An all in one man or woman is a mirage. That man or woman is a work in progress.

is delusional to search for someone who has got it all together in marriage; they don’t exist. We have to accept that human beings have limits. Many bachelors or spinsters want it all complete in one; they want a partner who is handsome/beautiful, God-fearing, spiritual, smart, business inclined, social, rich, well travelled, well educated and kind. It’s an interesting package but you will, in all likelihood, not have all these attributes in one person at the inception of a marriage, that’s the truth! Where one seems deficient, the other will be efficient.