Are you Living a Life that is Yours?

When you’re used to paying attention to what everyone else wants, needs, and thinks, it can be surprisingly easy to lose touch with what actually matters to you.In this episode of Quiet Power, I’m talking about why connecting with your values is especially important for Enneagram Nines…and how your values can become a compass when you’re making decisions, navigating relationships, or deciding what success looks like for you.I also share the story behind my recent decision to close The Bold Nine, a membership I created four years ago and loved deeply. Nothing had necessarily gone wrong. But I eventually realized that holding onto it was keeping me from something I valued even more: deeper connection with the people I work with.We’ll talk about how knowing your values can help you stay grounded when your choices disappoint or worry someone else, and recognize when something that once fit your life may no longer fit the person you’re becoming.Get the free Values Exploration Workbook:If you’d like to get clearer about the values you’re already living and the ones you want to embody more fully, I created a free Values Exploration Workbook to walk you through the process. You’ll identify your most important values, envision what your life could look like if you lived them more fully, and learn how to use them to make decisions with greater clarity. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit heatherfillmore.substack.com