EPISODE · Jul 16, 2026 · 1H 3M
Ali Lapper - Disability, Grief, and Radical Self-Acceptance
from If I’m Really Honest · host jamincoller
Ali Lapper is an internationally acclaimed artist, disability rights advocate, author, television presenter, and former subject of one of Britain's most iconic public sculptures. Her monumental portrait, "Alison Lapper Pregnant," stood on the Fourth Plinth in Trafalgar Square, making her one of the most recognizable disability advocates in the world. In this conversation, Ali and I discuss disability, beauty, self-acceptance, grief, motherhood, identity, and what it means to live authentically. We explore society's obsession with "normal," why perfection is overrated, how she learned to become comfortable in her own skin, the challenges of raising a child while disabled, the devastating loss of her son Paris, and how she found a way to keep living after unimaginable grief. Along the way, we talk about humor, resilience, friendship, accessibility, and why curiosity is often more valuable than certainty. GUEST LINKS Book - My Life In My Hands: https://amzn.to/4vAd6q8 Ali Lapper Official Website: https://www.alilapper.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alison_lapper_mbe MORE FROM IF I'M REALLY HONEST Website: https://IfImReallyHonest.com Superfan Community: https://JaminColler.com/iirh_Superfans #IfImReallyHonest #TeamPossiblyWrong
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Ali Lapper is an internationally acclaimed artist, disability rights advocate, author, television presenter, and former subject of one of Britain's most iconic public sculptures. Her monumental portrait, "Alison Lapper Pregnant," stood on the Fourth Plinth in Trafalgar Square, making her one of the most recognizable disability advocates in the world. In this conversation, Ali and I discuss disability, beauty, self-acceptance, grief, motherhood, identity, and what it means to live authentically. We explore society's obsession with "normal," why perfection is overrated, how she learned to become comfortable in her own skin, the challenges of raising a child while disabled, the devastating loss of her son Paris, and how she found a way to keep living after unimaginable grief. Along the way, we talk about humor, resilience, friendship, accessibility, and why curiosity is often more valuable than certainty. GUEST LINKS Book - My Life In My Hands: https://amzn.to/4vAd6q8 Ali Lapper Official Website:https://www.alilapper.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/alison_lapper_mbe MORE FROM IF I'M REALLY HONEST Website:https://IfImReallyHonest.com Superfan Community:https://JaminColler.com/iirh_Superfans #IfImReallyHonest #TeamPossiblyWrong
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