Are Narcissists Born This Way?
An episode of the No Visible Bruises podcast, hosted by Caroline Strawson, titled "Are Narcissists Born This Way?" was published on July 20, 2021 and runs 12 minutes.
July 20, 2021 ·12m · No Visible Bruises
Summary
In today's episode, we will talk about something I get asked a lot - are narcissists born that way? We will discuss the impact of intergenerational trauma on a narcissist's development, the role of their protective parts, and the root causes of their behaviour. What You Will Learn In This Episode: - Why we say that narcissists are formed and not born - The connection between a narcissist's intergenerational trauma and how their protective parts show up - How worthiness wounds are formed - Why as a society, we must start looking more at the root causes than symptoms of narcissistic behaviour When we talk about compassion, and understanding narcissistic behaviour, we are not talking about justifying their abuse. We talk about using empathy to understand the origin of their conduct, to know what triggers it, and to understand what it triggers in us, so we can build boundaries around it. Resources: - Join my Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme™ https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse - Join my Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse - Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/ - My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/
Episode Description
In today's episode, we will talk about something I get asked a lot - are narcissists born that way? We will discuss the impact of intergenerational trauma on a narcissist's development, the role of their protective parts, and the root causes of their behaviour.
What You Will Learn In This Episode:
- Why we say that narcissists are formed and not born
- The connection between a narcissist's intergenerational trauma and how their protective parts show up
- How worthiness wounds are formed
- Why as a society, we must start looking more at the root causes than symptoms of narcissistic behaviour
When we talk about compassion, and understanding narcissistic behaviour, we are not talking about justifying their abuse. We talk about using empathy to understand the origin of their conduct, to know what triggers it, and to understand what it triggers in us, so we can build boundaries around it.
Resources:
- Join my Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme™ https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse
- Join my Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse
- Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/
- My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/
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