Adult friendships and all the juice

We all need/want friends But it’s like every relationship, it takes 2. We are all always quick to point fingers and judge. We gotta work on ourselves as well. We like to have friends cause we like to feel that we matter. We need to feel affirmed. But we really don’t need outside affirmation. The more you need that from other people, the more needy and desperate you are gonna be in your friendships