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EPISODE · May 27, 2026 · 29 MIN

After 35: Finding Love and Laughs in All the Wrong Places!

from Gotta Get Said. · host Matthew Cuocco

In this episode, we dive headfirst into the absolute circus that is dating after 35. If you thought the game was hard in your 20s, wait until you’re trying to vet potential partners who have chronic back pain, a mortgage, and a rigid bedtime. We’re breaking down why the apps feel like a digital dumpster fire and why "settling" starts to sound like a solid life plan.Then, we pivot to a spicy take on charity: why handing a homeless person a lukewarm granola bar instead of a five-dollar bill is, quite frankly, a total jerk move. We’re dissecting the "kindness" we force on people who just need cash, and why your leftover sandwich isn't the life-changing gift you think it is. It’s a wild ride through the complexities of modern romance and the questionable ethics of our own "generosity." Buckle up—it gets awkward.

In this episode, we dive headfirst into the absolute circus that is dating after 35. If you thought the game was hard in your 20s, wait until you’re trying to vet potential partners who have chronic back pain, a mortgage, and a rigid bedtime. We’re breaking down why the apps feel like a digital dumpster fire and why "settling" starts to sound like a solid life plan. Then, we pivot to a spicy take on charity: why handing a homeless person a lukewarm granola bar instead of a five-dollar bill i...

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