Am I Forcing This? How to Know When to Let Go and Pivot -...

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You’ve been holding on tight — to the plan, the person, the dream — but something doesn’t feel right anymore. You keep telling yourself it’s just fear or hard work… but deep down, you’re not sure if you’re fighting for something meaningful or forcing something that’s already expired.Host Ambar Paloma unpacks one of the most common blocks while reinventing yourself: the fear of letting go.You’ll learn how to tell if you’re forcing something out of fear vs. fighting with purpose, the red flags that signal misalignment — even when it looks “good on paper," and the mindset shifts you need to pivot with clarity.✨ Your Next Right Step:Apply for The Pivot SZN, a 1:1 Coaching Program for women ready for change: ⁠https://thepivotseason.kit.com/coaching⁠⁠Sign Up The Future You Letters⁠: a monthly guide to keep the momentum aliveGrab Your Reinvention Playbook, a free mini-course to kick off your next chapter.Shop ⁠Make The Decision⁠: The 4 step guide to stop second guessing yourself and finally commit to the path that’s right for you⁠Follow Me On Instagram⁠⁠⁠Explore my must-read books for resilience!⁠⁠Chapters:00:00 –Introduction & Episode Overview00:54 –The Struggle Between Forcing & Fighting03:20 –Personal Story: The Breakup That Changed Everything07:32 –Desperation vs. Inspiration: How Are You Setting Your Goals?12:32 –Red Flags: Signs You’re Forcing Something20:20 –Green Flags: Signs You’re Fighting for Something Worthwhile25:42 –Embracing Flow: Letting Go & Trusting Life’s Timing27:55 –Final Reflection: A Message of Ease, Trust, & Surrender

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This episode was published on February 10, 2025.

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