“Are You Seeing Anyone?” - Heartiste

Range of Responses: 1. Sincerity “I’ve been dating someone for a bit, but I can’t say for sure she is the one.” 2. Lying: “No.” 3. Evasion / Reframing Few women will follow-up an expertly delivered evasion with cunty lawyerly argumentation. This is because women who ask such questions don’t really want to know the unvarnished answer. The question is asked only to give them plausible deniability should they find themselves bedding a taken man. 4. Circumspection “I’m dating around.” This is my favorite answer, regardless of its accuracy. First, it shuts down further inquiry. Second, it leaves things open to interpretation. 5. Challenge “I’m not tied down yet.” 6. Agree & Amplify “One?” 7. Aloofness “Nothing serious.”