street and stepping in• compartmentalizing as a cop clashing with trauma needs• one month of emergency care moving toward TPR• faith, foster care, and deciding on adoption for teens• learning attachment, repair, and that 30% is good enough• releasing outcomes and lowering the pressure cooker• practical wins with car rides, routines, and apologies• deep wounds healing slowly and rewards arriving rarely but powerfully• community support, therapy guidance, and sustainable hopeSubscribe, rate, and share Behind The Curtain to help more families find honest adoption storiesRegistration is now open for our annual Bio Kid Retreat weekend June 26-28 at North Florida Christian Camp. Go to www.havenretreatsinc.org for more information. Follow us on Instagram:Haven Retreats- https://www.instagram.com/haven.retreats/?hl=enBehind the Curtain Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/behind.the.curtain_pod/
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In this episode, we explore foster parenting advice and adoption resources through the story of a neighbor's crisis that led to adopting two teens. Mary shares her transition from a career police officer's mindset to trauma-informed parenting, revealing the challenges and rewards of becoming an adoptive family. Listen to how they moved from emergency foster care to adoption, emphasizing foster care advocacy, attachment, and the power of community support and therapy guidance. This episode hig...
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