Am I Settling or Just Being Realistic?

In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, and another from a single listener questioning whether to lower their standards or stay single while searching for someone who truly excites them. We unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic checklists, attraction versus compatibility, and how to trust yourself when it comes to matters of the heart. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!) Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople #CowboyColostrumPod Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares