Adoption Stories: From Neighbor to Mom, When Adoption Intersects Your Life

In this episode, we explore foster parenting advice and adoption resources through the story of a neighbor's crisis that led to adopting two teens. Mary shares her transition from a career police officer's mindset to trauma-informed parenting, revealing the challenges and rewards of becoming an adoptive family. Listen to how they moved from emergency foster care to adoption, emphasizing foster care advocacy, attachment, and the power of community support and therapy guidance. This episode highlights practical wins and sustainable hope for caregivers navigating the complex journey of foster care and adoption.In this episode, we cover:• noticing red flags across the street and stepping in• compartmentalizing as a cop clashing with trauma needs• one month of emergency care moving toward TPR• faith, foster care, and deciding on adoption for teens• learning attachment, repair, and that 30% is good enough• releasing outcomes and lowering the pressure cooker• practical wins with car rides, routines, and apologies• deep wounds healing slowly and rewards arriving rarely but powerfully• community support, therapy guidance, and sustainable hopeSubscribe, rate, and share Behind The Curtain to help more families find honest adoption storiesWe know that foster care and adoption present unique challenges for your marriage, so we created this Same Page Checklist as a conversation starter for you and your spouse. You can download it for free on our website at https://www.havenretreatsinc.org/couples-free-resources-1. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram:Haven Retreats- https://www.instagram.com/haven.retreats/?hl=enBehind the Curtain Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/behind.the.curtain_pod/