AMERICAN FAMILIES ARE BROKEN INTO FRACTALS AND FACTIONS ... FOR OR AGAINST

Currently there are 125 million fatherless, or motherless children in America. There are 1 million gang members in our cities.  75% of the abortions are in the ghettos. All because of premarital sex, drugs, CRIME, and 2.4 million divorces per year. Now, further complicated by millions of migrants from 140 different country's cultural values, entering America illegally, without our system of work ethic, and risk taking patriotism.  Making life in America, even more unstable for everyone.   CULTURALLY, ARE AMERICAN FAMILIES, FOR OR AGAINST DIVORCE, DESPITE RIGHT OR WRONG BEHAVIOR. TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM, IS THE CURRENT POLITICAL LEADERSHIP TAKING THE FAMILY BACK TO THE VALUES OF THE '50'S AND 60'S, OR USING FEAR TO TAKE USA, TO CONFRONTATION AND SELF DESTRUCTION?  This podcast is intended to bring the family back together in some form. Be it a blended solution, or a splint to repair the broken family,. Is divorice to blame when it creates leagal orphans, wondering if it was their fault. Or is it trangressions splitting us due to the violent video games, vulger, and excess that we view in our lives or others on Instagram, Meta, TikTok, Snap Chat, Chat, DPT? I don't claim to be an expert on mental brain drain, AI and control by propaganda mechanisms. But I’m an expert on family.  Having been married for 64 years in November 2023, my wife and I have authored 21 books on family, policies, health care, and extended families. In our opinion the problems in America are far deeper then family dinner, celebrations of holidays, birthdays and passings. In our book 12 Vows to stay married, Forever After focuses on the ten commandments with the final two being never go to bed mad at each other, and make love forever with you wife. It makes no room for affairs, living together before marriage, having children out of wedlock, teen pregnancies, sex before marriage.  That may be impossible due to the sextual revolution displayed on porn, vulgar, violent, and excessive emphasis on the anything goes syndrome. Regardless, our country is Great because we can express ourselves freely, without retribution except for the consequences of deviate, and extreme behavior resulting in violence, vulgarity and excess. Then why do 50% of American marriages end the vows, because of violence, vulgarity and excessive habits. Is it our entertainment, sports, video game habits, schooling, family problems from violence, vulgarity, and excess. In my opinion all of those, and most importantly the lack of love, and commitment to the family tree that needs sustenance every day or it will dry out and die. Shari and I have a family tree of 32 offspring from our relationship, and its growing.   Do we have Shangri La, no.  Do we all follow the same leaders, no.  Do we like each other, including in-laws, no.  Do we pray to the same God, probably not.  What holds us together is more spiritual than substance.  Love is the right word, but its application is where it becomes hard. Our society is dividing all of us, into fractals and factions. Since, we can never totally agree on politics, sports, religions, and habits.  Opinions cause problems that in our society are called issues. I don’t claim to be a marriage counselor, or an expert on relationships.  Do I accept that getting married later, as is the case now, causes early break-ups. Yes, living in cohabitation results in more problems later. Is that a do-gooder theory.  Probably, because Shari and I waited to have intercourse before marriage. Of course, we got married to have sex, after dating two years of kissing, petting and venturing close to the big Intercourse word.  Being 20 and 19 meant we would be able to last 64 years, in a society where that doesn’t happen much anymore. Do we expect the same behavior from our Children, and grandchildren, no.  It’s a personal discission with consequences. However, we do try to set the example of what is possible at any age or relationship. Positive not negative reinforcement.